Should I ask her out?

SD48277

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

The date got moved to tonight. Rushed home from work, shaved, dressed nice and freshened up. She suggested tonight but was still ok with tomorrow. Less than 1 hr to go. Wish me luck! We are dining as well.

Good luck!! You are going to do better than you imagine. Looking forward to hearing how things went.

Thoughts_Arrive

Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing.

SPEEDY MCCREADY

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing.

I like Happy Endings!

I am glad to hear you had a GREAT TIME!

SD48277

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing.

WooHoo!!!
Yes, she likes you! Glad to hear everything went well.

Thoughts_Arrive

There was no flirty kind of chat or sexual spark. I didn't go that path too shy. I just let it flow. Take it slow I guess no rush.
Hope she wants to see me as more than a friend. Time will tell.
How long should I wait before asking her out again? Need the fine line before too soon and too late.

Thanks once again guys.

afroannnie

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing.

:clap: :clap: Good for you! Sounds like you had a nice time!

pjfan31

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Went really well guys/girls. We were there for almost 3 hrs time flew. She can talk so the evening barely went without silence and I didn't have to worry about topics it all just flowed. We actually didn't even have coffee. Dinner and wine. I paid and walked her safely to her car in the dark side street. She drove me to my car and we said bye with a kiss on the cheek. She said she will pay for the next time, I didn't even suggest a next time (does that mean she likes me?).
She was happy and bubbly all night which put me at ease.

So yeah will most likely see her at the movies with others on Monday night.
Will text her tomorrow to tell her I had a great time and say something like "should do it again soon".

A big thank you to all for your kind advice. You are all amazing.

I am very happy for youu...

I think the text tomorrow is a good idea... Can't stand this whole 'game' where some people say to wait etc... Just don't do it too early in the day or too late...

Yes, I say she does like you... Well done...

dimitrispearljam

great to read that...thats good things to happen..

MayDay10

I think the move here is to not go to movie night.

dimitrispearljam

MayDay10 wrote:

I think the move here is to not go to movie night.

i agree

Paulina87

dimitrispearljam wrote:

MayDay10 wrote:

I think the move here is to not go to movie night.

i agree

why not? you should go to that movie nigt. It will sound fake now if you say you don't have time to come or sth.

Anyway, good to hear that all went well :thumbup:

dimitrispearljam

Paulina87 wrote:

why not? you should go to that movie nigt. It will sound fake now if you say you don't have time to come or sth.

thats not what im saying..

81

8-)

i'm glad you had a great time.

but i also want to be on record here...

the next time you are stressing over asking a girl out or not, think about tonight and think about the good time you would have missed....

SPEEDY MCCREADY

81 wrote:

8-)

i'm glad you had a great time.

but i also want to be on record here...

the next time you are stressing over asking a girl out or not, think about tonight and think about the good time you would have missed....

Exactly...

Females are like Bowel Movements...
Another one will come by, at the same time tomorrow.

zagi

:clap: great all went well, glad for you thoughts
also, love the way this community works!

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

Females are like Bowel Movements...
Another one will come by, at the same time tomorrow.

:nono: :nono: couldn't you use bus or something
and what about constipation ?!

SPEEDY MCCREADY

zagi wrote:

:clap: great all went well, glad for you thoughts
also, love the way this community works!

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

Females are like Bowel Movements...
Another one will come by, at the same time tomorrow.

:nono: :nono: couldn't you use bus or something
and what about constipation ?!

Females are like Hemmoroids?
A Great Big Pain In The Ass?

Black Diamond

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

zagi wrote:

:clap: great all went well, glad for you thoughts
also, love the way this community works!

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

Females are like Bowel Movements...
Another one will come by, at the same time tomorrow.

:nono: :nono: couldn't you use bus or something
and what about constipation ?!

Females are like Hemmoroids?
A Great Big Pain In The Ass?

SPEEDY MCCREADY

Black Diamond wrote:

Oh, to be single again.
My pockets would JINGLE again!

zagi

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

Females are like Hemmoroids?
A Great Big Pain In The Ass?

:fp: :fp:
some more than others, but i guess sometimes you can't help it

SPEEDY MCCREADY

Women are like monkeys...
Prior to 1920, neither had the right to vote.
Monkeys still dont.