Should I ask her out?

PJ_Soul

81 wrote:

peacefrompaul wrote:

I wonder if PJ_Soul could kick my ass

should have come to MT

Now you'll never know.

peacefrompaul

PJ_Soul wrote:

81 wrote:

peacefrompaul wrote:

I wonder if PJ_Soul could kick my ass

should have come to MT

Now you'll never know.

SD48277

Update? Did you ask her yet? :corn:

LloydXmas

Did you get her numbah

Black Diamond

81 wrote:

donnaruhl wrote:

The Juggler wrote:

Is this person looking at the great boob's in the sky?

pj soul is pretty tall....and this chick looks pretty short. :P

I don't remember her height.

Fifi_Ireland

I hate to say it but.... grow a pair and ask....its only coffee and if it doesnt work out its not like you have attacked her in public! you know her, you have chatted before, worst case scenario theres no spark.

you are over analysing! dont think about the brother cause if shes the one for you then regardles of his feelings hes going to have to suck it up and get over it! his problem not yours!

I have a friend who married her best friends ex..... we all thought it was weird at first but then realised they were destined to be together! Now its all good! the weirdness always goes away when you see two people together who are supposed to be together

At the end of the day.....if you want to be with someone you need to get out there and meet people. If it doesnt work out with this girl consider it practice for the next one.....

Press send and dont worry about it.......

Good luck

SPEEDY MCCREADY

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

I've known her for a long time but haven't seen her in a very long time.
Only contact we have is occasional Facebook chat.
She invited me last year to a dinner she organised but due to falling out with some of the other guests I didn't go.
Last year when she invited me she said it's been a long time since she's seen me and thought she'd invite me.
I kind of got a feeling all these years she had a crush on me to, just some of the things she would do....
I have always had a crush on her but didn't go further because am/was friends with her brother (he's kinda disappeared so not sure if he is mad at me and doesn't want to be my friend no more) and going out with a friends sister is a big no no.

Should I just take a brave chance and ask her via Facebook if she wants to catch up over coffee?
Or should I wait until we chat next online and ask her then instead of just randomly messaging her online?
Would it be creepy just to message her when she isn't online?

Its pretty simple, my friend.

If you Dont ask her out for a cup of coffee, or a movie, or drinks, or a nice meal.

Then you will NEVER take her out for a cup of coffee, a movie, or drinks, or a nice meal.

Its pretty simple.

afroannnie

as long as she likes cats, go for it..

The Juggler

so did you guys engage in intercourse yet?

smithnic

I'm totally skipping the thread and only reading the title....

YES

Why the hell not?

JaneNY

smithnic wrote:

I'm totally skipping the thread and only reading the title....

YES

Why the hell not?

I agree and same (didn't read whole thread). Saying 'do you want to have coffee' is a nice non-scary way to get together, that's not really a 'date'. Then depending on how it goes you take it from there.

dimitrispearljam

JaneNY wrote:

smithnic wrote:

I'm totally skipping the thread and only reading the title....

YES

Why the hell not?

I agree and same (didn't read whole thread). Saying 'do you want to have coffee' is a nice non-scary way to get together, that's not really a 'date'. Then depending on how it goes you take it from there.

we all agree with that,but some people need their time,have their rythm,their style..
and need to feel confortable for move things..
and ofcourse,i think he must do it,maybe he needs his time

Paulina87

the wolf wrote:

better to regret asking and her saying no, then to regret not asking her and never knowing.

exactly!!
and good luck with that!

81

Paulina87 wrote:

the wolf wrote:

better to regret asking and her saying no, then to regret not asking her and never knowing.

exactly!!
and good luck with that!

hey paulina, you wanna go out friday for drinks. :corn:

LloydXmas

come on garth. Why don't you just talk to her. talk to her. talk to her.

YLed2

81 wrote:

Paulina87 wrote:

the wolf wrote:

better to regret asking and her saying no, then to regret not asking her and never knowing.

exactly!!
and good luck with that!

hey paulina, you wanna go out friday for drinks. :corn:

YLed2

Absolutely ask her out brother. If you have her number already, I would just give her a call. But you should absolutely do it. Just be cool, calm, collective, and confident.....the killer Cs.

Thoughts_Arrive

I still haven't asked. It's not just the brother. I just feel like I am not good enough. She'd most likely prefer the tanned muscles type over a skinny pale guy with no biceps like me.

AlbertaGirl70_

the wolf wrote:

better to regret asking and her saying no, then to regret not asking her and never knowing.

I totally agree with this....from the female perspective....

pjfan31

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

I still haven't asked. It's not just the brother. I just feel like I am not good enough. She'd most likely prefer the tanned muscles type over a skinny pale guy with no biceps like me.

Thoughts, (can I call you thoughts?), I have asked girls out before, I have even mulled over it on here like you and it can be nerve racking. If she says no, life goes on. You live another day. Girls like confidence. Get in there and do your thing... Come couple of weeks/month, you will not regret it. I guarantee it...