Separating/Divorcing-Anyone in the process?

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  • pearljgirl2010
    pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    If it escalates to divorce... Don't just assume he'll do what he says because you 'used to know him'. Take everyones advice and get your own lawyer.

    I just found out I have no health insurance and my car has not been insured since March. He was supposed to be paying these things as part of our 'agreement' not legal. I'm a fool.


    ahhhhh...dammit. I'm sorry...i know thing are amicable now, but I will take your advice about getting my own lawyer. keep your head up, B--it'll be OK
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  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

    I just found out I have no health insurance and my car has not been insured since March. He was supposed to be paying these things as part of our 'agreement' not legal. I'm a fool.

    sorry to hear that...man, that sucks. but i'm glad that you're happier now! :)
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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    If it escalates to divorce... Don't just assume he'll do what he says because you 'used to know him'. Take everyones advice and get your own lawyer.

    I just found out I have no health insurance and my car has not been insured since March. He was supposed to be paying these things as part of our 'agreement' not legal. I'm a fool.


    ahhhhh...dammit. I'm sorry...i know thing are amicable now, but I will take your advice about getting my own lawyer. keep your head up, B--it'll be OK
    During the 'proceedings' we were amicable....but he hasn't lived up to what he promised. I am the fool for believing an addict... :(

    But the way I think of it is that I am living my life and happy (though things are a struggle) but he will forever have this addiction. Maybe I'm a fool again but I can't hate him... In the end he still has the raw end of the deal.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • pearljgirl2010
    pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    During the 'proceedings' we were amicable....but he hasn't lived up to what he promised. I am the fool for believing an addict... :(

    But the way I think of it is that I am living my life and happy (though things are a struggle) but he will forever have this addiction. Maybe I'm a fool again but I can't hate him... In the end he still has the raw end of the deal.


    he did get the raw end...you're awesome and he's missing out! I don't think you're a fool for not hating him; hating him won't get you anywhere.
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  • Cinnamon Girl
    Cinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    I don't think you're a fool for not hating him; hating him won't get you anywhere.


    Agreed...hate is a wasted emotion.
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  • pearljgirl2010
    pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    soooooooo the decision has been made....now we get to do the fun stuff...anyone know a free laywer???
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  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    free laywer???

    That's an oxymoron!!!

    Best of luck....
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  • pearljgirl2010
    pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    Lizard wrote:
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    free laywer???

    That's an oxymoron!!!

    Best of luck....


    LOL--I know it :-) couldn't hurt to throw it out there!
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  • Cinnamon Girl
    Cinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    That was a short separation...but when you know, you know.

    I hope it's quick and painless. :)
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  • pearljgirl2010
    pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    That was a short separation...but when you know, you know.

    I hope it's quick and painless. :)


    It was a short separation...but I think we both let go a long time ago. if FEELS right...I haven't felt this sure of something in a while...
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  • Cinnamon Girl
    Cinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    That was a short separation...but when you know, you know.

    I hope it's quick and painless. :)


    It was a short separation...but I think we both let go a long time ago. if FEELS right...I haven't felt this sure of something in a while...


    like a huge weight off your shoulders, I'm sure.

    I understand the part about letting go a long time ago. I felt exactly the same.
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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    soooooooo the decision has been made....now we get to do the fun stuff...anyone know a free laywer???
    Hey there girl.. Aka.. Tasty ****! ;)

    You know I'm here for you at all times...any time of day!

    Welcome to the dicvorcee club :(... It's not as bad as it seems. I'm finally coming to terms with it. The word itself is the worst part. Good luck and remember we're all here when you need an ear.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • PatrickBateman
    PatrickBateman Posts: 2,243
    Hope everything goes well for you, always seemed like separation was more like delaying the inevitable. My wife said it doesn't cost too much if there isn't much contest. If there is no kids, it makes it much easier. Sorry to hear, but it sounds like you are OK with it. From what I gather, you are a good looking, fun loving type of person....you'll have pick of the litter;)
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  • pearljgirl2010
    pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    PatrickBateman wrote:
    Hope everything goes well for you, always seemed like separation was more like delaying the inevitable. My wife said it doesn't cost too much if there isn't much contest. If there is no kids, it makes it much easier. Sorry to hear, but it sounds like you are OK with it. From what I gather, you are a good looking, fun loving type of person....you'll have pick of the litter;)


    Thank you :-) the "litter" is a strange thought right now!!! i mean, dating is a little scary anyway, let alone when it's been as long as it's been for me.

    Yeah--as soon as I moved out, we both knew that it was inevitable. Fortunately we have no kids, we don't own a home, etc, so in theory it should be fairly easy. It's still weird and will be interesting to see how the next few months pan out, but I feel strong and think I'm ready
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  • pearljgirl2010
    pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    soooooooo the decision has been made....now we get to do the fun stuff...anyone know a free laywer???
    Hey there girl.. Aka.. Tasty ****! ;)

    You know I'm here for you at all times...any time of day!

    Welcome to the dicvorcee club :(... It's not as bad as it seems. I'm finally coming to terms with it. The word itself is the worst part. Good luck and remember we're all here when you need an ear.


    OH MY GOD--you broke out Tasty ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hahahahahahahahahahah
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  • Cinnamon Girl
    Cinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    soooooooo the decision has been made....now we get to do the fun stuff...anyone know a free laywer???
    Hey there girl.. Aka.. Tasty ****! ;)

    You know I'm here for you at all times...any time of day!

    Welcome to the dicvorcee club :(... It's not as bad as it seems. I'm finally coming to terms with it. The word itself is the worst part. Good luck and remember we're all here when you need an ear.


    OH MY GOD--you broke out Tasty ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hahahahahahahahahahah
    :| :?:
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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:

    OH MY GOD--you broke out Tasty ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hahahahahahahahahahah
    :| :?:
    Ahhh we decide to be pj escorts and it's her hooker name.... :P we're trying to think of yours! :lol:
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  • pearljgirl2010
    pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ahhh we decide to be pj escorts and it's her hooker name.... :P we're trying to think of yours! :lol:

    I was at least discreet enough to send her a PM....HA HA HA HA HA!!! we haven't come up with hers yet...
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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ahhh we decide to be pj escorts and it's her hooker name.... :P we're trying to think of yours! :lol:

    I was at least discreet enough to send her a PM....HA HA HA HA HA!!! we haven't come up with hers yet...
    I'm NEVER discreet! Oh and I didn't tell her ur full name in the post... I have SOME class, not much but some! :lol:
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • Cinnamon Girl
    Cinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    pearljgirl2010 wrote:
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ahhh we decide to be pj escorts and it's her hooker name.... :P we're trying to think of yours! :lol:

    I was at least discreet enough to send her a PM....HA HA HA HA HA!!! we haven't come up with hers yet...
    I'm NEVER discreet! Oh and I didn't tell her ur full name in the post... I have SOME class, not much but some! :lol:


    hmmmm....what could those asterisks mean?? :| :? :o:mrgreen:
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