look, there is nothing wrong with doing a little reconnaissance...find out what time he gets to his office and get there a little earlier and "run" into him...or does he get coffee at like starbucks? meet him there...
this isn't stalking just being creative...and remember, we're guys...being hit on is a huge boost to our egos :P
ETA: Hey! Maybe I should start a blog and list the guys I'd... well, I'm already interested in guys so I can't list the guys I'd turn straight for... fuck... list the guys I'd love to, uh... take home with me... and he would be the only person on my list! Then I'd just have to make sure he sees it! Think that would work?!
that reminds me of that Duke college girl...she uhhhh...wrote a list of guys she uhhh...and detailed the 'encounter' and 'performance'....the website jezebel should help...warning NSFW.
Does he have a 'mail box' where you could drop off a small trinket and note? Like a starbucks card and note saying "I'd like to have coffee with you sometime-my treat" leave your email and that's it. If he doesn't get back, oh well, you're out a few bucks, if he does :thumbup: guys-what do you think?
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
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just fuckin say hi...you wanna go get a drink some time....
I say go for it and be confident about it! (Even if you have to fake that part!) I once bought a drink for a complete strange guy in a bar and asked him out and his friends kept saying how they wished women did that more! So the trick seems to be, how to get within close proximity........
ill pm you which bar ill be next week..
Okay, this time I will be sure not to say, "Are you 'Dimi' from the pj forum" again.
I say go for it and be confident about it! (Even if you have to fake that part!) I once bought a drink for a complete strange guy in a bar and asked him out and his friends kept saying how they wished women did that more! So the trick seems to be, how to get within close proximity........
ill pm you which bar ill be next week..
Okay, this time I will be sure not to say, "Are you 'Dimi' from the pj forum" again.
cool,cos was so hard to play it gay infront of the most beautiful woman i ever saw in my life..
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
I just have to figure out how to actually see him again without seeming like a stalker. I don't think I could pull off the bumping-into-him-outside-his-office routine. :oops:
I just have to figure out how to actually see him again without seeming like a stalker. I don't think I could pull off the bumping-into-him-outside-his-office routine. :oops:
send him an email ... say you've seen him around and ask him to go for lunch ...
I just have to figure out how to actually see him again without seeming like a stalker. I don't think I could pull off the bumping-into-him-outside-his-office routine. :oops:
How did you run into him the last time? Make it non chalent like that.
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I just have to figure out how to actually see him again without seeming like a stalker. I don't think I could pull off the bumping-into-him-outside-his-office routine. :oops:
here's the thing...you're thinking like a woman...most guys would love to be pursued like this
I just have to figure out how to actually see him again without seeming like a stalker. I don't think I could pull off the bumping-into-him-outside-his-office routine. :oops:
here's the thing...you're thinking like a woman...most guys would love to be pursued like this
here's the thing...you're thinking like a woman...most guys would love to be pursued like this
+1
And if he isn't flattered, he's crazy...
I guess I knew too many crazy guys... :(
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
I just have to figure out how to actually see him again without seeming like a stalker. I don't think I could pull off the bumping-into-him-outside-his-office routine. :oops:
here's the thing...you're thinking like a woman...most guys would love to be pursued like this
i know what you mean,and this is very intresting question..
there are some man,that freak out when women act like that ,cos they feel fear that cant control them..
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
i know what you mean,and this is very intresting question..
there are some man,that freak out when women act like that ,cos they feel fear that cant control them..
maybe it's because the man is typically the pursuer...not the pursuited.
Seriously? And I say this as a very happily married man...
You wouldn't have had to ask me twice...
...that's another thread all on it's own.
but _, just make sure he's single, and just ask. Make it casual...coffee. (There isn't anything you could ask him for his help on at the school?) Then at coffee you can ask him to drinks...he might ask you to dinner. I've been turned down and stood up numerous times...but "I, oh, I'm still alive"
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
send him an email ... say you've seen him around and ask him to go for lunch ...
You think so?? I actually wrote him an email earlier, but then called a friend before hitting send and she said I would seem like I was stalking him. :(
How did you run into him the last time? Make it non chalent like that.
I saw him when I went out with some friends for karaoke. He was part of a big group of people my friends were meeting up with, but we all had different tables and he wasn't near ours. I didn't try to talk to him because he was with a girl. So I've never even met him. :oops:
But I noticed him across the room and thought he was gorgeous (which never happens to me). Then my friends (who know who he is, but don't really know him) told me about him and their info made him even more attractive. Then he sang and I melted. And then I looked him up on our university website and on YouTube and that sealed it - I'm just smitten. :P
Not only do I not know how to run in to him again, but I also don't know how to tell him I find him attractive for more than just his looks and his voice without giving it away that I looked him up online. :oops:
The biggest thing is to not come on too strong right away, that might freak out some people as they might not even know who you are and you're telling them all these things. Let him get to know you if that's possible.
[maybe it's because the man is typically the pursuer...not the pursuited.
its not that..trust me..they feel fear....fear of independence woman,woman with confidence...
the ones know what they want...isnt difficult to scare men,or freak them out,im not gonna tell you how,thow..
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
I saw him when I went out with some friends for karaoke. Then he sang and I melted. And then I looked him up on our university website and on YouTube and that sealed it - I'm just smitten. :P
Not only do I not know how to run in to him again, but I also don't know how to tell him I find him attractive for more than just his looks and his voice without giving it away that I looked him up online. :oops:
you can't ask your friends about him? seems you have mutual friends...or you could just send him an email, and say, "I saw you at karaoke, and thought you sang really well, my friend told me who you were, and I'd love to see an encore...wanna grab drinks sometime?"
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
but I also don't know how to tell him I find him attractive for more than just his looks and his voice without giving it away that I looked him up online. :oops:
[maybe it's because the man is typically the pursuer...not the pursuited.
its not that..trust me..they feel fear....fear of independence woman,woman with confidence...
the ones know what they want...isnt difficult to scare men,or freak them out,im not gonna tell you how,thow..
Fear of what? How is it that they can pursue you....and then the tables are flipped and you are pursuing them and they freak out? what gives?
[maybe it's because the man is typically the pursuer...not the pursuited.
its not that..trust me..they feel fear....fear of independence woman,woman with confidence...
the ones know what they want...isnt difficult to scare men,or freak them out,im not gonna tell you how,thow..
Fear of what? How is it that they can pursue you....and then the tables are flipped and you are pursuing them and they freak out? what gives?
yeah what gives?
woman: 'I had a great time tonight we should go out again"
man: 'uuhhh uhhh"....runs away
what's up with that?
(shelia, maybe we should start a new thread)
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
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Really?! I love this thread! You're all so encouraging!
this isn't stalking just being creative...and remember, we're guys...being hit on is a huge boost to our egos :P
that reminds me of that Duke college girl...she uhhhh...wrote a list of guys she uhhh...and detailed the 'encounter' and 'performance'....the website jezebel should help...warning NSFW.
Does he have a 'mail box' where you could drop off a small trinket and note? Like a starbucks card and note saying "I'd like to have coffee with you sometime-my treat" leave your email and that's it. If he doesn't get back, oh well, you're out a few bucks, if he does :thumbup: guys-what do you think?
- Christopher McCandless
guys are easy...
i had a bi-girl go straight for me once ... haha ...
Okay, this time I will be sure not to say, "Are you 'Dimi' from the pj forum" again.
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Yes.
Just be honest & ask him if he wants to grab a drink after work. If he says no for any reason, at least you tried.
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Just go up to him and ask. What's the worst that can happen? He says no. Just do it. Even though I've been chicken shit to do the same damn thing.
send him an email ... say you've seen him around and ask him to go for lunch ...
How did you run into him the last time? Make it non chalent like that.
here's the thing...you're thinking like a woman...most guys would love to be pursued like this
And if he isn't flattered, he's crazy...
I guess I knew too many crazy guys... :(
- Christopher McCandless
Is that what the problem is?
You wouldn't have had to ask me twice...
there are some man,that freak out when women act like that ,cos they feel fear that cant control them..
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
maybe it's because the man is typically the pursuer...not the pursuited.
but _, just make sure he's single, and just ask. Make it casual...coffee. (There isn't anything you could ask him for his help on at the school?) Then at coffee you can ask him to drinks...he might ask you to dinner. I've been turned down and stood up numerous times...but "I, oh, I'm still alive"
- Christopher McCandless
You think so?? I actually wrote him an email earlier, but then called a friend before hitting send and she said I would seem like I was stalking him. :(
I saw him when I went out with some friends for karaoke. He was part of a big group of people my friends were meeting up with, but we all had different tables and he wasn't near ours. I didn't try to talk to him because he was with a girl. So I've never even met him. :oops:
But I noticed him across the room and thought he was gorgeous (which never happens to me). Then my friends (who know who he is, but don't really know him) told me about him and their info made him even more attractive. Then he sang and I melted. And then I looked him up on our university website and on YouTube and that sealed it - I'm just smitten. :P
Not only do I not know how to run in to him again, but I also don't know how to tell him I find him attractive for more than just his looks and his voice without giving it away that I looked him up online. :oops:
Good luck!
the ones know what they want...isnt difficult to scare men,or freak them out,im not gonna tell you how,thow..
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
actually, she'd probably have to ask me twice since i wouldn't believe her
you can't ask your friends about him? seems you have mutual friends...or you could just send him an email, and say, "I saw you at karaoke, and thought you sang really well, my friend told me who you were, and I'd love to see an encore...wanna grab drinks sometime?"
- Christopher McCandless
ok well don't lead with that!
Fear of what? How is it that they can pursue you....and then the tables are flipped and you are pursuing them and they freak out? what gives?
yeah what gives?
woman: 'I had a great time tonight we should go out again"
man: 'uuhhh uhhh"....runs away
what's up with that?
(shelia, maybe we should start a new thread)
- Christopher McCandless