why do men have to be so feckin obvious?

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

i've never seen a dude do that. and i appreciate a man willing to check himself out rather than pulling some bullshit dramatics with me for months on end.

You haven't? Well men tend to get more angry than upset but it's pretty much the same thing, different reaction.

And you'd rather that?

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

You haven't? Well men tend to get more angry than upset but it's pretty much the same thing, different reaction.

And you'd rather that?

yes, i would.

and yeah, i can deal with a dude getting angry and trying to kick some ass. usually is pretty cathartic and solves some of the problems of bottling. i hate when people cry or get upset to me. i can't handle it. i can never figure out what they're so bothered by.

where's ahnimus? i should apologize to him... i might be a robot after all...

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

yes, i would.

and yeah, i can deal with a dude getting angry and trying to kick some ass. usually is pretty cathartic and solves some of the problems of bottling. i hate when people cry or get upset to me. i can't handle it. i can never figure out what they're so bothered by.

where's ahnimus? i should apologize to him... i might be a robot after all...

it's funny... I can't deal with people crying either I never know what to say or do and I usually just sit there looking at them til they start to feel sorry for me and snap out of it so maybe it works. I can't deal with people fighting either... it pisses me off and I'm usually in the middle begging them to just shake hands.

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

it's funny... I can't deal with people crying either I never know what to say or do and I usually just sit there looking at them til they start to feel sorry for me and snap out of it so maybe it works. I can't deal with people fighting either... it pisses me off and I'm usually in the middle begging them to just shake hands.

ah, i'll cheer on a fight. or jump in if it's my buddy. that i know how to handle... you just win. i don't cope with crying. they want you to comfort them, but if they're in tears it's either: 1) so serious that any comfort you can try to offer is going to seem hollow or 2) so ridiculous that i'd rather pimp slap da hoe and tell her to quit that shit cos it's bad fo bizness.

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

ah, i'll cheer on a fight. or jump in if it's my buddy. that i know how to handle... you just win. i don't cope with crying. they want you to comfort them, but if they're in tears it's either: 1) so serious that any comfort you can try to offer is going to seem hollow or 2) so ridiculous that i'd rather pimp slap da hoe and tell her to quit that shit cos it's bad fo bizness.

If it's serious I usually just sit there with them, there's nothing ya can say... and offer hugs when necessary. If it's not serious I'm quick enough to tell them to grow up . I'm actually quite good at getting people to laugh and realise how stupid they're being when they're upset about something

fanch75

Bytchez ain't shyt but ho's n tryckz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1mcej-inwM

PillowPants

fanch75 wrote:

Bytchez ain't shyt but ho's n tryckz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1mcej-inwM

you're going a bit overboard with your y's and z's

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hmmm..may have to review this thread later.