Should I ask her out?

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  • SD48277SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    A lot of girls in the places I've been to are loud, stupid, superficial, and wasted.
    I don't like my chances.
    Change the places you go.
    Maybe I missed it in an earlier post, but what are you looking for?
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  • smithnicsmithnic Posts: 1,563
    81 wrote:
    am i the only one here that wants to shag this girl already?

    we need pic :lol:


    Someone better because the thread's originator doesn't seem to want to.
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  • rollingsrollings Posts: 7,124
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  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,331
    I thought of these words of wisdom...

    When I was looking for a girl, I was always looking for someone perfect... It meant I was quick to find their faults. Turns out, it was me who had the fault...

    Open yourself up mate.... Allow yourself to like someone. Think of her positive traits...
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  • So did the second date happen?
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  • So did the second date happen?

    No.
    Movie night tonight, don't know if I want to go.
    Coming down with a cold also :(
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  • SD48277 wrote:
    A lot of girls in the places I've been to are loud, stupid, superficial, and wasted.
    I don't like my chances.
    Change the places you go.
    Maybe I missed it in an earlier post, but what are you looking for?

    Noone wants to relax, everyone wants to get wasted with idiot crowds.
    I am looking for a normal down to earth mature smart girl.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • RKCNDYRKCNDY Posts: 31,013
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  • SD48277SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    Did you go to movie night?
    ELITIST FUK
  • The JugglerThe Juggler Posts: 48,527
    RKCNDY wrote:

    that's too perfect.

    op should focus more on the online sites if it doesn't work out with this chick. at least that one date he went on with her last week went better than expected. that should give him a little bit of confidence.
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  • PJ_Soul wrote:
    Turning 29 this year. Not exactly young and I have grey hairs. Tick tock time is running out for me.
    No it's not - not even close. Many men aren't getting married until their mid to late 30s these days, if that. Don't worry about it. Plus, time is running out for what exactly?? It's not like you have to worry about not being able to get pregnant if you wait too long.

    When I am all grey hairs and wrinkly noone will want me.
    I am under pressure from family to get married, it is a cultural thing as well.

    I thought like that for a little while. I got married when I was 37. I'm sooooo glad I waitedseriosly. It was the best thing that ever happened to me to wait and bump into the best person i've ever met at 36 years old. And I was single for long stretches (from 27-30, 32-35). You'll be fine, but you need to change your attitude a bit.

    And I suggest tha you should forget your family and their pressure. Do things your way... dont force things or think about them too much. it will fuck it up. You have to be selfish in this department, dont do anything relationship related in terms of family, culture, or any outside pressure, whatsoever.
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  • my grandpa's 4 criteria of a good woman:

    1st you see how she can cook
    2nd you see how she pays her bills
    3rd see if she can clean
    4th you see how she is in bed.

    Not sure if that is the correct order - but that is his 4.

    and if she is good at 3 out of 4..... that ain't bad
    #justsaying
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