Separating/Divorcing-Anyone in the process?

pearljgirl2010

pjtradeking wrote:

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

pjtradeking wrote:

Thanks....Glad you have come out the otherside...Seems like mine is just beginning...A different emotion everday(sometimes every freaking hour )...Mad....sad....relief...lonliness...It changes like the freaking weather...Use to think I was just one of those people who could get through anything unscathed...Turns out I am an emotional wreck at times...Never been this way and it is def strange....16 years....where did the time go and how did we let it die...Swore I would never do that!

yeah...i definitely did not see myself divorced at 31, after being with my ex for 10 years...but am making the best of the situation. it's definitely different for each of us, and I just happened to move past most of this crap quickly, although I do have my moments!!!

the typical advice (take it one day at a time, etc) is the best...it will get better...in the meantime, let yourself be mad, sad, lonely, etc...it's all ok een though it sucks :roll:

mickeyrat

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

pjtradeking wrote:

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

Thanks....Glad you have come out the otherside...Seems like mine is just beginning...A different emotion everday(sometimes every freaking hour )...Mad....sad....relief...lonliness...It changes like the freaking weather...Use to think I was just one of those people who could get through anything unscathed...Turns out I am an emotional wreck at times...Never been this way and it is def strange....16 years....where did the time go and how did we let it die...Swore I would never do that!

yeah...i definitely did not see myself divorced at 31, after being with my ex for 10 years...but am making the best of the situation. it's definitely different for each of us, and I just happened to move past most of this crap quickly, although I do have my moments!!!

the typical advice (take it one day at a time, etc) is the best...it will get better...in the meantime, let yourself be mad, sad, lonely, etc...it's all ok een though it sucks :roll:

Truer words were never spoken. 3 1/2 months since the hearing. It does get easier to carry it. Not a day goes by that I don't think of.......

pearljgirl2010

I'm glad things are getting a bit easier for you! it's really been over 3 months already? I remember when you posted that the trial had happened...

I know I'll still think of my ex at times, I mean, 10 years with someone makes for a lot of memories!! I just try to remember the good ones.
And when it comes to stuff he always did for me (like computer or car stuff) I reach out to my friends or learn how to do it myself...but i still automatically think of asking him for help...i'll get used to it eventually, i'm sure.

pearljgirl2010

I got the paperwork in the mail yesterday...on March 11, the dissolution of my marriage will be official.

On one hand, it feels like it's taken forever....on the other, I can't believe that in 6 weeks i'll be divorced!

PearlOfAGirl

Tomorrow we'll be filling out the divorce papers...

PearlOfAGirl

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

I got the paperwork in the mail yesterday...on March 11, the dissolution of my marriage will be official.

On one hand, it feels like it's taken forever....on the other, I can't believe that in 6 weeks i'll be divorced!

Congrats!!!

pearljgirl2010

HeartShapedBox wrote:

Tomorrow we'll be filling out the divorce papers...

well, that's good for you...it'll be nice for you to get things moving along

PearlOfAGirl

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

HeartShapedBox wrote:

Tomorrow we'll be filling out the divorce papers...

well, that's good for you...it'll be nice for you to get things moving along

I can't wait to finally start living life..

pearljgirl2010

HeartShapedBox wrote:

I can't wait to finally start living life..

and you sooooo deserve it, my dear...good luck tomorrow!

PearlOfAGirl

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

HeartShapedBox wrote:

I can't wait to finally start living life..

and you sooooo deserve it, my dear...good luck tomorrow!

thank you (((( hugs ))))

eyedclaar

Stumble My Way

I gave up on forever
And ever and ever
Before it even began
Something like love
Turned into hate
The second that ring
Touched your hand
I let go of the rope
And fell into the dark
And out of the light
Made my stand

You thought I had slipped
Just out of your sight
But God I was so far away
I don't want to come back
I don't want to be found
I know I can never be saved

I crawled to the shore
Of a high mountain lake
Where even my own face
seemed fake
I built a home
And I lived alone
While I stumbled my way
Into grace
I forgot about us
And I let myself be
Now I can't even
Picture your face

You thought I had slipped
Just out of your sight
But God I was so far away
I don't want to come back
I don't want to be found
I know I can never be saved

One foot in front of the other
As I stumble my way into grace
I said one foot in front of the other
As I stumble my way into grace

pearljgirl2010

wow, eyedclaar...thanks for sharing that!

eyedclaar

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

wow, eyedclaar...thanks for sharing that!

Sure. It was a song I wrote about my ex. Man, I used to love singing that one!

neilybabes86

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

I got the paperwork in the mail yesterday...on March 11, the dissolution of my marriage will be official.

On one hand, it feels like it's taken forever....on the other, I can't believe that in 6 weeks i'll be divorced!

i wish i would have known this in seattle

pearljgirl2010

neilybabes86 wrote:

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

I got the paperwork in the mail yesterday...on March 11, the dissolution of my marriage will be official.

On one hand, it feels like it's taken forever....on the other, I can't believe that in 6 weeks i'll be divorced!

i wish i would have known this in seattle

:oops: :oops: :oops:

neilybabes86

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

neilybabes86 wrote:

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

I got the paperwork in the mail yesterday...on March 11, the dissolution of my marriage will be official.

On one hand, it feels like it's taken forever....on the other, I can't believe that in 6 weeks i'll be divorced!

i wish i would have known this in seattle

:oops: :oops: :oops:

i mean i could have said good luck with it , not hit on you or anything

although the reaction to unthought known was just divine :thumbup:

pearljgirl2010

LOL!!!!

ok...i need to know this reaction!!! I have noooooo idea, and i know i wasn't drunk so.....

neilybabes86

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

LOL!!!!

ok...i need to know this reaction!!! I have noooooo idea, and i know i wasn't drunk so.....

you and your partner looked at each other with the 'oh my god they're playing look"

then you did alittle jumpy dance and sang it loud lol

pearljgirl2010

neilybabes86 wrote:

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

LOL!!!!

ok...i need to know this reaction!!! I have noooooo idea, and i know i wasn't drunk so.....

you and your partner looked at each other with the 'oh my god they're playing look"

then you did alittle jumpy dance and sang it loud lol

AAH HA HA HA....that would be my happy dance and I apologize for my singing...but MAN did we have fun!

neilybabes86

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

neilybabes86 wrote:

pearljgirl2010 wrote:

LOL!!!!

ok...i need to know this reaction!!! I have noooooo idea, and i know i wasn't drunk so.....

you and your partner looked at each other with the 'oh my god they're playing look"

then you did alittle jumpy dance and sang it loud lol

AAH HA HA HA....that would be my happy dance and I apologize for my singing...but MAN did we have fun!

you turned to my gf early on and complimented her singing on corduroy lol

and yes twas a good night