why do men have to be so feckin obvious?

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  • stu gee
    stu gee Posts: 1,174
    the diet coke adverts do not reflect reality. they are an attempt to turn to the tables on men and say "what if the female office workers ogled the male construction worker?" the reason it is a funny ad is because it's the opposite of what really happens.

    That is complete rubbish im sorry. Are you saying women never ogle men?!! Having many female friends as i do, i watch their ogling first hand and hear the filthy thoughts in their minds all the time. Im not saying there is anything wrong with it, but they are just as bad as we are!
    People say im paranoid. Well, they dont say it, but i know that's what they are thinking.
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    dunkman wrote:
    but a rapists mentality... please.. i fuck around on this forum for some light entertainment, not to be called a rapist... wow

    I'm with you on this dunk. That was a bit of a reach to say the least, and a very inappropriate and careless comment. If a chick is wearing something like this http://ballsandwalnuts.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/04/cleavage_1.jpg you can bet your sweet ass she did so for the purpose of Men's attention..(or women if a lesbo)..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • Serious question. Do most of you ever get away from your pcs and interact much, with people of the opposite sex? It's a complex world of relationships and social interaction out there. The semiotics are very hard to limit down to stereotypes of behaviour. You wouldn't think so, reading some of the bollocks on here. Just a thought.
    :D trust me, I've a LOT of social interaction goin on. I like men, just not the ones who make me feel naked without me wanting to be.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    Marvellous. Right. I'm signing off and heading down the pub to ogle. :D
  • Serious question. Do most of you ever get away from your pcs and interact much, with people of the opposite sex? quote]

    Obviously for me, no. :D:o

    And dunkman, is it true that when the Scott's fight in battle they wear the full length ball gown with sequins? (I'm on a Simpsons quote role today).
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    Serious question. Do most of you ever get away from your pcs and interact much, with people of the opposite sex? It's a complex world of relationships and social interaction out there. The semiotics are very hard to limit down to stereotypes of behaviour. You wouldn't think so, reading some of the bollocks on here. Just a thought.

    i'm married to a hottie and you're single

    Finsy... get down the pub now!!! :D

    here, have these ... i want them back though
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    Serious question. Do most of you ever get away from your pcs and interact much, with people of the opposite sex? It's a complex world of relationships and social interaction out there. The semiotics are very hard to limit down to stereotypes of behaviour. You wouldn't think so, reading some of the bollocks on here. Just a thought.
    Hi finsburyparkcarrots.
    :)
    Generalizations are commonplace here.
    I can tell the difference between someone admiring me and wanting to do things to me that may put them in jail. It's life. Some are skeezy, some are just admiring. Like a painting or a poem.
    I have also almost broken my neck falling off the treadmill at the gym while watching a man do pullups...
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    The Champ wrote:
    I'm with you on this dunk. That was a bit of a reach to say the least, and a very inappropriate and careless comment. If a chick is wearing something like this http://ballsandwalnuts.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/04/cleavage_1.jpg you can bet your sweet ass she did so for the purpose of Men's attention..(or women if a lesbo)..


    cheers Champ

    i especially liked your capitalisation of the word "Men's" and the word 'lesbo'

    :D
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    TrixieCat wrote:
    Hi finsburyparkcarrots.
    :)
    Generalizations are commonplace here.
    I can tell the difference between someone admiring me and wanting to do things to me that may put them in jail. It's life. Some are skeezy, some are just admiring. Like a painting or a poem.
    I have also almost broken my neck falling off the treadmill at the gym while watching a man do pullups...

    Ah, but you're just cool. :)
  • before I sign off I want it made clear that ogling does not make you a rapist :rolleyes: cos I know how some of you love to make assumptions... and it doesn't give you a rapists mentality. But from a woman's point of view, if I wasn't on site, if I was walking down a dark street on my own and that happened I'd be fucking scared... and not of the ogling... but cos of the potential.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • TrixieCat wrote:
    Hi finsburyparkcarrots.
    :)
    Generalizations are commonplace here.
    I can tell the difference between someone admiring me and wanting to do things to me that may put them in jail. It's life. Some are skeezy, some are just admiring. Like a painting or a poem.
    I have also almost broken my neck falling off the treadmill at the gym while watching a man do pullups...

    And THAT'S why people find you so charasmatic! ;):)
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    before I sign off I want it made clear that ogling does not make you a rapist :rolleyes: cos I know how some of you love to make assumptions... and it doesn't give you a rapists mentality. But from a woman's point of view, if I wasn't on site, if I was walking down a dark street on my own and that happened I'd be fucking scared... and not of the ogling... but cos of the potential.

    And maybe you should rethink that 'potential' comment while you're at it..I don't think this shit is anything to fuck with..'Mentality' bullshit, as mentioned by greentea also..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • gabers
    gabers Posts: 2,787
    Perhaps my earlier comment that men in groups all ogle was a bit off. All men in groups "size up" pretty women. Some admire and turn away, some ogle. I would like to think I don't ogle (very often) but it can be very hard to turn away sometimes. I've read that men are more into physical beauty than women. :D
  • The Champ wrote:
    And maybe you should rethink that 'potential' comment while you're at it..I don't think this shit is anything to fuck with..'Mentality' bullshit, as mentioned by greentea..
    :confused: why would I want to rethink it? It was fins who asked the quesiton and used the potential word... I answered him honestly, I coulda lied and pretended to be cool :confused:
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    And THAT'S why people find you so charasmatic! ;):)
    :p
    Just you sometimes and finsburyparkcarrots and another person or 2.
    :p
    All the others have pegged me as the narrow minded racist pig that I am.
    I did, however win Miss PC last month. :)
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    :confused: why would I want to rethink it? It was fins who asked the quesiton and used the potential word... I answered him honestly, I coulda lied and pretended to be cool :confused:

    So if I look at your cleavage, in your mind I could be a potential rapist? I guess it's better to be safe than sorry, but I think it's quite the stretch..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    TrixieCat wrote:
    :p
    Just you sometimes and finsburyparkcarrots and another person or 2.
    :p
    All the others have pegged me as the narrow minded racist pig that I am.
    I did, however win Miss PC last month. :)

    Am I part of that other person or 2? ;)..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    The Champ wrote:
    Am I part of that other person or 2? ;)..
    That is up to you friend.
    :p
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    anyway I genuinely didn't want to start a philosophical debate on why exactly men are perverted freaks... I just want them to fuckin stop it... :cool: got it? :)

    you'll have better luck stopping the sun from rising. :)
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,164
    im sorry- if your an attractive woman I will enjoy the view

    but I dont understand the cat calls and the stare downs

    I ofter wonder, if any women actually slept with a guy after he whistled at her

    something tells me thats not the best way to home plate