'I'm Seeing Someone'

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

sick, or potentially frighteningly accurate and you'd rather pretend i'm wrong?

Neither! I've been drunk with both of them several times. Both have even been drunk too... they've had plenty of opportunity to say something if that were the case and trust me it's not. One even is always trying to set me up and stuff. The other I even went to a concert with him and nothing! It's just not there SS... it really isn't

norm

Heineken Helen wrote:

Neither! I've been drunk with both of them several times. Both have even been drunk too... they've had plenty of opportunity to say something if that were the case and trust me it's not. One even is always trying to set me up and stuff. The other I even went to a concert with him and nothing! It's just not there SS... it really isn't

maybe they're gay.....:p

rival.

she's not worth the time of day if she sent you her little news via text. show some class and respect.

soulsinging

Heineken Helen wrote:

Neither! I've been drunk with both of them several times. Both have even been drunk too... they've had plenty of opportunity to say something if that were the case and trust me it's not. One even is always trying to set me up and stuff. The other I even went to a concert with him and nothing! It's just not there SS... it really isn't

of course they didn't say anything. becos they don't want to date you. you think they're going to confess their love? they're waiting for you to get desperately horny and lonely while drunk and ask them to sleep with you. i'm not saying every time you go out they're going to try to nail you. just saying i can guarantee you they've thought about it and would take the shot if it was offered. they're not going to say anything becos it's not a big deal to them. but they've thought about it and if you made the offer, i bet anything they'd take you up on the free sex.

men don't have gal friends. they have women they haven't slept with yet.

tybird

SoapMakesUTaller wrote:

Why do people who you've been going out with for a month or two suddenly pull this on you? Isn't it a very inconsiderate thing to do after they dangle you along for that 1-2 months?

Happened to me today and crushed me. She couldn't even do it in person, had to be in text format.

My fault in a way, broke my own rules a) Went out with someone I work with.....don't shit where you eat right?

That bad thing is that this came out of nowhere, everything is going great....then, no return calls, no return texts, avoiding me at work. The well suddenly just dried up. I guess she'll learn her lesson in time. The bad thing is that we work together, and will run into each other. The thing that might be even worse, is that I'm pretty sure the guy she's seeing now also works with us...And here I thought I had someone I could care for, for the first time in a long time. :(

Just play it cool.....completely cool....act like nothing ever happened. Speak...be friendly....take charge.

pjtaper

tybird wrote:

Just play it cool.....completely cool....act like nothing ever happened. Speak...be friendly....take charge.

Exactly! Make sure to look extra happy when she is around... say hi, let her know what she is missing out on...
then find the guy and kick the shite out of him for stealing your woman!
It's only a month, at least you didn't waste more of your life on her!

DaytimeDilemma

SoapMakesUTaller wrote:

That bad thing is that this came out of nowhere, everything is going great....then, no return calls, no return texts, avoiding me at work. The well suddenly just dried up. I guess she'll learn her lesson in time.

That is the worst shit. Happened to me at one point. It's like the more inconsiderate thing for someone to do. It's like they realize they are being a complete asshole, so instead of looking like the bad person, they just ignore it and hope it goes away. I'd rather they just tell me straight up. I feel fo you here, man. It sucks.

SoapMakesUTaller

tybird wrote:

Just play it cool.....completely cool....act like nothing ever happened. Speak...be friendly....take charge.

I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone with the words of encouragement. They are a silver lining in an otherwise shitty situation. I will definately take these to heart. I knew I could count on you guys.

And what I just quoted.....I think that is the best way to go about it when I see her. Might be a little queasy at first, but, I'll flash the million dollar smile she first fell for. F girls who are this shitty. And soulsinging is absolutely right, in 6 years she'll be one of those girls saying 'Why can't I find a nice guy?'.....Waste of a vagina!

Thanks you guys.

bostonlou

DaytimeDilemma wrote:

That is the worst shit. Happened to me at one point. It's like the more inconsiderate thing for someone to do. It's like they realize they are being a complete asshole, so instead of looking like the bad person, they just ignore it and hope it goes away. I'd rather they just tell me straight up. I feel fo you here, man. It sucks.

it was only a month

obviously she thought less of the relationship than he did

DaytimeDilemma

bostonlou wrote:

it was only a month

obviously she thought less of the relationship than he did

Ohhh...the relationship was only a month. Still sucks though.


Try dating a girl for 2 years and that same shit happening. Not fun.

norm

SoapMakesUTaller wrote:

Waste of a vagina!

that's brilliant!!

Spunkie

bostonlou wrote:

sorry to hear you suck in bed

she was looking for a better offer

but you weren't it


like snoop says

bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks

move on my friend

Tell that to your Mama! Or your Daughter.

The Champ

bostonlou wrote:

I would use this as my sig if I didn't love my new one

nice work champ

What's up with that sig btw?

The Champ

Heineken Helen wrote:

Neither! I've been drunk with both of them several times. Both have even been drunk too... they've had plenty of opportunity to say something if that were the case and trust me it's not. One even is always trying to set me up and stuff. The other I even went to a concert with him and nothing! It's just not there SS... it really isn't

Maybe they weren't drunk enough and/or you didn't offer like SS said?

The Champ

SoapMakesUTaller wrote:

I will definately take these to heart. I knew I could count on you guys.
Thanks you guys.

Hey, no problem buddy. I am always glad to help..

bostonlou

DaytimeDilemma wrote:

Ohhh...the relationship was only a month. Still sucks though.


Try dating a girl for 2 years and that same shit happening. Not fun.

but once she dumps your ass... don't you realize that everything you thought was a lie?

i'm sure it ain't easy... but shit... you have to move on... it's not like you fucked up... other than hooking up with a lying bitch

DaytimeDilemma

bostonlou wrote:

but once she dumps your ass... don't you realize that everything you thought was a lie?

i'm sure it ain't easy... but shit... you have to move on... it's not like you fucked up... other than hooking up with a lying bitch

Yes. And yes, it's true.



However, it's a very long story and it didn't end there so...

justjoshingu

i've gotten taht response from someone before but not by texting. they told me they were seeing someon after we had been dating a while.

i was like "when, we're always hanging around together"
and apparently it was an old boyfriend from like 2 years prior and he told her he missed her.

i was invited to their wedding.

nothingman44

bostonlou wrote:

but once she dumps your ass... don't you realize that everything you thought was a lie?

i'm sure it ain't easy... but shit... you have to move on... it's not like you fucked up... other than hooking up with a lying bitch

amen!

nothingman44

justjoshingu wrote:

i was invited to their wedding.

please tell me you went and they had an open bar...which you comepletely took advantage of...