this all just sounds so awful.
closest i got was looking at rings.
then it was over...and that was probably the roughest time in my life.
guess it was for the best. all these legalities seem to turn people pretty backwards.
sincere best of luck to all
dont think im ever getting married
this all just sounds so awful.
closest i got was looking at rings.
then it was over...and that was probably the roughest time in my life.
guess it was for the best. all these legalities seem to turn people pretty backwards.
sincere best of luck to all
dont think im ever getting married
well, yeah--there are much more fun things i can think of doing besides getting divorced!!!
I'm definitely NOT looking forward to the legal stuff...I really hope we can keep things as civil as they've been, but who knows.
It'll be a long waiting process, though. We both have moved to different states and have to wait for residency. I think the soonest we can file is October.
Doesn't really matter, I'm not talking to him anyway and we are living completely separate lives.
No kids, thank goodness, but I'm gonna miss my doggies.
I wish all the best to everyone else going through this.
i'm so sorry....i wish you the best.
hope this is the start of brighter days for you, and anyone going thru this....
I am sorry to all that are getting separated or a divorce...i have never had either...thank god...but I do know one thing..my Wifes Ex has totally destroyed there kids lives...its very very sad...the games he plays with them is just horried:( ill keep it short..lets just say..he lied and brainwashed one to move in with him..so now he doesnt have to pay child support...and now shes a mess..because its horried over there.because well. the other one lives with us and has a court order never to see her father again( tried to kill herself serveral times.....so the other child gets all the lashing.. now...its a sad f-ed up stuff going on:( its depressing...
I am sorry to all that are getting separated or a divorce...i have never had either...thank god...but I do know one thing..my Wifes Ex has totally destroyed there kids lives...its very very sad...the games he plays with them is just horried:( ill keep it short..lets just say..he lied and brainwashed one to move in with him..so now he doesnt have to pay child support...and now shes a mess..because its horried over there.because well. the other one lives with us and has a court order never to see her father again( tried to kill herself serveral times.....so the other child gets all the lashing.. now...its a sad f-ed up stuff going on:( its depressing...
jeez.....that does not sound like a good situation...especially for the kids.
Thankfully i am in an extremely happy marriage (9 years)..
Keep the chins up to everyone else
I looked at an apartment yesterday, and I really have a good feeling about it. Now I just have to fill out forms on line on the court house site, and then turn them into them, and then he'll be served.
I looked at an apartment yesterday, and I really have a good feeling about it. Now I just have to fill out forms on line on the court house site, and then turn them into them, and then he'll be served.
I looked at an apartment yesterday, and I really have a good feeling about it. Now I just have to fill out forms on line on the court house site, and then turn them into them, and then he'll be served.
I've started looking for an apartment too...that's kinda weird to do on my own, but i am really looking forward to having my own place.
good luck getting those papers done...you need that to happen!
It's really been a long time coming... I moved out over this past weekend... I miss my little doggies, 2 Jack Russell Terriers... I need a hug...
sigh ... I miss my JRT (passed last year) ...
but hey, the Red Sox are your boyfriend now! And your boyfriend is kicking the crap out of the Yankees this week!
I'm so sorry about your JRT... How old was your JRT? My oldest will be 8 in August, and she has aged so much so quickly... my youngest is mixed JRT, he'll be 3 this month...
I looked at an apartment yesterday, and I really have a good feeling about it. Now I just have to fill out forms on line on the court house site, and then turn them into them, and then he'll be served.
It's really been a long time coming... I moved out over this past weekend... I miss my little doggies, 2 Jack Russell Terriers... I need a hug...
sigh ... I miss my JRT (passed last year) ...
but hey, the Red Sox are your boyfriend now! And your boyfriend is kicking the crap out of the Yankees this week!
I'm so sorry about your JRT... How old was your JRT? My oldest will be 8 in August, and she has aged so much so quickly... my youngest is mixed JRT, he'll be 3 this month...
I've always had a BIG crush on the Red Sox...
He was 17! Lived a nice long life ... so, really no complaints ... he was the best dog ever!
I know you love your Red Sox!
"You're one of the few Red Sox fans I don't mind." - Newch91
"I don't believe in damn curses. Wake up the damn Bambino and have me face him. Maybe I'll drill him in the ass." --- Pedro Martinez
I hopefully am finished getting things out of the house, and into my apartment... it was a horrible day yesterday... felt like a stabbing pain in my stomach... he :evil: closed a checking account that was in my name, he was added on awhile ago, but I was the primary person on the account... it's going to be a really nasty time...
I hopefully am finished getting things out of the house, and into my apartment... it was a horrible day yesterday... felt like a stabbing pain in my stomach... he :evil: closed a checking account that was in my name, he was added on awhile ago, but I was the primary person on the account... it's going to be a really nasty time...
they do tend to turn on you... I'm sorry, but once rid of him it'll all look up again.
I'm waiting for my light through the clouds!
Pretty soon I'm gonna get on a ladder and move the clouds myself!
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
I hopefully am finished getting things out of the house, and into my apartment... it was a horrible day yesterday... felt like a stabbing pain in my stomach... he :evil: closed a checking account that was in my name, he was added on awhile ago, but I was the primary person on the account... it's going to be a really nasty time...
I'm sorry about this stuff...I'm glad you moved out and are heading in the right direction...all of this BS that he's putting you thru sucks, but will only make YOU stronger in the long run. When all is said and done, you'll be the one who took the high road.
So it's been a month since this began. Dissolution in the works. Still don't agree with the decision , but what can I do?Appears to be a fairly easy process. And further , while I don't agree with the decision , we are cooperating with each other. So I have that going for me!
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
So it's been a month since this began. Dissolution in the works. Still don't agree with the decision , but what can I do?Appears to be a fairly easy process. And further , while I don't agree with the decision , we are cooperating with each other. So I have that going for me!
I think cooperating with each other is great--and whether you agree with the decision or not, it's going to help you in the long run if you can keep it amicable.
I'm getting the dissolution started myself. I met with a lawyer last week who gave me the lowdown on the process, and I'm surprised about how easy it seems so far (just hope it continues to be easy....)
So it's been a month since this began. Dissolution in the works. Still don't agree with the decision , but what can I do?Appears to be a fairly easy process. And further , while I don't agree with the decision , we are cooperating with each other. So I have that going for me!
I think cooperating with each other is great--and whether you agree with the decision or not, it's going to help you in the long run if you can keep it amicable.
I'm getting the dissolution started myself. I met with a lawyer last week who gave me the lowdown on the process, and I'm surprised about how easy it seems so far (just hope it continues to be easy....)
Yes the cooperation is a must. I do love her dearly and want to leave the door open and not burn any bridges with her. She's too important to me to do that.
She says she loves , just no longer as her husband. Believes we have grown to far apart to go to counseling and work on our relationship. There are other issues which I won't go into here , as she is a member too and that stuff is a private matter.And further I'm not looking to hurt her in any kind of forum.
I have a very good attorney , who has inserted some clauses to protect the both of us. She is a law student and drafted the initial papers herself. Did a good job too. So yes I agree a simple and straightforward process. Still don't like this path we're on , but c'est la vie!
Funny how things change.Totally different feelings toward the future now
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Yes the cooperation is a must. I do love her dearly and want to leave the door open and not burn any bridges with her. She's too important to me to do that.
She says she loves , just no longer as her husband. Believes we have grown to far apart to go to counseling and work on our relationship. There are other issues which I won't go into here , as she is a member too and that stuff is a private matter.And further I'm not looking to hurt her in any kind of forum.
I have a very good attorney , who has inserted some clauses to protect the both of us. She is a law student and drafted the initial papers herself. Did a good job too. So yes I agree a simple and straightforward process. Still don't like this path we're on , but c'est la vie!
and so begins my process...we already agreed on the "terms" and now just have to give the lawyer the $ to get the ball rolling. it's kinda crazy how this works.
I've been calling this pro bono referral place for over a month now, and finally yesterday I actually spoke with someone... now I just have to wait to see if I qualify :roll:
It will be almost two months since I've moved out, and I must say I love it, but I still miss my dogs, and I don't have a car, which would bring me more freedom, instead of depending on other people's schedule's to do things...
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
I've been calling this pro bono referral place for over a month now, and finally yesterday I actually spoke with someone... now I just have to wait to see if I qualify :roll:
It will be almost two months since I've moved out, and I must say I love it, but I still miss my dogs, and I don't have a car, which would bring me more freedom, instead of depending on other people's schedule's to do things...
I hope that you qualify--that would be so helpful...anything you can do to make this easier on yourself would be great...we found our lawyer thru a friend, and it's only costing us about 1/3 of what it would have otherwise.
my news---the paperwork was sent in on Thursday, so things are finally happening! I moved into a new apartment...and i'm HAPPY! I hope the rest of you can be happy soon too
my news---the paperwork was sent in on Thursday, so things are finally happening! I moved into a new apartment...and i'm HAPPY! I hope the rest of you can be happy soon too
Glad to hear it girl. Hope I see you soon so we can celebrate your exciting new start!!
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EV: Los Angeles 4.12.2008, Los Angeles 4.13.2008, Nashville 6.17.2009, Nashville 6.18.2009, Memphis 6.20.2009
my news---the paperwork was sent in on Thursday, so things are finally happening! I moved into a new apartment...and i'm HAPPY! I hope the rest of you can be happy soon too
Glad to hear it girl. Hope I see you soon so we can celebrate your exciting new start!!
Agreed. I'm glad it's moving forward for you....Seems to be standing uncomfortably still here. :?
my news---the paperwork was sent in on Thursday, so things are finally happening! I moved into a new apartment...and i'm HAPPY! I hope the rest of you can be happy soon too
Glad to hear it girl. Hope I see you soon so we can celebrate your exciting new start!!
Agreed. I'm glad it's moving forward for you....Seems to be standing uncomfortably still here. :?
oh man...I'm sorry :-( how long have you been at a standstill, Miggy??
I'm really hoping that things progress quickly with my paperwork, but who knows. I'd like to think that, because of how un-complicated mine is, that it will be easy---so now i just have to wait.
oh man...I'm sorry :-( how long have you been at a standstill, Miggy??
I'm really hoping that things progress quickly with my paperwork, but who knows. I'd like to think that, because of how un-complicated mine is, that it will be easy---so now i just have to wait.
My situation is just messed up. I know that having an uncomplicated situation is much easier and I'm so glad that you appreciate it!
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closest i got was looking at rings.
then it was over...and that was probably the roughest time in my life.
guess it was for the best. all these legalities seem to turn people pretty backwards.
sincere best of luck to all
dont think im ever getting married
well, yeah--there are much more fun things i can think of doing besides getting divorced!!!
I'm definitely NOT looking forward to the legal stuff...I really hope we can keep things as civil as they've been, but who knows.
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
i'm so sorry....i wish you the best.
hope this is the start of brighter days for you, and anyone going thru this....
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
jeez.....that does not sound like a good situation...especially for the kids.
Thankfully i am in an extremely happy marriage (9 years)..
Keep the chins up to everyone else
Great thread btw
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
sorry..had too
I've started looking for an apartment too...that's kinda weird to do on my own, but i am really looking forward to having my own place.
good luck getting those papers done...you need that to happen!
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Thank you, dreams. So far, so good.
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
sigh ... I miss my JRT (passed last year) ...
but hey, the Red Sox are your boyfriend now! And your boyfriend is kicking the crap out of the Yankees this week!
"I don't believe in damn curses. Wake up the damn Bambino and have me face him. Maybe I'll drill him in the ass." --- Pedro Martinez
I've always had a BIG crush on the Red Sox...
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
He was 17! Lived a nice long life ... so, really no complaints ... he was the best dog ever!
I know you love your Red Sox!
"I don't believe in damn curses. Wake up the damn Bambino and have me face him. Maybe I'll drill him in the ass." --- Pedro Martinez
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
I'm waiting for my light through the clouds!
Pretty soon I'm gonna get on a ladder and move the clouds myself!
I'm sorry about this stuff...I'm glad you moved out and are heading in the right direction...all of this BS that he's putting you thru sucks, but will only make YOU stronger in the long run. When all is said and done, you'll be the one who took the high road.
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
I think cooperating with each other is great--and whether you agree with the decision or not, it's going to help you in the long run if you can keep it amicable.
I'm getting the dissolution started myself. I met with a lawyer last week who gave me the lowdown on the process, and I'm surprised about how easy it seems so far (just hope it continues to be easy....)
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
She says she loves , just no longer as her husband. Believes we have grown to far apart to go to counseling and work on our relationship. There are other issues which I won't go into here , as she is a member too and that stuff is a private matter.And further I'm not looking to hurt her in any kind of forum.
I have a very good attorney , who has inserted some clauses to protect the both of us. She is a law student and drafted the initial papers herself. Did a good job too. So yes I agree a simple and straightforward process. Still don't like this path we're on , but c'est la vie!
Funny how things change.Totally different feelings toward the future now
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
and so begins my process...we already agreed on the "terms" and now just have to give the lawyer the $ to get the ball rolling. it's kinda crazy how this works.
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
It will be almost two months since I've moved out, and I must say I love it, but I still miss my dogs, and I don't have a car, which would bring me more freedom, instead of depending on other people's schedule's to do things...
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
I hope that you qualify--that would be so helpful...anything you can do to make this easier on yourself would be great...we found our lawyer thru a friend, and it's only costing us about 1/3 of what it would have otherwise.
my news---the paperwork was sent in on Thursday, so things are finally happening! I moved into a new apartment...and i'm HAPPY! I hope the rest of you can be happy soon too
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Glad to hear it girl.
EV: Los Angeles 4.12.2008, Los Angeles 4.13.2008, Nashville 6.17.2009, Nashville 6.18.2009, Memphis 6.20.2009
Agreed. I'm glad it's moving forward for you....Seems to be standing uncomfortably still here. :?
oh man...I'm sorry :-( how long have you been at a standstill, Miggy??
I'm really hoping that things progress quickly with my paperwork, but who knows. I'd like to think that, because of how un-complicated mine is, that it will be easy---so now i just have to wait.
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Enjoy life!! This tour will be beautiful!!