Just checking in to say hello and I love you to everyone on here. Holidays can be rough and I just wanted everyone who reads this to know you have a community that cares about you. If you don't have anyone else to talk to at least we have this board.
Be safe , be health , be strong. There is hope and light at the end of the tunnel no matter how long it may seem.
Thanks Matts, I agree wholeheartedly with your post. Be well.
"What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop
My sister and nieces did not even bother to wish me or my parents a merry Christmas.
My parents help them out a lot and I have been a good uncle yet they don't care.
My other sister is estranged from everyone in my family except my dad. Her husband came over this morning with nephew and niece which was nice. Except for the part where my brother in law asked me what I think of Trump and started talking about how great Trump is for the American economy. Kind of annoying he assumes I'm a right winger when I have never discussed my political leanings with him.
I see my friends posting photos of their family Christmas gatherings on social media and they're all having fun but my family are fucked up. My parents are sad that my sister and nieces did not wish them a merry Christmas.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
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up my ass, like Chadwick was up his Posts: 35,893
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
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memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Because she thinks I don't have a mind of my own. She thinks others control my life. She blames my best friend for me choosing to be atheist. She looks at me like I'm possessed by satan and need an exorcism. My brother in law thinks I am right winger. Noone knows me in my family
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mickeyrat
up my ass, like Chadwick was up his Posts: 35,893
Because she thinks I don't have a mind of my own. She thinks others control my life. She blames my best friend for me choosing to be atheist. She looks at me like I'm possessed by satan and need an exorcism. My brother in law thinks I am right winger. Noone knows me in my family
Is any of it true? then so fucking what, what they think. wrong is wrong.
Frankly , its a good thing they dont know you. really, its easier then to cut them off. which you absolutely MUST do.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
I can't wait. After I finish university I am moving out of my city and an hour away to be closer to those that matter to me. I thought I'd stay here because of my nieces but they don't give a fuck about me in their selfish little worlds.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
How is everyone doing? As for me, I'm okay. Just dealing with butthurt parents that cannot accept I am an atheist.
You need to perfect the art of giving zero fucks what your parents think. Seriously. Zero fucks.
good book.....
I'm listening to "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life" on Scribd. Check it out: https://www.scribd.com/audiobook/323820252
this links the audio version on scribd. also available in print here or through amazon, kindle and audible
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
How is everyone doing? As for me, I'm okay. Just dealing with butthurt parents that cannot accept I am an atheist.
You need to perfect the art of giving zero fucks what your parents think. Seriously. Zero fucks.
It's hard when they have a frown on their faces all day long. They both look so angry and depressed. Mum isn't talking to me and dad won't speak to me in a nice manner. Very short and with attitude. I hate that it destroys them this much because I feel responsible.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
How is everyone doing? As for me, I'm okay. Just dealing with butthurt parents that cannot accept I am an atheist.
You need to perfect the art of giving zero fucks what your parents think. Seriously. Zero fucks.
good book.....
I'm listening to "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life" on Scribd. Check it out: https://www.scribd.com/audiobook/323820252
this links the audio version on scribd. also available in print here or through amazon, kindle and audible
I have read that book.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
How is everyone doing? As for me, I'm okay. Just dealing with butthurt parents that cannot accept I am an atheist.
You need to perfect the art of giving zero fucks what your parents think. Seriously. Zero fucks.
It's hard when they have a frown on their faces all day long. They both look so angry and depressed. Mum isn't talking to me and dad won't speak to me in a nice manner. Very short and with attitude. I hate that it destroys them this much because I feel responsible.
I'm sorry you're going through that right now. It sucks to know your parents are suffering, (even when you don't get along with them).
How is everyone doing? As for me, I'm okay. Just dealing with butthurt parents that cannot accept I am an atheist.
You need to perfect the art of giving zero fucks what your parents think. Seriously. Zero fucks.
It's hard when they have a frown on their faces all day long. They both look so angry and depressed. Mum isn't talking to me and dad won't speak to me in a nice manner. Very short and with attitude. I hate that it destroys them this much because I feel responsible.
I'm sorry you're going through that right now. It sucks to know your parents are suffering, (even when you don't get along with them).
Thanks. It's like emotional blackmail.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
How is everyone doing? As for me, I'm okay. Just dealing with butthurt parents that cannot accept I am an atheist.
You need to perfect the art of giving zero fucks what your parents think. Seriously. Zero fucks.
It's hard when they have a frown on their faces all day long. They both look so angry and depressed. Mum isn't talking to me and dad won't speak to me in a nice manner. Very short and with attitude. I hate that it destroys them this much because I feel responsible.
Mind games.
You may feel culpable (and maybe you are, for not personifying what they want), but they are responsible for how they treat you, what they say, and on.
Consider this further proof that (I believe) it would benefit your state of mind to distance yourself from them, both literally and figuratively. At least, until you're at a point where you really DON'T give any fucks.
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mickeyrat
up my ass, like Chadwick was up his Posts: 35,893
How is everyone doing? As for me, I'm okay. Just dealing with butthurt parents that cannot accept I am an atheist.
You need to perfect the art of giving zero fucks what your parents think. Seriously. Zero fucks.
good book.....
I'm listening to "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life" on Scribd. Check it out: https://www.scribd.com/audiobook/323820252
this links the audio version on scribd. also available in print here or through amazon, kindle and audible
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
I know I'm in the minority on this one, but "they're my parents" works for me. I didn't talk to my father for quite a few years, and it isn't such a black and white decision. It is complicated and painful as fuck.
I know I'm in the minority on this one, but "they're my parents" works for me. I didn't talk to my father for quite a few years, and it isn't such a black and white decision. It is complicated and painful as fuck.
True, it’s not black and white! I rather meant that when people constantly treat you badly, them being your parents should not be an excuse for them. It shouldn’t mean you have to let them do it „just because they’re your parents“
I know I'm in the minority on this one, but "they're my parents" works for me. I didn't talk to my father for quite a few years, and it isn't such a black and white decision. It is complicated and painful as fuck.
True, it’s not black and white! I rather meant that when people constantly treat you badly, them being your parents should not be an excuse for them. It shouldn’t mean you have to let them do it „just because they’re your parents“
I understand, thank you for explaining. .
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mickeyrat
up my ass, like Chadwick was up his Posts: 35,893
yep. any family or friend can still be family and friend. just from over there. waaaaay over there.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
I dont speak to my dad and im pleased. I didn't want to feel shit about his behaviours anymore. Sometimes you have to stop them the only way is distance.
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How is everyone doing? As for me, I'm okay. Just dealing with butthurt parents that cannot accept I am an atheist.
You need to perfect the art of giving zero fucks what your parents think. Seriously. Zero fucks.
It's hard when they have a frown on their faces all day long. They both look so angry and depressed. Mum isn't talking to me and dad won't speak to me in a nice manner. Very short and with attitude. I hate that it destroys them this much because I feel responsible.
Thoughts_Arrive, just checking in to see how you are doing.
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Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
After I finish university I am moving out of my city and an hour away to be closer to those that matter to me.
I thought I'd stay here because of my nieces but they don't give a fuck about me in their selfish little worlds.
As for me, I'm okay. Just dealing with butthurt parents that cannot accept I am an atheist.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
You may feel culpable (and maybe you are, for not personifying what they want), but they are responsible for how they treat you, what they say, and on.
Consider this further proof that (I believe) it would benefit your state of mind to distance yourself from them, both literally and figuratively. At least, until you're at a point where you really DON'T give any fucks.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Think about that. And write down why you care. I bet you cant know why.
So stop
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Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
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albany 06
hartford 06
reading 06
barcelona 06
paris 06
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