IVF Journey 2: Negative....again. :(

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  • LoulouLoulou Posts: 6,247
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    FUNNY STORY!!

    So I'm spread legged on the bed, got the speculum inside, got the tube thingy inside my cervix where they shoot the embryo in or whatever they do, Leigh's next to me all excited, nurse is on standby watching and the embryologist is there ready to hand over the embryo....and my cute little Chinese ivf doctor's mobile phone goes off....and this is the tune:

    http://www.pisamba.com/ringtones/view/C ... Ugly_46540

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    We ALL laughed....Leigh especially. He said to the doctor he never envisioned a Sergio Leone movie as the background to his first child being properly conceived....but somehow it fits! :lol: That song will NEVER be the same again. :mrgreen:
    :lol::lol: that's funny! My older brother actually saw Ennio Morricone the other night in concert who composed that song. Best of luck Ziggy, your embryo looks just like you. ;)
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  • comebackgirlcomebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Good lucky Ziggy! Hope this little embryo grabs on tight and wishing for a positive test result in a couple of weeks!
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  • afroannnieafroannnie Posts: 12,995
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Meet....my embryo. We think it takes after my bf. :lol:

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    Everything with that embryo was fine. It looks exactly as it should...but is a little elongated. The other embryo isn't quite as good as this one but they are giving it another day and should freeze it tomorrow. The third didn't even divide so is useless.

    Now I wait until 2 April for my pregnancy test. Come on little baby! STICK...!!! :mrgreen::mrgreen:

    So cute! :) I'm glad to hear things went well. I hope the little guy nestles down and makes a nice home in your uterus :) Good luck!
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  • dottlesdottles Posts: 9,138
    Good luck Zig, lots of sticky vibes.
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  • mikalinamikalina Posts: 7,206
    Thats awesome news !!!!! so happy for you :D
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  • DS1119DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    FUNNY STORY!!

    So I'm spread legged on the bed, got the speculum inside, got the tube thingy inside my cervix where they shoot the embryo in or whatever they do, Leigh's next to me all excited, nurse is on standby watching and the embryologist is there ready to hand over the embryo....and my cute little Chinese ivf doctor's mobile phone goes off....and this is the tune:

    http://www.pisamba.com/ringtones/view/C ... Ugly_46540

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    We ALL laughed....Leigh especially. He said to the doctor he never envisioned a Sergio Leone movie as the background to his first child being properly conceived....but somehow it fits! :lol: That song will NEVER be the same again. :mrgreen:


    :lol::lol:
  • mikalinamikalina Posts: 7,206
    I'm wondering - did the doctors inject only ( 1 ) embryo or were (3) put in ???
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    mikalina wrote:
    I'm wondering - did the doctors inject only ( 1 ) embryo or were (3) put in ???

    Only one. Australian standards advise against multiple embryos for first timers under 35. They don't want twins....increases pregnancy risks too much. And it doesn't increase pregnancy rates. Two embryos don't equal higher chance of pregnancy. If I realllly wanted to I could have implanted more...ultimately it was my decision....but I'd feel forever guilty if I went against their advice and something bad happened to my baby. So just implanted one embryo.
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  • mikalinamikalina Posts: 7,206
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    mikalina wrote:
    I'm wondering - did the doctors inject only ( 1 ) embryo or were (3) put in ???

    Only one. Australian standards advise against multiple embryos for first timers under 35. They don't want twins....increases pregnancy risks too much. And it doesn't increase pregnancy rates. Two embryos doesn't equal higher chance of pregnancy. If I realllly wanted to I could have implanted more...ultimately it was my decision....but I'd feel forever guilty if I went against their advice and something bad happened to my baby. So just planted one embryo.


    I understand...

    my friend who did this had (3) implanted, thats the max. She lost one and did carry twins to term. The Boys are now 5 yrs old.
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  • of.the.girlof.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    Yay!!! Grab hold little ziglet.

    Best of luck to you Ziggy!
  • CareyCarey Posts: 2,361
    mickeyrat wrote:
    soo if my math is correct you'll be in your 8/9th months during your summer? let me know how that works out for ya. :?

    She'll be just fine! That's a great time to have a newborn! No snow and cold and ice to drag the little peanut through for those frequent well baby visits! Maxi dresses and sandals for swollen feet! She'll be all good :D

    And Ziggy, my two embryos 'stuck' the first time and are now raising hell in my living room! I have very positive thoughts for you. :thumbup: :thumbup: :-D
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  • justamjustam Posts: 21,408
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    mikalina wrote:
    I'm wondering - did the doctors inject only ( 1 ) embryo or were (3) put in ???

    Only one. Australian standards advise against multiple embryos for first timers under 35. They don't want twins....increases pregnancy risks too much. And it doesn't increase pregnancy rates. Two embryos don't equal higher chance of pregnancy. If I realllly wanted to I could have implanted more...ultimately it was my decision....but I'd feel forever guilty if I went against their advice and something bad happened to my baby. So just implanted one embryo.

    Take it easy for a few days to really give it the best chance of getting settled in!!

    Congratulations! :)
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  • LizardLizard Posts: 12,091
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    Good thoughts for a happy health pregnancy!!!!!
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  • chiquimonkeychiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    WOOHOO! Positive vibes coming to you and the embryo :)
  • mfc2006mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,411
    awesome news!! congrats!
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  • Meg8686Meg8686 Posts: 1,234
    Hello little Embryo :wave:
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  • RKCNDYRKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    Wonderful news Zig!

    Take it easy until April 2nd! :D
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  • Leezestarr313Leezestarr313 Posts: 14,352
    That embryo looks like a little gem!

    Grow and stick to momma, sweetie!
  • mca47mca47 Posts: 13,280
    Congrats Zigs! :D
  • SD48277SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    Awesome!! :D
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  • Given to...Given to... Posts: 4,988
    Hang on little embry! You are in for quite a ride!
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  • Given to...Given to... Posts: 4,988
    Cute name idea...


    Embyi O. Ziggalisious


    Or you can squeeze in 'Baby Sue' somewhere.
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Cute name idea...


    Embyi O. Ziggalisious

    Might be a bit hard to spell for the wee thing. ;)
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  • ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    That embryo looks like a little gem!

    Grow and stick to momma, sweetie!

    We think it looks pretty awesome too! :lol: Kinda cool having such an early photo of our baby! :D
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  • The JugglerThe Juggler Posts: 48,527
    good work :thumbup:
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  • E.KE.K Posts: 7,709
    Loulou wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    FUNNY STORY!!

    So I'm spread legged on the bed, got the speculum inside, got the tube thingy inside my cervix where they shoot the embryo in or whatever they do, Leigh's next to me all excited, nurse is on standby watching and the embryologist is there ready to hand over the embryo....and my cute little Chinese ivf doctor's mobile phone goes off....and this is the tune:

    http://www.pisamba.com/ringtones/view/C ... Ugly_46540

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    We ALL laughed....Leigh especially. He said to the doctor he never envisioned a Sergio Leone movie as the background to his first child being properly conceived....but somehow it fits! :lol: That song will NEVER be the same again. :mrgreen:
    :lol::lol: that's funny! My older brother actually saw Ennio Morricone the other night in concert who composed that song. Best of luck Ziggy, your embryo looks just like you. ;)

    The link doesn't work. Is this it?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LQGGQ-FCe_w

    :lol::lol:
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  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,549
    Ziggalisious

    :lol::lol:
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    However....I found out the reason I had TEN follicles (eggs sacs) but they only got FIVE eggs.

    ONE OF MY MOTHERFUCKING OVARIES DECIDED TO HIDE BEHIND MY UTERUS THAT DAY!!!!! :x :x :x :x :x :x

    They tried everything to manipulate my body so it would move but it wouldn't budge. I feel so much anger about it. I'm trying to let it go....anger not good right now. What should have been a nice moment of getting implanted was me spread legged on the bed looking at my bf with a "you wouldn't FUCKING believe it!!!" look and him giving me the "settle down, it's okay" look. haha

    You just go through sooo much....$8500 for this one cycle, stress, pain, worry, needles, constant anxiety, heaps of other shit....and everything worked perfectly for the entire treatment process....which after 9 months of failure on Clomid was so nice....and to find that I could have had MORE eggs for future ivf cycles FUCKING PISSES ME OFF!!!

    So now I possibly MAY have another embryo for my next baby/another go at this baby -- if the embryo develops enough....or there's also a fucking chance I'll be going through ALL this again in the near future....because that fucking ovary decided to move on that one important day.

    Trying to let the anger go....but I'm struggling. Just pisses me off. *thinks happy thoughts*


    no anger zig... an embryo is growing inside you... she needs you calm, happy and optimistic.
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • I'm a little late, but.... Congratulations!!!!! That is a great story and I am smiling ear to ear reading it right now :D
  • justamjustam Posts: 21,408
    Cate's right. Your body needs the chemicals released from feeling in love at the moment. It'll help.
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