I totally know what you are going through. My husband and I just separated in January - been together for 15 years. It is really difficult but time does help the healing process. Start doing things you want to do - get a pedicure, go out for a drink, go to concerts! Hang in there, you've got friends! pm if you want to talk
I totally know what you are going through. My husband and I just separated in January - been together for 15 years. It is really difficult but time does help the healing process. Start doing things you want to do - get a pedicure, go out for a drink, go to concerts! Hang in there, you've got friends! pm if you want to talk
I'm sorry to hear that. That's a long time to be together. I wish you the best in all that is to come!! ANd plenty of healing and happiness
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
I totally know what you are going through. My husband and I just separated in January - been together for 15 years. It is really difficult but time does help the healing process. Start doing things you want to do - get a pedicure, go out for a drink, go to concerts! Hang in there, you've got friends! pm if you want to talk
hey there...I'm sorry you're going thru this too. I'm working on doing things for me, because I'm important :-)
I totally know what you are going through. My husband and I just separated in January - been together for 15 years. It is really difficult but time does help the healing process. Start doing things you want to do - get a pedicure, go out for a drink, go to concerts! Hang in there, you've got friends! pm if you want to talk
hey there...I'm sorry you're going thru this too. I'm working on doing things for me, because I'm important :-)
and you ROCK too!
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
I totally know what you are going through. My husband and I just separated in January - been together for 15 years. It is really difficult but time does help the healing process. Start doing things you want to do - get a pedicure, go out for a drink, go to concerts! Hang in there, you've got friends! pm if you want to talk
hey there...I'm sorry you're going thru this too. I'm working on doing things for me, because I'm important :-)
So, my husband and I are separating....and I am trying to figure out what the heck to do...I'm so overwhelmed. Any thoughts? Advice?
I'm staying with a friend until i can find my own place...
(I know a certain awesome someone here has been helping me a lot with this--THANK YOU)
I'm filing for divorce, we had agreed on everything and now he's refusing to go before a notary to sign the papers. I've made up my mind, I want out and have for a long time now...
I'm filing for divorce, we had agreed on everything and now he's refusing to go before a notary to sign the papers. I've made up my mind, I want out and have for a long time now...[/quote]
ahh...I'm sorry--that has to be so frustrating for you, knowing what you want and being stuck. I hope he steps up and does it soon :roll:
So, my husband and I are separating....and I am trying to figure out what the heck to do...I'm so overwhelmed. Any thoughts? Advice?
I'm staying with a friend until i can find my own place...
(I know a certain awesome someone here has been helping me a lot with this--THANK YOU)
I'm filing for divorce, we had agreed on everything and now he's refusing to go before a notary to sign the papers. I've made up my mind, I want out and have for a long time now...
This is what I'm most afraid of...I feel so confident of our commitment to make it amicable, but there are so many of these type of stories. I always seems to get ugly.
so I actually went out last night with a girlfriend...it was fascinating how many guys notice when a girl doesn't have a wedding ring on...i felt like i had a giant sign on my head saying "Newly Single-ish!"
when you guys separated and went out on your own, what did you feel like? I almost didn't know what to with myself...
so I actually went out last night with a girlfriend...it was fascinating how many guys notice when a girl doesn't have a wedding ring on...i felt like i had a giant sign on my head saying "Newly Single-ish!"
when you guys separated and went out on your own, what did you feel like? I almost didn't know what to with myself...
Its a strange feeling... At first the though of another man made me sick.... But after time it was fun, and I found I had more confidance then I used to because hey if it didn't work out I had already been married! It was a 'fuck it' attitude.... Before I felt like I HAD to find the right man. I probably scare em off quick cause I don't shy away from being divorced like my one friend does. She says 'I'm outta a long term relationship'... But then again I'm as open as they come, if ya couldn't tell already!
Just go with it... Those 'other guys' will help you decide what you really wanna do in yiur marriage. I'm NOT saying to sleep with em, just that they can help you tell if your husband is/will give you what you need.
It's a long road... And god knows I'm still on it... But it can be fun if you let it be.
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
Its a strange feeling... At first the though of another man made me sick.... But after time it was fun, and I found I had more confidance then I used to because hey if it didn't work out I had already been married! It was a 'fuck it' attitude.... Before I felt like I HAD to find the right man. I probably scare em off quick cause I don't shy away from being divorced like my one friend does. She says 'I'm outta a long term relationship'... But then again I'm as open as they come, if ya couldn't tell already!
Just go with it... Those 'other guys' will help you decide what you really wanna do in yiur marriage. I'm NOT saying to sleep with em, just that they can help you tell if your husband is/will give you what you need.
It's a long road... And god knows I'm still on it... But it can be fun if you let it be.
yeahhhh...I didn't sleep with anyone....at first I was nervous but ended up having a really good time. I guess I have nothing to lose by meeting people. we'll have to facebook chat soon...so i can delve into more details :-)
the best advice I can give you is to take it one day at a time and to stay positive. I'm divorced and even tho I was miserable in my marriage and he was emotionally abusive to me, I never bad mouthed him to anyone.. I focused on myself and my happiness. good luck and peace and love to you.
the best advice I can give you is to take it one day at a time and to stay positive. I'm divorced and even tho I was miserable in my marriage and he was emotionally abusive to me, I never bad mouthed him to anyone.. I focused on myself and my happiness. good luck and peace and love to you.
thank you...I'm focusing on that too--We're very fortunate to be on good terms, and neither of us has any reason to bad mouth the other...helps keep things amicable and positive.
the best advice I can give you is to take it one day at a time and to stay positive. I'm divorced and even tho I was miserable in my marriage and he was emotionally abusive to me, I never bad mouthed him to anyone.. I focused on myself and my happiness. good luck and peace and love to you.
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ha! classic! maybe it's only funny to lawyers.
(sorry, not to make light of the situation. best of luck to everyone going through this.)
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AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH ha ha ha!!!
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hey there...I'm sorry you're going thru this too. I'm working on doing things for me, because I'm important :-)
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
i do.
(and so do you :-) )
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH ha ha ha!!![/quote]
Is it just me or is that one slutty-looking pillow?
I hope we keep quoting the Pillow-picture, because it cracks me up every time!
she's got some serious bedroom eyes :twisted:
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
LOL...she won't look as good in them...
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Wish you were here...
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ahh...I'm sorry--that has to be so frustrating for you, knowing what you want and being stuck. I hope he steps up and does it soon :roll:
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
This is what I'm most afraid of...I feel so confident of our commitment to make it amicable, but there are so many of these type of stories. I always seems to get ugly.
I hope everything goes smoothly, HSB!
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I suggest you step out on your Porch.
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when you guys separated and went out on your own, what did you feel like? I almost didn't know what to with myself...
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Just go with it... Those 'other guys' will help you decide what you really wanna do in yiur marriage. I'm NOT saying to sleep with em, just that they can help you tell if your husband is/will give you what you need.
It's a long road... And god knows I'm still on it... But it can be fun if you let it be.
yeahhhh...I didn't sleep with anyone....at first I was nervous but ended up having a really good time. I guess I have nothing to lose by meeting people. we'll have to facebook chat soon...so i can delve into more details :-)
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
thank you...I'm focusing on that too--We're very fortunate to be on good terms, and neither of us has any reason to bad mouth the other...helps keep things amicable and positive.
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
great advice.