So...my husband had an affair.

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  • vduboise
    vduboise Posts: 1,937
    Hey Cin,
    if you are still reading this....
    After all you've been through, sometimes it is easy to let the little things go until you find your feet. Don't let things slide by you. If you have a joint account, maybe it would be best to open your own account and take some money out. My parents were in a similar situation, and my dad cleaned out the bank and left her with almost nothing- to raise 3 kids.
    Maybe your husband is not that mean, but when people become bitter or try to make YOU take the blame- meanness comes out.

    First off is to protect you and your kids, and making sure you can get by.

    I hope you get un-banned. Good luck.
  • stuckinline
    stuckinline Posts: 3,407
    cinnamon girl, we're all thinking about you.
    wtf about the banning?????
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    stuckinline wrote:
    cinnamon girl, we're all thinking about you.
    wtf about the banning?????

    +1
    keep your head up, cgirl!!! hope we see you back here soon!!!
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  • BlackThirteen
    BlackThirteen Posts: 423
    Why the hell is she perma banned? That's not fucking cool.
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    why the fuck is she banned for when other shit around is more ban worthy. if she really is banned then this place has gone to shit and fast.
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  • BeerBaron
    BeerBaron Toronto-ish Posts: 4,100
    I just came across this thread now and all I can say is :(

    If you are reading these messages (which I am sure you are even thought you can't post) I just wanted to say that I'm sorry to read about the situation you are going through and I hope things get better for you soon. Keep your head up. Things will get better. Time heals all wounds.
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  • BeerBaron
    BeerBaron Toronto-ish Posts: 4,100
    metsfan wrote:
    why the fuck is she banned for when other shit around is more ban worthy. if she really is banned then this place has gone to shit and fast.
    This must be a mistake. Her posts don't come anywhere near the line, let alone crossing the line. Hopefully this will be fixed tomorrow.
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  • justjoshingu
    justjoshingu Posts: 538
    i'm really sorry that he was a douchebag. there probably isnt a lot i can add to whats been said but i'll try.
    first off, its probably less about you. never question yourself about "if i could have only done this for him" or "maybe if i didnt do that " he wouldnt have strayed. its that he wanted to be a selfish person and a complete idiot.

    second of all, karma will take care of him. you will get good things coming back to you and he wont. it sucks that the kids have to get involved in all of this. which makes him all the more selfish. however, i was the child of divorced parents for similar reasons and i turned out ok.

    and you will find someone way better. i know you prolly dont want anyone else right now, but when you do there wil be much love and happiness for you.

    like i said , i know nothing i can say can help, but you always have friends here that can help.
    mean people suck!
    but nice people sw****w

  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    That's crazy she is banned.

    IF it is not a mistake (which I hope it is), it has to be something other than starting this thread. It HAS to be.
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • kenny olav
    kenny olav Posts: 3,319
    I too can't believe she was banned. I was wondering why the PM I sent her on Saturday is still in my outbox.

    Like everyone else here, I can't figure out any reason to ban her. What's going on, mods???
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    Kenny Olav wrote:

    Like everyone else here, I can't figure out any reason to ban her. What's going on, mods???

    that's what a lot of us are asking, unfortunately.
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  • Kat
    Kat Posts: 4,973
    There have been some people getting the message that they are banned and it's some kind of bbs error. If it happens to you, please let <!-- e --><a href="mailto:info@tenclub.net">info@tenclub.net</a><!-- e --> know or write to us and we'll pass it along so it can be fixed.

    Damn gremlins!

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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Kat wrote:
    There have been some people getting the message that they are banned and it's some kind of bbs error. If it happens to you, please let <!-- e --><a href="mailto:info@tenclub.net">info@tenclub.net</a><!-- e --> know or write to us and we'll pass it along so it can be fixed.

    Damn gremlins!

    xo


    thanks for clearing it up kat :D
  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    I knew it!!

    (Norm--i was so close to quoting your previous post about possible ban but I was nice :D) :P
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Lizard wrote:
    I knew it!!

    (Norm--i was so close to quoting your previous post about possible ban but I was nice :D) :P


    hey i was just going on the information at the time...but i do apologize to kat/sea....they've done a lot of wacky bannings over the years but this one would have been too wacky :mrgreen:
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    That explains a lot...... :roll:

    At least she isn't banned after all though... :)



    We are still thinking of ya Cinnamon Girl... :|
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • BeerBaron
    BeerBaron Toronto-ish Posts: 4,100
    Glad that got cleared up. We all knew she couldn't have been banned. :D
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  • patrickredeyes
    patrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    I am so grateful for all the support...you guys kick ASS!!

    Thanks. :oops:


    Welcome back. :)
  • Cinnamon Girl
    Cinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    Whew....that sucked...I was racking my brain trying to figure out what I did. :lol:

    Anyway...big big hugs to all of you for having my back!! Thanks so much.

    It's so hard reading everything and not being able to respond...(I think I'm addicted :? )

    Just want to let you guys know that although this may be the hardest week of my life, I am trying very hard to focus on my priorities (the kidlets) and move forward. I am blown away by the support and friends I've made just by being honest and open about this situation. I'm going to talk to my doctor tomorrow and work on getting the kids and myself some counseling.

    What a beautiful thing this group is. Thanks from the bottom of my heart. :oops:
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  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Welcome back! Best of luck on the road ahead!
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