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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    She thinks one half of my face is bigger than the other half. She's said it 3 or 4 times now.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,441
    edited December 2019
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    She thinks one half of my face is bigger than the other half. She's said it 3 or 4 times now.
    psst. this is true for every human being on the planet. we , as a species, are NOT symetrical in our features.

    We have a dominate side. one foot larger than the other. leg slightly longer etc....

    a simple fact of biology. why should YOU be different in this fundamental way?


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  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,903
    I want to scream at her. What is her agenda. To sabotage her son? Mate seriously  keep away from  her . You dont need it. Say stuff back and let her know she is killing your confidence . Im awake feom 2am again its 4 a.m now i hate this.
    What meds did they suggest because i reckon ive had most?


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  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,903
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    She thinks one half of my face is bigger than the other half. She's said it 3 or 4 times now.
    Also so what . I cant see that any face or body is symmetrical.  Ask the ladies here. From what ive seen. Boobs are un equal.  Feet are. Leg length.  Its not even a thing. Try  laughing at her pathetic hurtful soul.


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  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,903
    Ah mickey said same see. She is in your  head now  but she is your mother confront her ffs. Speak only truth. But you just have to throw it back it does not belong  at your door..


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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    edited December 2019
    lastexitlondon said:
    I want to scream at her. What is her agenda. To sabotage her son? Mate seriously  keep away from  her . You dont need it. Say stuff back and let her know she is killing your confidence . Im awake feom 2am again its 4 a.m now i hate this.
    What meds did they suggest because i reckon ive had most?
    Thanks for your support Rob.
    It's very hurtful and I struggle not to believe her. I asked my dad to have a look at my face and he said he can't see anything wrong. I still feel self conscious now and angry.

    I forgot the name of the drug. It starts with S and is not a benzodiazepine.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I confronted her and she said it's true.
    I asked why she's making fun of me and she got defensive saying she's not, that she's only pointing it out because she's worried about me. I'm going to ask my GP.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    mickeyrat said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    She thinks one half of my face is bigger than the other half. She's said it 3 or 4 times now.
    psst. this is true for every human being on the planet. we , as a species, are NOT symetrical in our features.

    We have a dominate side. one foot larger than the other. leg slightly longer etc....

    a simple fact of biology. why should YOU be different in this fundamental way?


    Thanks. I'll watch it later.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,903
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I confronted her and she said it's true.
    I asked why she's making fun of me and she got defensive saying she's not, that she's only pointing it out because she's worried about me. I'm going to ask my GP.
    Worried about what though. The way SHE thinks you look. ? If she was concerned about a medical condition (which im unaware of)  surly she would  say that  in the first  instance


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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I didn't ask. I should've
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • JPPJ84
    JPPJ84 Hamburg, Germany Posts: 3,464
    edited December 2019
    Don't listen to her, M. You know she's toxic! You look fine! Mickey and Rob are right, an asymmetry is normal - I know my mouth is asymmetrical. Looks kinda funny on my passport photo where you're not allowed to smile. my one leg is 0,5cm shorter than the other one... so what?!
    Nobody's perfect. Everyone is perfect the way they are!
    If your doctor gave you a time frame of a month for activities I'm sure some friends can arrange a meeting - even with busy schedules. Start with your best friend and tell him honestly what the doctor said. I'm sure he'd gladly go out with you.
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Thanks J. My best friend told me a few weeks ago that we should catch up closer to Christmas when school finishes for the year as he'll be on holiday. I don't think he'll be free before that.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,903
    Im unravelling  here. I cant believe the drs.  I just don't  how i feel is becoming hard to function at all. 


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  • JPPJ84
    JPPJ84 Hamburg, Germany Posts: 3,464
    lastexitlondon said:
    Im unravelling  here. I cant believe the drs.  I just don't  how i feel is becoming hard to function at all. 
    Can you explain why you don't believe them? I think "not believing them" is part of the symptoms of health anxiety, isn't it?
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    lastexitlondon said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    She thinks one half of my face is bigger than the other half. She's said it 3 or 4 times now.
    Also so what . I cant see that any face or body is symmetrical.  Ask the ladies here. From what ive seen. Boobs are un equal.  Feet are. Leg length.  Its not even a thing. Try  laughing at her pathetic hurtful soul.
    I'm a lefty in that regard. :smiley: My left eye is even bigger than my right. 

    Ignore your mother. She is a bully. 
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I try but I take her comments to heart
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,903
    JPPJ84 said:
    lastexitlondon said:
    Im unravelling  here. I cant believe the drs.  I just don't  how i feel is becoming hard to function at all. 
    Can you explain why you don't believe them? I think "not believing them" is part of the symptoms of health anxiety, isn't it?
    Yes  it is but  i say something  has gone very wrong with my brain. My memory  and confusion is terrible 24/7 .
     They say its not a terrible brain problem. They say anxiety. I say not


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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    lastexitlondon said:
    JPPJ84 said:
    lastexitlondon said:
    Im unravelling  here. I cant believe the drs.  I just don't  how i feel is becoming hard to function at all. 
    Can you explain why you don't believe them? I think "not believing them" is part of the symptoms of health anxiety, isn't it?
    Yes  it is but  i say something  has gone very wrong with my brain. My memory  and confusion is terrible 24/7 .
     They say its not a terrible brain problem. They say anxiety. I say not
    Are you using cannabis and/or are you drinking? If so, could this explain your feeling of confusion and your memory problem? Could cannabis and alcohol be interacting with medication you are on to create confusion and memory problems?
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,903
    Yes i drink. Im not on meds. I started using cannabis about 6 months ago . Ive had these symptoms 2.5 years i feel its worse now. But i need to try escape the horrible confusion. Nothing  stops it only i care less when fucked up


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  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,903
    Ive had enough. I actually  have . Im lost totally lost


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