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    Godfather.Godfather. Posts: 12,504
    :silent: is golden from this point I pleed the 5th. :mrgreen:


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    Cliffy6745Cliffy6745 Posts: 33,603
    Anyone who opposes gay marriage is a bigot, plain and simple. They can hide behind some BS bible shit all they want, but it all comes down to them being a bigot. Two dudes getting married has absolutely no impact on anyone elses lives or marriage. No one should be treated like a second class citizen.

    Obama is talking to Robin Roberts this afternoon about it. Come on, be a man and do what's right and set an example.

    And spare me the defintion bullshit.
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    ComeToTXComeToTX Austin Posts: 7,590
    Cliffy6745 wrote:
    Anyone who opposes gay marriage is a bigot, plain and simple. They can hide behind some BS bible shit all they want, but it all comes down to them being a bigot. Two dudes getting married has absolutely no impact on anyone elses lives or marriage. No one should be treated like a second class citizen.

    Obama is talking to Robin Roberts this afternoon about it. Come on, be a man and do what's right and set an example.

    And spare me the defintion bullshit.

    Agree 100% No different than people that were against integration or different races marrying.
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    Cliffy6745Cliffy6745 Posts: 33,603
    ComeToTX wrote:
    Cliffy6745 wrote:
    Anyone who opposes gay marriage is a bigot, plain and simple. They can hide behind some BS bible shit all they want, but it all comes down to them being a bigot. Two dudes getting married has absolutely no impact on anyone elses lives or marriage. No one should be treated like a second class citizen.

    Obama is talking to Robin Roberts this afternoon about it. Come on, be a man and do what's right and set an example.

    And spare me the defintion bullshit.

    Agree 100% No different than people that were against integration or different races marrying.

    Absolutely. Seperate but equal was a law and has a definition but that sure as fuck doesn't make it right.
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    Godfather.Godfather. Posts: 12,504
    the 5th. ;)

    Godfather.
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    normnorm I'm always home. I'm uncool. Posts: 31,147
    it's hilarious...since some people won't admit they're ignorant bigots, they bring up the definition of marriage as a defense of restricting people's rights...is 2012 or 1812? of course, if we're talking about the south, then maybe it is 1812 :roll:
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    Cliffy6745Cliffy6745 Posts: 33,603
    norm wrote:
    it's hilarious...since some people won't admit they're ignorant bigots, they bring up the definition of marriage as a defense of restricting people's rights...is 2012 or 1812? of course, if we're talking about the south, then maybe it is 1812 :roll:

    Bingo

    And it's even more hilarious that some talk about love and loving everyone in pretty much every post, yet want to restrict a group of people from expressing their love. Quite hypocritical if you ask me.
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    pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    People opposed clearly do not want a gay union to be called 'marriage'.
    It is not marriage by definition nor history.

    This based in the tradition of the word marriage and what it has
    meant for thousands of years, for billions of participants.

    Most protecters of the union of marriage do not oppose rights being equal
    or that there is a union
    it is obvious there are many unions and gay is here to stay.

    Gay people can not marry because of the fact they are the same sex.
    By definition and now by law which could expand unfortunately because
    of the definition and history of marriage.

    But a new word a new amendment can bring equality to the unions to end this.
    It will not be called marriage but will be called _ _ _ _ _ _
    with the same legal rights and may, in my opinion, more than likely,
    out number 'marriages' in the distant future.

    Those wanting the traditional marriage union, that was created long ago,
    to stay intact, it does
    as gay couples move forward with a new life, a new word,
    a new union with the same rights as all.

    If the haters still hate that is their problem ...so be it....
    there are more lovers than haters.
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    Cliffy6745Cliffy6745 Posts: 33,603
    Godfather. wrote:
    the 5th. ;)

    Godfather.

    No need to plead the 5th. We know where you stand on "that gay stuff". My opinion of you is above.
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    Cliffy6745Cliffy6745 Posts: 33,603
    I would much prefer for homosexuals to have the right to marry than for bigots to have the right to procreate.
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    pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    the South digs though I am a born yankee get old and sound extremely bigoted in nature


    can we see ourselves in each other? :?
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    gimmesometruth27gimmesometruth27 St. Fuckin Louis Posts: 22,175
    Cliffy6745 wrote:
    I would much prefer for homosexuals to have the right to marry than for bigots to have the right to procreate.
    +1

    that bigotry is passed down and it is generational. and it is TAUGHT. we are not born thinking the way we do. being a bigot is not biological... it is socialized...
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    normnorm I'm always home. I'm uncool. Posts: 31,147
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    Newch91Newch91 Posts: 17,560
    norm wrote:
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    Please tell me that's not true.
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    normnorm I'm always home. I'm uncool. Posts: 31,147
    Newch91 wrote:
    norm wrote:
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    Please tell me that's not true.

    http://www.ncsl.org/issues-research/hum ... cousi.aspx
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    pandora wrote:
    People opposed clearly do not want a gay union to be called 'marriage'.
    It is not marriage by definition nor history.

    check out polaris's post on the bottom of page 9 and read it. it is marriage by definition. it's in black and white.

    and history should define how we act in the present only if that is an act of change.
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    polaris_xpolaris_x Posts: 13,559
    it's so tragic that in a world so full of hate that ignorance continues to make people do hurtful things ... it's a fucking word ... people are hiding their prejudice behind semantics ...
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    Newch91Newch91 Posts: 17,560
    norm wrote:
    Newch91 wrote:
    norm wrote:
    546080_3635397039879_1122791580_336.jpg
    Please tell me that's not true.

    http://www.ncsl.org/issues-research/hum ... cousi.aspx
    :fp: They allow that but don't allow civil unions??

    Also, I can't believe states allow cousins to marry each other.
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    Cliffy6745Cliffy6745 Posts: 33,603
    pandora wrote:
    People opposed clearly do not want a gay union to be called 'marriage'.
    It is not marriage by definition nor history.

    This based in the tradition of the word marriage and what it has
    meant for thousands of years, for billions of participants.

    Most protecters of the union of marriage do not oppose rights being equal
    or that there is a union
    it is obvious there are many unions and gay is here to stay.

    Gay people can not marry because of the fact they are the same sex.
    By definition and now by law which could expand unfortunately because
    of the definition and history of marriage.

    But a new word a new amendment can bring equality to the unions to end this.
    It will not be called marriage but will be called _ _ _ _ _ _
    with the same legal rights and may, in my opinion, more than likely,
    out number 'marriages' in the distant future.

    Those wanting the traditional marriage union, that was created long ago,
    to stay intact, it does
    as gay couples move forward with a new life, a new word,
    a new union with the same rights as all.

    If the haters still hate that is their problem ...so be it....
    there are more lovers than haters.


    This still does not come close to answering the question of how your or anyone elses marriage is fucked up by two dudes marrying each other.

    Slavery was once a tradition...
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    pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    it is not just a word obviously :fp:
    What is the problem with a new word, a new amendment, granting equal rights to gay unions?
    would this not speed everything up ...

    this a great approach that even our current administration could enact.
    Our President satisfies those who want the traditional definition that has been around
    for thousands of years
    while moving the gay rights into place and setting an example for equality.
    It is a word of the future that will embrace future love and families!
    Groovy-cool! :D
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    polaris_xpolaris_x Posts: 13,559
    Cliffy6745 wrote:
    This still does not come close to answering the question of how your or anyone elses marriage is fucked up by two dudes marrying each other.

    Slavery was once a tradition...

    god speed ... :lol: :corn:
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    cincybearcatcincybearcat Posts: 16,126
    Cliffy6745 wrote:
    Anyone who opposes gay marriage is a bigot, plain and simple.


    I don't think so entirely. I think there are some really good people out there that have never been exposed to the issue. When a vote comes up, they don't really understand and they only go off what they know in their own lives.

    I think ignorance is a big problem when it comes to many issues.
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    usamamasan1usamamasan1 Posts: 4,695
    "I'm still working on it"

    Translation=what will get me the most votes.

    Nice leadership


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    polaris_xpolaris_x Posts: 13,559
    I think ignorance is a big problem when it comes to many issues.

    yup
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    Cliffy6745Cliffy6745 Posts: 33,603
    pandora wrote:
    it is not just a word obviously :fp:
    What is the problem with a new word, a new amendment, granting equal rights to gay unions?
    would this not speed everything up ...

    this a great approach that even our current administration could enact.
    Our President satisfies those who want the traditional definition that has been around
    for thousands of years
    while moving the gay rights into place and setting an example for equality.
    It is a word of the future that will embrace future love and families!
    Groovy-cool! :D

    Great idea. Let's call it a second class marriage. That way bigots can be happy that gay people aren't allowed to express their love in the same way they are. You're a genius, I tell you. You figured it out.
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    pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    Cliffy6745 wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    People opposed clearly do not want a gay union to be called 'marriage'.
    It is not marriage by definition nor history.

    This based in the tradition of the word marriage and what it has
    meant for thousands of years, for billions of participants.

    Most protecters of the union of marriage do not oppose rights being equal
    or that there is a union
    it is obvious there are many unions and gay is here to stay.

    Gay people can not marry because of the fact they are the same sex.
    By definition and now by law which could expand unfortunately because
    of the definition and history of marriage.

    But a new word a new amendment can bring equality to the unions to end this.
    It will not be called marriage but will be called _ _ _ _ _ _
    with the same legal rights and may, in my opinion, more than likely,
    out number 'marriages' in the distant future.

    Those wanting the traditional marriage union, that was created long ago,
    to stay intact, it does
    as gay couples move forward with a new life, a new word,
    a new union with the same rights as all.

    If the haters still hate that is their problem ...so be it....
    there are more lovers than haters.


    This still does not come close to answering the question of how your or anyone elses marriage is fucked up by two dudes marrying each other.

    Slavery was once a tradition...
    :? Poor analogy unless you think marriage is owning another human being.

    Marriage is the union of a man and woman has been since the beginning...
    why is was created
    it is tradition and history and changing that is obviously a problem for many.

    So why not find a solution for all not just some.

    What happened yesterday and we may see more,
    is the people saying they want to keep marriage traditional out of respect for the union.
    They do not want marriage to change.

    So create a new union, a new word, grant equality and move on.

    Please don't talk about prejudice because your posts have been the best example of just that.

    I would like to see resolution not further discourse. I would like to see
    my friends united with equal rights in a union all there own.
    I would like to see this as an example for the rest of the world in the future....
    now.
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    catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    pandora wrote:
    :? Poor analogy unless you think marriage is owning another human being.

    Marriage is the union of a man and woman has been since the beginning...
    why is was created
    it is tradition and history and changing that is obviously a problem for many.

    So why not find a solution for all not just some.

    What happened yesterday and we may see more,
    is the people saying they want to keep marriage traditional out of respect for the union.
    They do not want marriage to change.

    So create a new union, a new word, grant equality and move on.

    Please don't talk about prejudice because your posts have been the best example of just that.

    I would like to see resolution not further discourse. I would like to see
    my friends united with equal rights in a union all there own.
    I would like to see this as an example for the rest of the world in the future....
    now.


    it will only be equal when it is called the same.. gay or straight. by labelling gay marriage simply as a union or whatever stigmatises it as unequal. that somehow because youre gay your union isnt on a par with straight marriage. giving it its own name doesnt change the benign bigotry expressed in the label.
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    usamamasan1usamamasan1 Posts: 4,695
    It isn't equal. That's the point it's different. Clearly.
    Treat under law with same rights... I'm for that.
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    Cliffy6745Cliffy6745 Posts: 33,603
    pandora wrote:
    Please don't talk about prejudice because your posts have been the best example of just that.

    I am perfectly fine with being prejudice of intolerant people. If I am intolerant towards intolerance, so fucking be it and it's actually something I am proud of.

    I can't be bothered with the rest. All groups of people regardless of sex, race or religion should have the EXACT same rights and freedoms. Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness and if marrying (not some bullshit made up word to satisfy bigots, yes, bigots) is your pursuit of happiness, then gay people have the right to marry just as straight do.

    I cannot conceivably understand how this is an argument in 2012.
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    catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    It isn't equal. That's the point it's different. Clearly.

    but it should be. thats the point. if i want to marry my lover and they happen to have a vagina then as a ctiizen with equal rights i should be allowed to.
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