why do men have to be so feckin obvious?

dunkman

MattCameronKicksButt wrote:

It's funny how I said I've got no make up on, wearing jeans and a T-shirt and I'm getting ignored.


P.S. :mad:

what was that?

GreenTeaDisease

dunkman wrote:

hey, i know its directed at me but i think saying i almost have a rapist mentality is a bit much... i said and i stand by it.. if a women passes me wearing a top that barely covers her nipples and her breasts are pushed out and up to resemble two bald men trying to get out of a bag... then i'm going to look.

i'm not saying all women do this, far from it... but i was meaning that some women dress to not only feel good about themselves but also to appeal to others... i think thats universally accepted.

but a rapists mentality... please.. i fuck around on this forum for some light entertainment, not to be called a rapist... wow

I did not mean to insinuate that you are a rapist. all I meant was, it is the sort of "she was asking for it" mentality that society seems to accept that goes right along with what a rapist thinks he has the right to do.

soulsinging

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

I did not mean to insinuate that you are a rapist. all I meant was, it is the sort of "she was asking for it" mentality that society seems to accept that goes right along with what a rapist thinks he has the right to do.

there's a difference between asking and not caring. if guys checking out your rack bothers you so much, don't wear the low cut. if you walk down the street naked, do you think no one will look? it has nothing to do with asking for it. if it concerns you, take it into account.

stu gee

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

I did not mean to insinuate that you are a rapist. all I meant was, it is the sort of "she was asking for it" mentality that society seems to accept that goes right along with what a rapist thinks he has the right to do.

I dont think that's what he was saying really. You cant deny that some women wear certain clothes in order to have certain areas of their bodies exposed so they are noticed more. Im not saying there is anything wrong with this by the way.

norm

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MattCameronKicksButt

dunkman wrote:

what was that?

Hmmm. Not sure.

Probably taking my insecurity out on everyone else.

I'll shut up now.

GreenTeaDisease

soulsinging wrote:

not even close. staring hurts nobody.

actually no, I don't really "agree." Staring does hurt, just not on the same level, obviously.

As a man, you can't know what it feels like to be ogled. there are times when a man might be looking at you because you catch his eye and he thinks you are very pretty. this is not the same as when you walk past a truck full of migrant workers and they start honking and yelling obscenities because they do that to *every* woman who walks by. and you know they are staring at your butt. and you want to dive behind a tree and hide yourself.

Heineken Helen

anyway I genuinely didn't want to start a philosophical debate on why exactly men are perverted freaks... I just want them to fuckin stop it... :cool: got it?

pushmepullme

Perhaps, Helen, you've just got really great boobs

Heineken Helen

MattCameronKicksButt wrote:

It's funny how I said I've got no make up on, wearing jeans and a T-shirt and I'm getting ignored.


P.S. :mad:

well I've no make up on, am wearing jeans and a tshirt and have my hair thrown up and I'm getting ogled :mad:

dunkman

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

As a man, you can't know what it feels like to be ogled.

really??? women don't 'ogle'?

i've seen groups of women in pubs who do nothing but ogle men. and vice versa...


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Heineken Helen

pushmepullme wrote:

Perhaps, Helen, you've just got really great boobs

No, I'm not posting a boob shot

stu gee

If men didnt look at women at all and walked around with their eyes to the floor constantly, the same amount of women that were angry they were being ogled would be angry no-one was paying them attention, so you canny win.

MattCameronKicksButt

dunkman wrote:

hey, i know its directed at me but i think saying i almost have a rapist mentality is a bit much... i said and i stand by it.. if a women passes me wearing a top that barely covers her nipples and her breasts are pushed out and up to resemble two bald men trying to get out of a bag... then i'm going to look.

i'm not saying all women do this, far from it... but i was meaning that some women dress to not only feel good about themselves but also to appeal to others... i think thats universally accepted.

but a rapists mentality... please.. i fuck around on this forum for some light entertainment, not to be called a rapist... wow

*creep* I know what you meant. You never say anything in your posts that makes me think you're really an asshole.

I think dunk's probably right about the dressing up thing. I guess women like to be noticed but not STARED at by a group of blokes. It's embarrassing. Well, I think so anyway. It makes me feel stupid.

dunkman

Heineken Helen wrote:

well I've no make up on, am wearing jeans and a tshirt and have my hair thrown up and I'm getting ogled :mad:

no offence but perhaps these guys were catholic priests and are totally fucking gagging on some action?

pushmepullme

Darn! Another wicked plan foiled!

Speaking as a man who loves boobs (and i love boobs, ask my suffering fiancee), I like to look as much as the next guy, but staring and making it really obvious is just stupid.

Heineken Helen

I think the reason it makes me feel uncomfortable is cos I KNOW they're seeing me naked... so I feel like I AM... and nobody wants to be walking through a building site naked, well no women anyway. Men are different, they strip off any chance they get, anyone who was in Oslo last weekend would know that

stu gee

dunkman wrote:

really??? women don't 'ogle'?

i've seen groups of women in pubs who do nothing but ogle men. and vice versa...


Diet Coke adverts??????

Damn right, i was coming back from the bar last week with a few drinks and a women put her hand down the back of my jeans while her friends giggled. If i had done that to a woman there would be an uproar!

Heineken Helen

dunkman wrote:

no offence but perhaps these guys were catholic priests and are totally fucking gagging on some action?

possibly! Although I don't recall being ogled by priests EVER... I'm one of the lucky ones

dunkman

MattCameronKicksButt wrote:

*creep* I know what you meant. You never say anything in your posts that makes me think you're really an asshole.

I think dunk's probably right about the dressing up thing. I guess women like to be noticed but not STARED at by a group of blokes. It's embarrassing. Well, I think so anyway. It makes me feel stupid.

ok MCKB, i admit i wouldnt stare at a girl.. i wouldnt do it if i was in a group of guys either... but i will admit to glancing at areas of a nice lady if she so happens to be showing off that region.. mini skirts were designed to 'show off' the legs.. so i'm gonna look.

but group staring isnt cool i grant thee... unless its on a stag do and the stripper is firing ping pong balls from her foo-foo... then its actually accepted to stare