Separating/Divorcing-Anyone in the process?
pearljgirl2010
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So, my husband and I are separating....and I am trying to figure out what the heck to do...I'm so overwhelmed. Any thoughts? Advice?
I'm staying with a friend until i can find my own place...
(I know a certain awesome someone here has been helping me a lot with this--THANK YOU)
I'm staying with a friend until i can find my own place...
(I know a certain awesome someone here has been helping me a lot with this--THANK YOU)
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Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
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I've been lucky that my kids and my school have kept me from thinking about it too much.
It's still new for me, so I don't have advice. But you have my support 100%
pm me anytime...
I wish I had some advice for you... but I don't.
I'm an ear..
Hope I see you this summer and we'll have some good times and happiness to get your mind off everything.
EV: Los Angeles 4.12.2008, Los Angeles 4.13.2008, Nashville 6.17.2009, Nashville 6.18.2009, Memphis 6.20.2009
Good luck to you, and Keep moving forward with your life!
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
I guess it depends on your outlook, right?
Keep your chin up.
It was difficult but I found a way to see happiness and experience it with out him. And now I couldn't imagine being with him.
I wish you nothing but strength, sanity and happiness through all this! You're a strong chick and this will NOT break you!!
I have no advice to give (sorry). I hope things get better
for you fast.
Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
me too :(
sorry if i sound like a little league coach!
hope you start feeling better soon!
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All I can say is what has already been said, you have my support 100%. Stay strong and tough, and you'll make it through alright. You're going into it because you most likely konw it's the best thing to be done...just hang in there. We're all here for you, like a giant shoulder to cry on!
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
I know you're not the only one. It seems every pretty girl on this board is getting divorced these days. Sorry you're becoming part of that group, but I guess at least you've got the pretty thing going for ya!
best mental picture of a giant "pearl-jam-friends'" shoulder :-)
I appreciate the support...I know a lot of people have gone through or are going through this now...I just still feel like i'm standing still and everything has just stopped.
On the positive side, I'm making great new friends and realizing that I have incredible friends because of all this...and I can't wait until the EV shows to thank some of the new friends in person, in Philly.
I feel a bit better, for the moment anyway
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
that made me smile...thanks :-) and yeah, never thought I'd be in that group, but if that's what wil end up making me happy, then I'm OK with it.
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
People keep telling me I WILL be happy....so I'm sure in time it will come for both of us.
The support on this board is amazing. Good folks with genuine concern.
Sounds like a fair mid ground.
*though I wouldn't mind if I had to share my bed every now and then if you catch my drift! hehe.
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh SNAP!
*NYC 9/28/96 *NYC 9/29/96 *NJ 9/8/98 (front row "may i play drums with you")
*MSG 9/10/98 (backstage) *MSG 9/11/98 (backstage)
*Jones Beach 8/23/00 *Jones Beach 8/24/00 *Jones Beach 8/25/00
*Mansfield 8/29/00 *Mansfield 8/30/00 *Nassau 4/30/03 *Nissan VA 7/1/03
*Borgata 10/1/05 *Camden 5/27/06 *Camden 5/28/06 *DC 5/30/06
*VA Beach 6/17/08 *DC 6/22/08 *MSG 6/24/08 (backstage) *MSG 6/25/08
*EV DC 8/17/08 *EV Baltimore 6/15/09 *Philly 10/31/09
*Bristow VA 5/13/10 *MSG 5/20/10 *MSG 5/21/10
it is true... divorce brings happiness for some, especially if you know the marriage isn't right/working.
I wish you happiness PB whichever way that may be.
I have all these photos of the good times, and when I see them I think... "Damn who IS that?!" :roll: