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  • vogonpoetbythelake
    vogonpoetbythelake Posts: 2,146
    deadendp said:
    hedonist said:
    lastexitlondon said:
    My view is that its full of cowards.  Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time..

    To be fair, I know many who regularly go to church, temple, etc.  Damn fine people!
    Ooooo! Me! Me! I'm one of those! :smiley:

    In fairness, I know what Rob means as Christians can be some of the most judgmental people, but sweeping statements both ways aren't helpful either. (No, I'm not cracking on you, Rob.)

    We're Methodist. Methodists are those who kind of don't fit into the mold. I grew up Catholic and was Baptist for most of my life. For me and my family, neither is a particularly good fit. (Not here to bash religions or people here who might be either.) For us and our place of worship, we find "Open Hearts. Open Minds. Open Doors," a great fit for us. I won't go into the latest struggles with the umbrella over Methodists, but separate churches (we being one) are so thrilled to have anyone come to worship with us. We are accepting of all and we are a safe place. We are a safe church family to confide in and the outreach we do to help the hurt, hungry and those in need without judgment truly speaks to the Methodist motto. 

    But back to thread integrity, religion and those who beat you upside the head with bibles and opinions can definitely cause anxiety. I get that. I really do. 
    Thank you for sharing...I know a few church going folks who definitely walk the talk... live and love and make community happen in a good way...we would be poorer without them...
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I have a Christmas party to attend today.
    My art teacher is hosting. I don't know most of the people attending. My anxiety level is through the roof. I wish I said yes to that anti anxiety drug the psychiatrist recommended.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,473
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I have a Christmas party to attend today.
    My art teacher is hosting. I don't know most of the people attending. My anxiety level is through the roof. I wish I said yes to that anti anxiety drug the psychiatrist recommended.
    will be an important experience then.....
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    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    So depressed too.
    Going to have to wear a mask for a few hours. I feel I've lost everything I love.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Try to go into it with an open mind. What’s the worst that can happen?
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,473
    hedonist said:
    Try to go into it with an open mind. What’s the worst that can happen?
    no no no. whats the best that can happen? put your focus there......

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    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    It was okay. Was freaked out by so many strangers. I mainly hung around students in my class.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,904
    I just know you can smash this  .M
    Its all state of mind and you are pushing  yourself.  So important.


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Thanks Rob.

    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • JPPJ84
    JPPJ84 Hamburg, Germany Posts: 3,464
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    It was okay. Was freaked out by so many strangers. I mainly hung around students in my class.
    That’s good! You didn’t back out and you went, mark that as a step in the right direction! It’s normal to stick to people you know, I‘d do the same. Were you able to do some conversation with them?

  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Hey, yeah. I invited myself to their group chat. I almost didn't go today.


    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • JPPJ84
    JPPJ84 Hamburg, Germany Posts: 3,464
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Hey, yeah. I invited myself to their group chat. I almost didn't go today.


    Excellent. Keep it going, even if it seems awkward or tough sometimes. You‘ll get more comfortable with time and practice. Have you asked your best friend or some of your older friends to catch up? Or you could go see a band in a pub? This task may seem daunting but you’ve just made a very important first step! 
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I have not asked as my best friend said we will catch up when he finishes work for the year. I feel like I'll be pressuring him by asking. Plus he's busy being a new dad.
    My other friends I have to ask. One asked if I wanted to come over to record 2 songs. I said yes but it hasn't happened yet.
    I've gone to see bands alone a number of times so this doesn't bother me as everyone is there to see a band not socialise.
    Seeing my friends like 2 or 3 times a year sucks.

    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,904
    I want you guys who suffer to know what its meant to have this page in my life.
    Ive come here and only here because nobody is nasty and nobody judges me here. 
    If im not here probably  means things got too much or its over. 
    I wish you all peace and the ability  to fly high in the sky. Go for what makes your heart sing. Whilst i was able i did that. All i can cling to is at least i had my day in the sun.


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • Fifthelement
    Fifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,965
    Thinking about you Rob.  Hope you’re able to hang in a little longer my friend.  Sending warm, healing thoughts your way.
    "What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    My best wishes Rob. Keep punching mate. 
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Fifthelement
    Fifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,965
    Just checking in Rob.  Hope you’re doing better.
    "What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop
  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    edited December 2019
    lastexitlondon, Please know that you have a community here that supports you. I hope you find strength in that.
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  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,904
    Thank you  all


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • Matts3221
    Matts3221 Posts: 658

    LastExit and everyone else on this board.

    Just checking in to say hello and I love you to everyone on here. Holidays can be rough and I just wanted everyone who reads this to know you have a community that cares about you. If you don't have anyone else to talk to at least we have this board.

    Be safe , be health , be strong. There is hope and light at the end of the tunnel no matter how long it may seem.

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