'I'm Seeing Someone'
SoapMakesUTaller
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Why do people who you've been going out with for a month or two suddenly pull this on you? Isn't it a very inconsiderate thing to do after they dangle you along for that 1-2 months?
Happened to me today and crushed me. She couldn't even do it in person, had to be in text format.
My fault in a way, broke my own rules a) Went out with someone I work with.....don't shit where you eat right?
That bad thing is that this came out of nowhere, everything is going great....then, no return calls, no return texts, avoiding me at work. The well suddenly just dried up. I guess she'll learn her lesson in time. The bad thing is that we work together, and will run into each other. The thing that might be even worse, is that I'm pretty sure the guy she's seeing now also works with us...And here I thought I had someone I could care for, for the first time in a long time. :(
Happened to me today and crushed me. She couldn't even do it in person, had to be in text format.
My fault in a way, broke my own rules a) Went out with someone I work with.....don't shit where you eat right?
That bad thing is that this came out of nowhere, everything is going great....then, no return calls, no return texts, avoiding me at work. The well suddenly just dried up. I guess she'll learn her lesson in time. The bad thing is that we work together, and will run into each other. The thing that might be even worse, is that I'm pretty sure the guy she's seeing now also works with us...And here I thought I had someone I could care for, for the first time in a long time. :(
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also, try to avoid her at work, try not to look at her and stuff like that.....soon you'll forget you ever had feelings about her....
Thanks. I will. The part that pisses me now that my mind is straight (this happened around noon) is that she totally gave me a false sense of security....'We should go here, we should do that' as early as last week.
I guess the guy she really had her eyes on finally asked her out, and nothing, or anyone, was standing in her way. Total disregard for how I felt....I mean, I texted 'Want to have lunch later this week?' and I get this as a response.
News to me......I guess I had it all wrong from the beginning.....Bitch.
Where's SoulSinging? He always has the best advice!
she was looking for a better offer
but you weren't it
like snoop says
bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks
move on my friend
wow! what a clueless bitch.....sorry for ya, man.....:(
Her response to you though, doesn't give me the impression you had a relationship going. At least not in her mind. It sounds as though she had you in the "friend" category. Were you living together? Sleeping together? In what ways were you "dating"?
First off fuck off, secondly, I agree with the last part of your post.
girls are such a drag.
life sucks sometimes.
Once I get out of this town
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Damn technology !
In my day the girl would at least have her friend tell ya
The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill
A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
LMAO!! So so true!!!
sorry you can't deal with reality
it was only a month
put on your big girl panties and move on
oh god. i did that when i was 10.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
what lesson will she learn?
this is nothing new these days. i have several friends happy to date a couple people at the same. they'll go out with anyone a few times to see how it goes and don't close any doors until they find someone they really like and connect with. it's nothing personal. she just felt it more with the other dude. sucks for you, but it happens.
also, women at that age do not want to be cared for. they want to have fun. they're young, they're hot, they're professional, they're on the verge of exciting new things in their lives, and they want a man to wine and dine them and fuck their brains out. not someone to be all wilty and mopey and lovey dovey caring.
the text thing sucks though. but you invited it by texting to to have lunch. if you're going to ask her out by text, she can reject you by text.
See its true
The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill
A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
Know anyone who has done that ?
The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill
A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
Nope. No one.
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
See These Bones
This is Bob...
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The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill
A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
I just asked a guy out to dinner from work that seemed interested in me. I got the "uncomfortable going out to dinner alone with a co-worker". Wow, did I feel foolish - then I cried (not at work) and then thought, oh well at least I tried.
That's what sucks the most...because you cared for her so much obviously. Sad you have to experience this.
Exactly !
Then the original girl would get mad at her friend because she hooked up with the sam guy
Drama
The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill
A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
Ahhhh....i miss high school
See These Bones
That shit doesn't work..'Extends' is the way to go..
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Past experience ?
It's actually ExtenZe from what I hear....
The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill
A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
Hey, I took a stab at the name. Looks like I missed, but you had no problem correcting it
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
horse tablets?
angels share laughter
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Exactly, this happens alot, people "date" various people until they find one they like. This girl's mistake was seeing someone she works with, she knew what she was doing, thats why she started ignoring you. Its best to move on and realize this chick will probably be one of those girls a few years down the road bitching about how she can't meet a nice guy.
That kinda happened me once. There was a guy I worked with and we got on brilliantly... used to tell eachother quite a bit and would spend a lot of time together. I did kinda fancy him but didn't really want anything to happen. I got moved to another site. A guy there told me that he had started seeing somebody and I was actually really happy for him cos he was a lovely guy and had been treated like shit. I was leaving the company a couple of months later and called him up to ask him to my leaving drinks and he replied 'oh, I'm actually going out with someone now' :eek: thankfully I was able to say 'yeh I know. Daniel told me, that's great, so are ya able to come?' and he made some excuse but I felt like shit. I actually considered him to be a friend :( but that's the worst part is when you lose the friendship and they don't seem to give it a second thought like the friendship didn't matter at all in the first place.
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What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
she was checking out the pond, and you thought you were meant to be.
next time don't get attached to someone easily, hold yourself back, keep it in and no i don't mean penis
don't let your guard down so soon