'I'm Seeing Someone'

SoapMakesUTaller

bostonlou wrote:

but once she dumps your ass... don't you realize that everything you thought was a lie?

i'm sure it ain't easy... but shit... you have to move on... it's not like you fucked up... other than hooking up with a lying bitch

As harsh as this is, the man is telling the truth. Something that lying whore didn't do.

One selfish decision completely invalidates all that preceded it....it's as simple as that. And make no mistake, that's all this boils down to.......being SELFISH, only caring about number 1.

nothingman44

SoapMakesUTaller wrote:

As harsh as this is, the man is telling the truth. Something that lying whore didn't do.

One selfish decision completely invalidates all that preceded it....it's as simple as that. And make no mistake, that's all this boils down to.......being SELFISH, only caring about number 1.

thats exactly where i am/was in my saga.

Odin

MahoganySouls wrote:

Really? Hmmm...so thats why for centuries women were "owned" by men and treated poorly because there were women. Not to mention that med have ALWAYS had concubines and mistresses. Even before the femininism movement. And as for " leverage", that must be why women are still statistically paid lower than men for equal work and job titles.

You made an "either-or" argument... a logical fallacy. Also refer to soulsinging's response because I was going to type a similar argument to counter yours.

Also, my "leverage" remark had nothing to do with salaries. Re-read my post and try again. The keyword to look for is "polygamous."

Odin

genie wrote:

what the hell is all this about?? kicking person when they're down, you are fucking rude!! I'm sure thread starter knows about everything you've written in your post ( plus your post is a huge exaguration)

All he needed was some love and support from us, and you go ahead any say shit like commit suicide??!! jesus, have some love for a fellow human being. not all of us are so cold hearted like you are.

it's difficult to get over a person easily after being dumped, cause at that particular moment he cannot see anyone else in the "pond" BUT that person cause he experienced great times together and imotional connection.

if you haven't got anything nice to say than don't say it at all.

I presented suicide as one of multiple options in the event that the author continues to possess a deluded sense of reality. I am not encouraging anything... merely letting him know what his options are... that is, unless he wishes to get burned again.

vital5

Phantom Pain wrote:

This whole texting thing is such a fuckin cop out


Damn technology !


In my day the girl would at least have her friend tell ya

yeah damn.. I got an email once.. it had "sorry i'm sending this in an email..." hahaha ...so don't send it in an email if you're sorry damnit!!!

vital5

pjtaper wrote:

Exactly! Make sure to look extra happy when she is around... say hi, let her know what she is missing out on...
then find the guy and kick the shite out of him for stealing your woman!
It's only a month, at least you didn't waste more of your life on her!

Violence isnt the answer!

nothingman44

vital5 wrote:

yeah damn.. I got an email once.. it had "sorry i'm sending this in an email..." hahaha ...so don't send it in an email if you're sorry damnit!!!

yup i got a phone call that didnt explain much of anything and then it was repeated emails without any answers as well.


some girls can be cowards when it comes to breaking up. how come they always feel the need to say they still "care deeply" about you while they are breaking your heart? just tell me you are banging some other dude and i wasnt good enough for you...that way i can start the healing process instead of hanging on.

Hawkshore

nothingman44 wrote:

please tell me you went and they had an open bar...which you comepletely took advantage of...

And nailed the maid of honour in the bathroom!

tvismyfriend

Hawkshore wrote:

And nailed the maid of honour in the bathroom!

You sir are a god among men.

genie

SoapMakesUTaller wrote:

'Why can't I find a nice guy?'.....Waste of a vagina!

waste of vagina?! well, if that's how you look at her...then i can see where your problem might be.

Heineken Helen

cutback wrote:

maybe they're gay.....:p

nope, they're definitely not... and notice I didn't say anything about the third guy cos I KNOW he would

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

of course they didn't say anything. becos they don't want to date you. you think they're going to confess their love? they're waiting for you to get desperately horny and lonely while drunk and ask them to sleep with you. i'm not saying every time you go out they're going to try to nail you. just saying i can guarantee you they've thought about it and would take the shot if it was offered. they're not going to say anything becos it's not a big deal to them. but they've thought about it and if you made the offer, i bet anything they'd take you up on the free sex.

men don't have gal friends. they have women they haven't slept with yet.

seriously I feel sorry for you if that's the way you feel. Like I said I've plenty of male friends even on this board and now they're gonna be thinking that I think they wanna shag me... well I don't and I won't.

These guys have definitely had their chances to even DO stuff and haven't. I would trust them to put me in a taxi at the end of the night on my own. I would trust them if I was getting trouble from someone to tell him to fuck off... never happened but they would!

Heineken Helen

nothingman44 wrote:

yup i got a phone call that didnt explain much of anything and then it was repeated emails without any answers as well.


some girls can be cowards when it comes to breaking up. how come they always feel the need to say they still "care deeply" about you while they are breaking your heart? just tell me you are banging some other dude and i wasnt good enough for you...that way i can start the healing process instead of hanging on.

You think it's just girls? The last guy I went out with broke up with me in a really long winded text. Included just about every cliche in the book, how he doesn't know why he's doing it cos I'm great and I'm wonderful and blah blah blah. Also how he knew he was a dick for breaking up in a text but lucky for him he had the excuse that he was in Portugal at the time (obviously wanting to shag somebody else with a clear conscience)... so yeh, it's not just girls who are assholes... fellas do this too :rolleyes: and I feel stupid for even HAVING to say this. Jesus, reading these threads, you'd swear the sun shines out of all mens virginal arses... whilst women are just whores out to get everything they can :mad:

If you REALLY believe that, no wonder you're all so hopeless at finding women! :cool:

genie

Heineken Helen wrote:

Jesus, reading these threads, you'd swear the sun shines out of all mens virginal arses... whilst women are just whores out to get everything they can :mad:

hehe, reading this made me laugh

what men on this pit having been trying to say to us all this time is that they are saints, and the main one is St. SS and he's got a disciple Nothingman44...and few others....

Heineken Helen

genie wrote:

hehe, reading this made me laugh : )

what men on this pit having been trying to say to us all this time is that they are saints, and the main one is St. SS : D and he's got a disciple Nothingman44...and few others.... : D

I know they almost had me fooled for a minute... but now that I think of it, it's feckin hilarious

Poor men my ARSE!

funny thing is most women here have had a 'bad guy' experience (at least one) and most men here have had a 'bad girl' experience (at least one)... so who's right? Or are we all wrong?

Fact is people, in general, can be wonderful or can be assholes... even wonderful people do asshole stuff occasionally. No need to get bitter about it :cool:

genie

Heineken Helen wrote:

I know : D they almost had me fooled for a minute... but now that I think of it, it's feckin hilarious : D

Poor men : D my ARSE!

funny thing is most women here have had a 'bad guy' experience (at least one) and most men here have had a 'bad girl' experience (at least one)... so who's right? Or are we all wrong?

Fact is people, in general, can be wonderful or can be assholes... even wonderful people do asshole stuff occasionally. No need to get bitter about it :cool:

definitely, we are all here with some kind of emotional baggage.....some have tiny bags and some have rucksacks It's life, and life can be bad just as it can be good. I don't usually hear good relationship stories in here, of appreciation of their partners in here....it's all same old stuff "she/he did this and that......"

and i do have to say i'm also guilty of this. but when i find a guy, i will make sure everyone in here will know about it

Heineken Helen

genie wrote:

definitely, we are all here with some kind of emotional baggage.....some have tiny bags and some have rucksacks : D It's life, and life can be bad just as it can be good. I don't usually hear good relationship stories in here, of appreciation of their partners in here....it's all same old stuff "she/he did this and that......"

and i do have to say i'm also guilty of this. but when i find a guy, i will make sure everyone in here will know about it : )

trust me, try posting a positive thread in here and ya get so much shit for it . I just don't get some people. I was going out with a guy earlier in the year and posted positive threads but I think some people just can't bring themselves to be happy for others, not sure why! The whole negativity thing around here is slightly odd.

Oh and... mine's a prada

holtz

Heineken Helen wrote:

Poor men my ARSE!

funny thing is most women here have had a 'bad guy' experience (at least one) and most men here have had a 'bad girl' experience (at least one)... so who's right? Or are we all wrong?

I'd say the "bad girl" experience most men have is being dumped by some woman who wants to go fuck some "bad guy" type. While women's experience with "bad guys" is that they date an asshole for two years even though they know he's an asshole cause they want to change him and then once the guy finally ditches them for someone else the girl bitches about how she can't meet any nice guys.

Two totally different experiences, women stay with the asshole for a long time even after finding out the guy is an ass but guys only find out once they get dumped by text message because they chick is "seeing someone else".

Heineken Helen

holtz wrote:

I'd say the "bad girl" experience most men have is being dumped by some woman who wants to go fuck some "bad guy" type. While women's experience with "bad guys" is that they date an asshole for two years even though they know he's an asshole cause they want to change him and then once the guy finally ditches them for someone else the girl bitches about how she can't meet any nice guys.

Two totally different experiences, women stay with the asshole for a long time even after finding out the guy is an ass but guys only find out once they get dumped by text message because they chick is "seeing someone else".

Nope... I've always avoided assholes. I've pretty much only dated so called 'nice guys' and some of them have turned out to be assholes... at least if I'd known they were assholes from the beginning it probably wouldn't have hurt so much. Even after I found out and got rid of them some people were like 'how could you, he's such a nice guy' :eek: . Some of the nice guys made me wanna date bad guys... at least there's no illusion there :mad:

SoapMakesUTaller

genie wrote:

waste of vagina?! well, if that's how you look at her...then i can see where your problem might be.

I'm just making myself feel better.....:)

Like I said, I'm a nice guy....doesn't mean I'm a doormat. And I refuse to be the 2nd place trophy on any girls mantle. I simply don't have the low self esteem to blame myself for all this. I know I didn't do anything wrong. At least I can joke about it a little.