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  • polaris_x
    polaris_x Posts: 13,559
    _ wrote:
    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    I can't stop laughing!! (See, I bet you have a way with the ladies.) :D

    i'm the guy girls want to be friends with ... then they find out I cook ... at which point i've got to beat them off with a stick! ... :lol::lol:
  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 26,957
    _ wrote:
    How would you take it if a woman you didn't know had the hots for you & wanted to go out? How could the woman best approach the situation with you?
    If a woman had the hots for me, and wanted to ask me out????

    First off, I would ask her how long she has had a drinking problem...
    Then I would ask her if she is seeking treatment....
    Take me piece by piece.....
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    _ wrote:
    :lol: Maybe I just need a good pick up line. :D
    dont use please,"are you Dimi from the pj forum???"
    didnt work for that girl the last time..

    and seriously..be honest,and say what you want to do..men love that shit

    :lol::lol:

    Thanks! It's good to know what men love! :D
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    unlost dogs wrote:
    Don't worry yourself by figuring out what to say and how to approach.

    Just walk up to him, hit him over the head with a club, and drag him back to your cave.

    That's how I got Mr. Unlost.

    Word.
    GivenToLukinKP wrote:
    "Does this rag smell like chloroform?"
    SatansFuton wrote:
    Just walk up to him and say it, while holding a plate of bacon.

    :lol::lol::lol:

    Clubs, chloroform, and bacon, huh? Y'all crack me up! I should probably try them in the opposite order though.
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    well, let me answer you this way
    _ wrote:
    Apparently some local blogger who I don't know and whose blog I had never read listed the 5 people in town who she'd turn lesbian for - and I was one of them.

    i'm pretty sure this guy, or any guy, would love for you to hit on them ;)8-)
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    polaris_x wrote:
    _ wrote:
    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    I can't stop laughing!! (See, I bet you have a way with the ladies.) :D

    i'm the guy girls want to be friends with ... then they find out I cook ... at which point i've got to beat them off with a stick! ... :lol::lol:

    You cook?!?! :o Fuck that other guy! So, you know...


    straight women turn gay for me ... true story ... how about lunch sometime?

    ;)
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    Carey wrote:
    So the trick seems to be, how to get within close proximity........ :D

    I know, right?! Any ideas? Randomly showing up in his office... creepy? yes/no?
  • intodeep
    intodeep Posts: 7,249
    _ wrote:
    How would you take it if a woman you didn't know had the hots for you & wanted to go out? How could the woman best approach the situation with you?
    i dream of the day a woman approaches me and tells me i look like someone they would want to get to know more :o
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    edited February 2012
    norm wrote:
    well, let me answer you this way
    _ wrote:
    Apparently some local blogger who I don't know and whose blog I had never read listed the 5 people in town who she'd turn lesbian for - and I was one of them.

    i'm pretty sure this guy, or any guy, would love for you to hit on them ;)8-)

    :lol::lol::lol::lol:

    You guys are cracking me up! :D

    ETA: Hey! Maybe I should start a blog and list the guys I'd... well, I'm already interested in guys so I can't list the guys I'd turn straight for... fuck... list the guys I'd love to, uh... take home with me... and he would be the only person on my list! Then I'd just have to make sure he sees it! Think that would work?! :D
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  • theserialthrilla
    theserialthrilla Posts: 15,760
    buy him vinyl... :P
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    intodeep wrote:
    _ wrote:
    How would you take it if a woman you didn't know had the hots for you & wanted to go out? How could the woman best approach the situation with you?
    i dream of the day a woman approaches me and tells me i look like someone they would want to get to know more :o

    Really?! I love this thread! You're all so encouraging! :D
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    So it sounds like this consensus is that this has to be done in person, right? :oops:
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    look, there is nothing wrong with doing a little reconnaissance...find out what time he gets to his office and get there a little earlier and "run" into him...or does he get coffee at like starbucks? meet him there...

    this isn't stalking just being creative...and remember, we're guys...being hit on is a huge boost to our egos :P ;)
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    _ wrote:

    ETA: Hey! Maybe I should start a blog and list the guys I'd... well, I'm already interested in guys so I can't list the guys I'd turn straight for... fuck... list the guys I'd love to, uh... take home with me... and he would be the only person on my list! Then I'd just have to make sure he sees it! Think that would work?! :D

    that reminds me of that Duke college girl...she uhhhh...wrote a list of guys she uhhh...and detailed the 'encounter' and 'performance'....the website jezebel should help...warning NSFW.

    Does he have a 'mail box' where you could drop off a small trinket and note? Like a starbucks card and note saying "I'd like to have coffee with you sometime-my treat" leave your email and that's it. If he doesn't get back, oh well, you're out a few bucks, if he does :thumbup: guys-what do you think?
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  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    just fuckin say hi...you wanna go get a drink some time....

    guys are easy...
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  • polaris_x
    polaris_x Posts: 13,559
    _ wrote:
    You cook?!?! :o Fuck that other guy! So, you know...

    straight women turn gay for me ... true story ... how about lunch sometime?

    ;)

    :lol:

    i had a bi-girl go straight for me once ... haha ...
  • Carey
    Carey Posts: 2,361
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    Carey wrote:
    I say go for it and be confident about it! (Even if you have to fake that part!) I once bought a drink for a complete strange guy in a bar and asked him out and his friends kept saying how they wished women did that more! So the trick seems to be, how to get within close proximity........ :D
    ill pm you which bar ill be next week..

    Okay, this time I will be sure not to say, "Are you 'Dimi' from the pj forum" again.
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  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    Carey wrote:
    dimitrispearljam wrote:
    Carey wrote:
    I say go for it and be confident about it! (Even if you have to fake that part!) I once bought a drink for a complete strange guy in a bar and asked him out and his friends kept saying how they wished women did that more! So the trick seems to be, how to get within close proximity........ :D
    ill pm you which bar ill be next week..

    Okay, this time I will be sure not to say, "Are you 'Dimi' from the pj forum" again.
    cool,cos was so hard to play it gay infront of the most beautiful woman i ever saw in my life..
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  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    _ wrote:
    So it sounds like this consensus is that this has to be done in person, right? :oops:

    Yes.

    Just be honest & ask him if he wants to grab a drink after work. If he says no for any reason, at least you tried.
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  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    _ wrote:
    So it sounds like this consensus is that this has to be done in person, right? :oops:

    Just go up to him and ask. What's the worst that can happen? He says no. Just do it. Even though I've been chicken shit to do the same damn thing. :lol:

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