Thanks....Glad you have come out the otherside...Seems like mine is just beginning...A different emotion everday(sometimes every freaking hour )...Mad....sad....relief...lonliness...It changes like the freaking weather...Use to think I was just one of those people who could get through anything unscathed...Turns out I am an emotional wreck at times...Never been this way and it is def strange....16 years....where did the time go and how did we let it die...Swore I would never do that!
yeah...i definitely did not see myself divorced at 31, after being with my ex for 10 years...but am making the best of the situation. it's definitely different for each of us, and I just happened to move past most of this crap quickly, although I do have my moments!!!
the typical advice (take it one day at a time, etc) is the best...it will get better...in the meantime, let yourself be mad, sad, lonely, etc...it's all ok een though it sucks :roll:
Thanks....Glad you have come out the otherside...Seems like mine is just beginning...A different emotion everday(sometimes every freaking hour )...Mad....sad....relief...lonliness...It changes like the freaking weather...Use to think I was just one of those people who could get through anything unscathed...Turns out I am an emotional wreck at times...Never been this way and it is def strange....16 years....where did the time go and how did we let it die...Swore I would never do that!
yeah...i definitely did not see myself divorced at 31, after being with my ex for 10 years...but am making the best of the situation. it's definitely different for each of us, and I just happened to move past most of this crap quickly, although I do have my moments!!!
the typical advice (take it one day at a time, etc) is the best...it will get better...in the meantime, let yourself be mad, sad, lonely, etc...it's all ok een though it sucks :roll:
Truer words were never spoken. 3 1/2 months since the hearing. It does get easier to carry it. Not a day goes by that I don't think of.......
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
I'm glad things are getting a bit easier for you! it's really been over 3 months already? I remember when you posted that the trial had happened...
I know I'll still think of my ex at times, I mean, 10 years with someone makes for a lot of memories!! I just try to remember the good ones.
And when it comes to stuff he always did for me (like computer or car stuff) I reach out to my friends or learn how to do it myself...but i still automatically think of asking him for help...i'll get used to it eventually, i'm sure.
I gave up on forever
And ever and ever
Before it even began
Something like love
Turned into hate
The second that ring
Touched your hand
I let go of the rope
And fell into the dark
And out of the light
Made my stand
You thought I had slipped
Just out of your sight
But God I was so far away
I don't want to come back
I don't want to be found
I know I can never be saved
I crawled to the shore
Of a high mountain lake
Where even my own face
seemed fake
I built a home
And I lived alone
While I stumbled my way
Into grace
I forgot about us
And I let myself be
Now I can't even
Picture your face
You thought I had slipped
Just out of your sight
But God I was so far away
I don't want to come back
I don't want to be found
I know I can never be saved
One foot in front of the other
As I stumble my way into grace
I said one foot in front of the other
As I stumble my way into grace
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AAH HA HA HA....that would be my happy dance and I apologize for my singing...but MAN did we have fun!
you turned to my gf early on and complimented her singing on corduroy lol
and yes twas a good night
that's awesome :-)
this past tour was my reward to myself for going thru this divorce on my terms...I had a blast at every show i went to....maybe we'll see you guys again this tour :-)
AAH HA HA HA....that would be my happy dance and I apologize for my singing...but MAN did we have fun!
you turned to my gf early on and complimented her singing on corduroy lol
and yes twas a good night
that's awesome :-)
this past tour was my reward to myself for going thru this divorce on my terms...I had a blast at every show i went to....maybe we'll see you guys again this tour :-)
i would have zero problem sitting behind you again
i post on the board of a band that doesn't exsist anymore .......i need my head examined.......
this past tour was my reward to myself for going thru this divorce on my terms...I had a blast at every show i went to....maybe we'll see you guys again this tour :-)
i would have zero problem sitting behind you again
LOL! you and my BF can sit behind me and your GF...and she and I can sing together
this past tour was my reward to myself for going thru this divorce on my terms...I had a blast at every show i went to....maybe we'll see you guys again this tour :-)
i would have zero problem sitting behind you again
LOL! you and my BF can sit behind me and your GF...and she and I can sing together
HEY NOW!!
i post on the board of a band that doesn't exsist anymore .......i need my head examined.......
So I am going in tomorrow to sign documents to get the dissolution of marriage under way. I do not really know what to expect. :? My wife left about 7 months ago, and I feel like I have been doing pretty well. I am working out quite a bit, started p90x a few weeks ago. it is all just a little weird going through this at 31 years old. I guess I feel like I should not be. Thank you everyone here who provided support in the past. I really do appreciate it.
So I am going in tomorrow to sign documents to get the dissolution of marriage under way. I do not really know what to expect. :? My wife left about 7 months ago, and I feel like I have been doing pretty well. I am working out quite a bit, started p90x a few weeks ago. it is all just a little weird going through this at 31 years old. I guess I feel like I should not be. Thank you everyone here who provided support in the past. I really do appreciate it.
good luck. keep your chin up!
Everything not forbidden is compulsory and eveything not compulsory is forbidden. You are free... free to do what the government says you can do.
So I am going in tomorrow to sign documents to get the dissolution of marriage under way. I do not really know what to expect. :? My wife left about 7 months ago, and I feel like I have been doing pretty well. I am working out quite a bit, started p90x a few weeks ago. it is all just a little weird going through this at 31 years old. I guess I feel like I should not be. Thank you everyone here who provided support in the past. I really do appreciate it.
hey....i know we've discussed the similarities in our respective situations, but you're welcome to call/text if you want to talk. When this all started for me (at 30), I felt like I had suddenly grown up a LOT...I've felt pretty good over the past 6-8 months...but it was strange to get the final paperwork showing the date that i'll be "single" again. not strange in a bad way, but strange in that it was really happening and going to be over in 5 weeks.
I hope it goes well for you tomorrow...just make sure that you do whatever you need to do to be happy in the long run...good luck, G!
So I am going in tomorrow to sign documents to get the dissolution of marriage under way. I do not really know what to expect. :? My wife left about 7 months ago, and I feel like I have been doing pretty well. I am working out quite a bit, started p90x a few weeks ago. it is all just a little weird going through this at 31 years old. I guess I feel like I should not be. Thank you everyone here who provided support in the past. I really do appreciate it.
Sorry to hear you are going through the process. The workout is a common and healthy way to cope with your situation. Good luck with what lies a head and remember that it gets better.
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yeah...i definitely did not see myself divorced at 31, after being with my ex for 10 years...but am making the best of the situation. it's definitely different for each of us, and I just happened to move past most of this crap quickly, although I do have my moments!!!
the typical advice (take it one day at a time, etc) is the best...it will get better...in the meantime, let yourself be mad, sad, lonely, etc...it's all ok een though it sucks :roll:
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
I know I'll still think of my ex at times, I mean, 10 years with someone makes for a lot of memories!! I just try to remember the good ones.
And when it comes to stuff he always did for me (like computer or car stuff) I reach out to my friends or learn how to do it myself...but i still automatically think of asking him for help...i'll get used to it eventually, i'm sure.
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
On one hand, it feels like it's taken forever....on the other, I can't believe that in 6 weeks i'll be divorced!
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
well, that's good for you...it'll be nice for you to get things moving along
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
and you sooooo deserve it, my dear...good luck tomorrow!
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
I gave up on forever
And ever and ever
Before it even began
Something like love
Turned into hate
The second that ring
Touched your hand
I let go of the rope
And fell into the dark
And out of the light
Made my stand
You thought I had slipped
Just out of your sight
But God I was so far away
I don't want to come back
I don't want to be found
I know I can never be saved
I crawled to the shore
Of a high mountain lake
Where even my own face
seemed fake
I built a home
And I lived alone
While I stumbled my way
Into grace
I forgot about us
And I let myself be
Now I can't even
Picture your face
You thought I had slipped
Just out of your sight
But God I was so far away
I don't want to come back
I don't want to be found
I know I can never be saved
One foot in front of the other
As I stumble my way into grace
I said one foot in front of the other
As I stumble my way into grace
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Sure. It was a song I wrote about my ex. Man, I used to love singing that one!
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i wish i would have known this in seattle
:oops: :oops: :oops:
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
i mean i could have said good luck with it , not hit on you or anything
although the reaction to unthought known was just divine
ok...i need to know this reaction!!! I have noooooo idea, and i know i wasn't drunk so.....
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
you and your partner looked at each other with the 'oh my god they're playing look"
then you did alittle jumpy dance and sang it loud lol
AAH HA HA HA....that would be my happy dance
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
you turned to my gf early on and complimented her singing on corduroy lol
and yes twas a good night
that's awesome :-)
this past tour was my reward to myself for going thru this divorce on my terms...I had a blast at every show i went to....maybe we'll see you guys again this tour :-)
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
i would have zero problem sitting behind you again
LOL! you and my BF can sit behind me and your GF...and she and I can sing together
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
HEY NOW!!
HEY NOW!![/quote]
what!?!?!? seems like a great time to me!!! If there's a show around March 11, we can all celebrate my official change in marital status!
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
good luck. keep your chin up!
hey....i know we've discussed the similarities in our respective situations, but you're welcome to call/text if you want to talk. When this all started for me (at 30), I felt like I had suddenly grown up a LOT...I've felt pretty good over the past 6-8 months...but it was strange to get the final paperwork showing the date that i'll be "single" again. not strange in a bad way, but strange in that it was really happening and going to be over in 5 weeks.
I hope it goes well for you tomorrow...just make sure that you do whatever you need to do to be happy in the long run...good luck, G!
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln
Sorry to hear you are going through the process. The workout is a common and healthy way to cope with your situation. Good luck with what lies a head and remember that it gets better.
today would have been our 7th anniversary...which is a little weird.
Our divorce is final in 5 days.
Oh, two weeks ago, my ex told me that he and he girlfriend are having a baby.
Whatever you are, be a good one --Lincoln