Separating/Divorcing-Anyone in the process?

megatron

this all just sounds so awful.
closest i got was looking at rings.
then it was over...and that was probably the roughest time in my life.
guess it was for the best. all these legalities seem to turn people pretty backwards.

sincere best of luck to all
dont think im ever getting married

pearljgirl2010

MEGATRON wrote:

this all just sounds so awful.
closest i got was looking at rings.
then it was over...and that was probably the roughest time in my life.
guess it was for the best. all these legalities seem to turn people pretty backwards.

sincere best of luck to all
dont think im ever getting married

well, yeah--there are much more fun things i can think of doing besides getting divorced!!!

I'm definitely NOT looking forward to the legal stuff...I really hope we can keep things as civil as they've been, but who knows.

decides2dream

adropinthepark wrote:

I'm finally ready to admit it's over.

It'll be a long waiting process, though. We both have moved to different states and have to wait for residency. I think the soonest we can file is October.

Doesn't really matter, I'm not talking to him anyway and we are living completely separate lives.

No kids, thank goodness, but I'm gonna miss my doggies.

I wish all the best to everyone else going through this.

i'm so sorry....i wish you the best.
hope this is the start of brighter days for you, and anyone going thru this....

pjbugs007

I am sorry to all that are getting separated or a divorce...i have never had either...thank god...but I do know one thing..my Wifes Ex has totally destroyed there kids lives...its very very sad...the games he plays with them is just horried:( ill keep it short..lets just say..he lied and brainwashed one to move in with him..so now he doesnt have to pay child support...and now shes a mess..because its horried over there.because well. the other one lives with us and has a court order never to see her father again( tried to kill herself serveral times.....so the other child gets all the lashing.. now...its a sad f-ed up stuff going on:( its depressing...

IrishJam

pjbugs007 wrote:

I am sorry to all that are getting separated or a divorce...i have never had either...thank god...but I do know one thing..my Wifes Ex has totally destroyed there kids lives...its very very sad...the games he plays with them is just horried:( ill keep it short..lets just say..he lied and brainwashed one to move in with him..so now he doesnt have to pay child support...and now shes a mess..because its horried over there.because well. the other one lives with us and has a court order never to see her father again( tried to kill herself serveral times.....so the other child gets all the lashing.. now...its a sad f-ed up stuff going on:( its depressing...

jeez.....that does not sound like a good situation...especially for the kids.
Thankfully i am in an extremely happy marriage (9 years)..
Keep the chins up to everyone else

Great thread btw

PearlOfAGirl

I looked at an apartment yesterday, and I really have a good feeling about it. Now I just have to fill out forms on line on the court house site, and then turn them into them, and then he'll be served.

pjbugs007

good luck HSBox!

megatron

HeartShapedBox wrote:

I looked at an apartment yesterday, and I really have a good feeling about it. Now I just have to fill out forms on line on the court house site, and then turn them into them, and then he'll be served.

sorry..had too

pearljgirl2010

HeartShapedBox wrote:

I looked at an apartment yesterday, and I really have a good feeling about it. Now I just have to fill out forms on line on the court house site, and then turn them into them, and then he'll be served.

I've started looking for an apartment too...that's kinda weird to do on my own, but i am really looking forward to having my own place.

good luck getting those papers done...you need that to happen!

adropinthepark

decides2dream wrote:

i'm so sorry....i wish you the best.
hope this is the start of brighter days for you, and anyone going thru this....

Thank you, dreams. So far, so good.

PearlOfAGirl

It's really been a long time coming... I moved out over this past weekend... I miss my little doggies, 2 Jack Russell Terriers... I need a hug...

jimed14

HeartShapedBox wrote:

It's really been a long time coming... I moved out over this past weekend... I miss my little doggies, 2 Jack Russell Terriers... I need a hug...

sigh ... I miss my JRT (passed last year) ...

but hey, the Red Sox are your boyfriend now! And your boyfriend is kicking the crap out of the Yankees this week!

PearlOfAGirl

jimed14 wrote:

HeartShapedBox wrote:

It's really been a long time coming... I moved out over this past weekend... I miss my little doggies, 2 Jack Russell Terriers... I need a hug...

sigh ... I miss my JRT (passed last year) ...

but hey, the Red Sox are your boyfriend now! And your boyfriend is kicking the crap out of the Yankees this week!

I'm so sorry about your JRT... How old was your JRT? My oldest will be 8 in August, and she has aged so much so quickly... my youngest is mixed JRT, he'll be 3 this month...

I've always had a BIG crush on the Red Sox...

PearlOfAGirl

MEGATRON wrote:

HeartShapedBox wrote:

I looked at an apartment yesterday, and I really have a good feeling about it. Now I just have to fill out forms on line on the court house site, and then turn them into them, and then he'll be served.

sorry..had too

It's okay...

jimed14

HeartShapedBox wrote:

jimed14 wrote:

HeartShapedBox wrote:

It's really been a long time coming... I moved out over this past weekend... I miss my little doggies, 2 Jack Russell Terriers... I need a hug...

sigh ... I miss my JRT (passed last year) ...

but hey, the Red Sox are your boyfriend now! And your boyfriend is kicking the crap out of the Yankees this week!

I'm so sorry about your JRT... How old was your JRT? My oldest will be 8 in August, and she has aged so much so quickly... my youngest is mixed JRT, he'll be 3 this month...

I've always had a BIG crush on the Red Sox...

He was 17! Lived a nice long life ... so, really no complaints ... he was the best dog ever!

I know you love your Red Sox!

PearlOfAGirl

Wow!! He did live a long time... they are very entertaining dogs too ... how did you ever guess that I love the Red Sox Jim???

PearlOfAGirl

I hopefully am finished getting things out of the house, and into my apartment... it was a horrible day yesterday... felt like a stabbing pain in my stomach... he :evil: closed a checking account that was in my name, he was added on awhile ago, but I was the primary person on the account... it's going to be a really nasty time...

CHANGEinWAVES

HeartShapedBox wrote:

I hopefully am finished getting things out of the house, and into my apartment... it was a horrible day yesterday... felt like a stabbing pain in my stomach... he :evil: closed a checking account that was in my name, he was added on awhile ago, but I was the primary person on the account... it's going to be a really nasty time...

they do tend to turn on you... I'm sorry, but once rid of him it'll all look up again.
I'm waiting for my light through the clouds!
Pretty soon I'm gonna get on a ladder and move the clouds myself!

pearljgirl2010

HeartShapedBox wrote:

I hopefully am finished getting things out of the house, and into my apartment... it was a horrible day yesterday... felt like a stabbing pain in my stomach... he :evil: closed a checking account that was in my name, he was added on awhile ago, but I was the primary person on the account... it's going to be a really nasty time...

I'm sorry about this stuff...I'm glad you moved out and are heading in the right direction...all of this BS that he's putting you thru sucks, but will only make YOU stronger in the long run. When all is said and done, you'll be the one who took the high road.

mickeyrat

So it's been a month since this began. Dissolution in the works. Still don't agree with the decision , but what can I do?Appears to be a fairly easy process. And further , while I don't agree with the decision , we are cooperating with each other. So I have that going for me!