If I was 10 years younger...
30lbs lighter...
Had a better job...
And not married....
I would definitely ask you out!!!!
means you wish to be like me??
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
You sure can, actually call me coward guy.
I spent hours watching dating videos on Youtube, some guru was saying how being single leaves a massive hole in your life. It made me depressed because it is true. I never go out as I only have one friend and he is in a long term relationship so how will I ever meet someone I have a dating website profile but don't have a photo of me nor have I ever contacted anyone. Cannot get over this fear and anxiety. Internet dating is frowned upon in my family anyways. So how will I ever meet someone, feel like my life is over.
put up some pictures....and send some messages.
don't live in fear.
don't be negative when asking them out, don't be negative when talking about yourself. 4.7M people over there....just do it...or load up some pics and give me your log on info. i'll get you date.
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in fairness, this would be a poor reply most of the time when trying to set up a first date. a better answer would be lets go to charlies bar or whatever local spot that isn't super loud so we can talk
in fairness, this would be a poor reply most of the time when trying to set up a first date. a better answer would be lets go to charlies bar or whatever local spot that isn't super loud so we can talk
:shock: :shock:
Thoughts Arrive better don't learn from 81
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Getting shot down is never as bad as youve made it out to be in your head.
Just be honest.. Hey Mikalina I see you like hiking, why don't you hike on over to PIttsburgh and ill take you out for some trail mix and a wheat grass smoothie. Unless of course you're a Cleveland Browns fan, and I retract my previous offer. Hey Paulina I see you're from Poland...
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Thoughts_Arrive, you're such a nice, intelligent and
Interesting person!!! I think you should just take that
Leap of faith and go for it!!! I wish there were guys
like you in Colorado!
Thoughts_Arrive, you're such a nice, intelligent and
Interesting person!!! I think you should just take that
Leap of faith and go for it!!! I wish there were guys
like you in Colorado!
Nekminnit, thoughts arrive is in Colorado..
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Thoughts_Arrive, you're such a nice, intelligent and
Interesting person!!! I think you should just take that
Leap of faith and go for it!!! I wish there were guys
like you in Colorado!
Nekminnit, thoughts arrive is in Colorado..
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Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
Awesome that you got the nerve to ask her out...and see, she said Yes! Try not to stress your self out and over think things and good luck!
Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
Woohoo!!! Don't stress...it will all be good. You are smart, funny and kind. Don't sell yourself short.
Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
Awesome that you got the nerve to ask her out...and see, she said Yes! Try not to stress your self out and over think things and good luck!
Woo hoo! She reached out to YOU first! Consider that perhaps she is as nervous to take a chance as you are. You have a lot to offer. Think good thoughts only and erase any negativity. Have a great time Wednesday. Been following this thread and am so happy for you!
Jen
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Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
relax
bring some topics (travel, movies, music, what have you been up to. ask follow up questions) don't interrogate.
Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
relax
bring some topics (travel, movies, music, what have you been up to. ask follow up questions) don't interrogate.
done
What do you know... the smoking baby is a romance expert... :P
Houston, Texas... Believe it or not, there are 7 million people here... must be a couple of fans who'd love to see you play.
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Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
That is awesome! Some nervousness is normal - she's probably feeling some too. Don't stress too much - this is a good chance to see how well you guys connect and find out more about what stuff you do have in common. Take the pressure off of yourself and focus on the connection - she has to keep the conversation going too - it's not all just on you. Someone who is a good fit for you will probably be someone who is able to help set you at ease. Good luck and try to have fun!
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
Getting shot down is never as bad as youve made it out to be in your head.
Just be honest.. Hey Mikalina I see you like hiking, why don't you hike on over to PIttsburgh and ill take you out for some trail mix and a wheat grass smoothie. Unless of course you're a Cleveland Browns fan, and I retract my previous offer. Hey Paulina I see you're from Poland...
btw - I'm NOT a Cleveland Browns fan - as for hiking, I'll wait till the weather warms up a bit - way too cold for me. I'll need more than trail mix and a smoothie, an entire dinner would be much better
Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
Yay!! Good luck!
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
Get this, today she invited me to a movies night she organised for next week, a catch up with people she hasn't seen in ages including me. I am tentative about this as I have fallen out with some of these people.
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
Yay!! Good luck!
Yay! You did it! So happy! Just relax, listen to some good PJ before you
go, and enjoy the moment! Take each breath as if it were the last, and be
yourself! Most if all,have fun!! Good luck my friend, let us know how it goes
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means you wish to be like me??
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
SEE!!!!
Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
put up some pictures....and send some messages.
don't live in fear.
don't be negative when asking them out, don't be negative when talking about yourself. 4.7M people over there....just do it...or load up some pics and give me your log on info. i'll get you date.
to my bed. :shock:
in fairness, this would be a poor reply most of the time when trying to set up a first date. a better answer would be lets go to charlies bar or whatever local spot that isn't super loud so we can talk
:shock: :shock:
Thoughts Arrive better don't learn from 81
Just be honest.. Hey Mikalina I see you like hiking, why don't you hike on over to PIttsburgh and ill take you out for some trail mix and a wheat grass smoothie. Unless of course you're a Cleveland Browns fan, and I retract my previous offer. Hey Paulina I see you're from Poland...
St. Paul 2014 • Mexico City 2015 • Philadelphia II 2016 • Ottawa 2016 • Amsterdam I & II 2018 • Wrigley Field II 2018 • Phoenix 2022
Apollo Theater 2022 • Chicago I 2023 • Baltimore 2024
Interesting person!!! I think you should just take that
Leap of faith and go for it!!! I wish there were guys
like you in Colorado!
Nekminnit, thoughts arrive is in Colorado..
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Sydney 07/11/2006
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Melbourne 24/01/2014
Sydney 26/01/2014
EV Sydney 13/02/2014
I texted her back and asked if she wants to catch up for coffee, she agreed and only a few mins ago via Facebook chat did we agree Wednesday night at a local cafe. Anxious has hell now.
Wish me luck.
My last date at this place was a disaster.
I always fear not having things to talk about, I am a quiet guy and not a great conversationalist.
Awesome that you got the nerve to ask her out...and see, she said Yes!
i can't give any advice, being quite shy myself and awkward around people i like, but i can wish you good luck and have great time
sretno!
Woo hoo! She reached out to YOU first! Consider that perhaps she is as nervous to take a chance as you are. You have a lot to offer. Think good thoughts only and erase any negativity. Have a great time Wednesday. Been following this thread and am so happy for you!
Jen
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relax
bring some topics (travel, movies, music, what have you been up to. ask follow up questions) don't interrogate.
done
What do you know... the smoking baby is a romance expert... :P
i have board refrences if you need any.
Naw I'm pretty good. We've been living together 5 years, gonna propose in the near future, and got that figured out.
I would like to see that list of references just out of curiosity though... :twisted:
my cigar payment is coming next month for one, and i've secured a spot at the head table for the other.
:thumbup: Good luck to you and just relax....
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
So... i'm unclear... are you a smoking, matchmaker baby, or a pimp?
depends on what you are looking for
Next time I'm in Chicago I'll give you a ring.
go, and enjoy the moment! Take each breath as if it were the last, and be
yourself! Most if all,have fun!! Good luck my friend, let us know how it goes