'I'm Seeing Someone'

SoapMakesUTaller
SoapMakesUTaller Posts: 230
edited November 2007 in All Encompassing Trip
Why do people who you've been going out with for a month or two suddenly pull this on you? Isn't it a very inconsiderate thing to do after they dangle you along for that 1-2 months?

Happened to me today and crushed me. She couldn't even do it in person, had to be in text format.

My fault in a way, broke my own rules a) Went out with someone I work with.....don't shit where you eat right?

That bad thing is that this came out of nowhere, everything is going great....then, no return calls, no return texts, avoiding me at work. The well suddenly just dried up. I guess she'll learn her lesson in time. The bad thing is that we work together, and will run into each other. The thing that might be even worse, is that I'm pretty sure the guy she's seeing now also works with us...And here I thought I had someone I could care for, for the first time in a long time. :(
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  • MyHandsBound
    MyHandsBound Posts: 698
    sorry about that....the best way to forget is to keep busy



    also, try to avoid her at work, try not to look at her and stuff like that.....soon you'll forget you ever had feelings about her....
  • SoapMakesUTaller
    SoapMakesUTaller Posts: 230
    MyHandsBound wrote:
    sorry about that....the best way to forget is to keep busy



    also, try to avoid her at work, try not to look at her and stuff like that.....soon you'll forget you ever had feelings about her....

    Thanks. I will. The part that pisses me now that my mind is straight (this happened around noon) is that she totally gave me a false sense of security....'We should go here, we should do that' as early as last week.

    I guess the guy she really had her eyes on finally asked her out, and nothing, or anyone, was standing in her way. Total disregard for how I felt....I mean, I texted 'Want to have lunch later this week?' and I get this as a response.
    Hey You! Awww I'm actually starting to see someone now...thanks though!

    News to me......I guess I had it all wrong from the beginning.....Bitch.

    Where's SoulSinging? He always has the best advice!
  • bostonlou
    bostonlou Posts: 2,849
    sorry to hear you suck in bed

    she was looking for a better offer

    but you weren't it


    like snoop says

    bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks

    move on my friend
    Don't Believe Everything You Think
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Hey You! Awww I'm actually starting to see someone now...thanks though!


    wow! what a clueless bitch.....sorry for ya, man.....:(
  • MahoganySouls
    MahoganySouls Posts: 357
    I'm sorry to hear your heartache.

    Her response to you though, doesn't give me the impression you had a relationship going. At least not in her mind. It sounds as though she had you in the "friend" category. Were you living together? Sleeping together? In what ways were you "dating"?
    "When you're climbing to the top, you'd better know the way back down" MSB
  • SoapMakesUTaller
    SoapMakesUTaller Posts: 230
    bostonlou wrote:
    sorry to hear you suck in bed

    she was looking for a better offer

    but you weren't it


    like snoop says

    bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks

    move on my friend

    First off fuck off, secondly, I agree with the last part of your post.
  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    dude i hear ya loud and clear.

    girls are such a drag.


    life sucks sometimes.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Nice chick. :rolleyes: Seriously, what an inconsiderate, thoughtless thing to say to someone who think might be interested.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    This whole texting thing is such a fuckin cop out


    Damn technology !


    In my day the girl would at least have her friend tell ya ;)
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    This whole texting thing is such a fuckin cop out


    Damn technology !


    In my day the girl would at least have her friend tell ya ;)

    LMAO!! So so true!!! :D
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • bostonlou
    bostonlou Posts: 2,849
    SoapMakesUTaller wrote:
    First off fuck off, secondly, I agree with the last part of your post.


    sorry you can't deal with reality

    it was only a month

    put on your big girl panties and move on :)
    Don't Believe Everything You Think
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    In my day the girl would at least have her friend tell ya ;)

    oh god. i did that when i was 10.
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    SoapMakesUTaller wrote:
    Why do people who you've been going out with for a month or two suddenly pull this on you? Isn't it a very inconsiderate thing to do after they dangle you along for that 1-2 months?

    Happened to me today and crushed me. She couldn't even do it in person, had to be in text format.

    My fault in a way, broke my own rules a) Went out with someone I work with.....don't shit where you eat right?

    That bad thing is that this came out of nowhere, everything is going great....then, no return calls, no return texts, avoiding me at work. The well suddenly just dried up. I guess she'll learn her lesson in time. The bad thing is that we work together, and will run into each other. The thing that might be even worse, is that I'm pretty sure the guy she's seeing now also works with us...And here I thought I had someone I could care for, for the first time in a long time. :(

    what lesson will she learn?

    this is nothing new these days. i have several friends happy to date a couple people at the same. they'll go out with anyone a few times to see how it goes and don't close any doors until they find someone they really like and connect with. it's nothing personal. she just felt it more with the other dude. sucks for you, but it happens.

    also, women at that age do not want to be cared for. they want to have fun. they're young, they're hot, they're professional, they're on the verge of exciting new things in their lives, and they want a man to wine and dine them and fuck their brains out. not someone to be all wilty and mopey and lovey dovey caring.

    the text thing sucks though. but you invited it by texting to to have lunch. if you're going to ask her out by text, she can reject you by text.
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    catefrances wrote:
    oh god. i did that when i was 10.


    See its true :p
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    AmentsChick wrote:
    LMAO!! So so true!!! :D


    Know anyone who has done that ?


    :D
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Know anyone who has done that ?


    :D

    Nope. No one.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    If only soap made your dick longer, you might still be banging this chick..Oh well, you'll be alright..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • itsevobaby
    itsevobaby Posts: 1,809
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    This whole texting thing is such a fuckin cop out


    Damn technology !


    In my day the girl would at least have her friend tell ya ;)
    ha yeah, then you'd meet the friend at a party the following weekend & hookup :D:cool:
    Look Alive,
    See These Bones
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    The Champ wrote:
    If only soap made your dick longer, you might still be banging this chick..Oh well, you'll be alright..


    This is Bob...



    http://www.enzyte.com/
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • bookmuse
    bookmuse Posts: 277
    Pretty cold and inconsiderate of her. I was in a relationship with someone I worked with for 6 years then we divorced. Worked together 2 years after that - it was hard but as time passes it got easier. Seems to me she doesn't deserve you.

    I just asked a guy out to dinner from work that seemed interested in me. I got the "uncomfortable going out to dinner alone with a co-worker". Wow, did I feel foolish - then I cried (not at work) and then thought, oh well at least I tried.
    "Speak your mind even if your voice shakes" ~ M Kuhn

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