"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
i'm not a shy guy at all...but my wife made the first move & it worked!
awesome!!!
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
How would you take it if a woman you didn't know had the hots for you & wanted to go out? How could the woman best approach the situation with you?
wish this would happen to me
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10/31/09- Philly
5/21/10- NYC
9/2/12- Philly, PA
7/19/13- Wrigley
10/19/13- Brooklyn, NY
10/21/13- Philly, PA
10/22/13- Philly, PA
10/27/13- Baltimore, MD
4/28/16- Philly, PA
4/29/16- Philly, PA
5/1/16- NYC
5/2/16- NYC
9/2/18- Boston, MA
9/4/18- Boston, MA
9/14/22- Camden, NJ
9/7/24- Philly, PA
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Tres Mts.- 3/23/11- Philly. PA
Eddie Vedder- 6/25/11- Philly, PA
RNDM- 3/9/16- Philly, PA
You said you have friends of friends. Is there any chance they can coordinate some sort of group outing and get you in the same room? If that's possible, it's definitely your best option.
look, there is nothing wrong with doing a little reconnaissance...find out what time he gets to his office and get there a little earlier and "run" into him...or does he get coffee at like starbucks? meet him there...
this isn't stalking just being creative...and remember, we're guys...being hit on is a huge boost to our egos :P
Okay, I took your advice & did some reconnaissance. (Oh God, I really do have a problem. :oops: ) I went to his office. The good news is that he has his office hours posted on his door. The bad news is that he's only there for 1.5 hours on Monday & Wednesday mornings - and his office is so far removed from any thoroughfare that it would be really unbelievable that I would just happen to be there & run into him.
look, there is nothing wrong with doing a little reconnaissance...find out what time he gets to his office and get there a little earlier and "run" into him...or does he get coffee at like starbucks? meet him there...
this isn't stalking just being creative...and remember, we're guys...being hit on is a huge boost to our egos :P
Okay, I took your advice & did some reconnaissance. (Oh God, I really do have a problem. :oops: ) I went to his office. The good news is that he has his office hours posted on his door. The bad news is that he's only there for 1.5 hours on Monday & Wednesday mornings - and his office is so far removed from any thoroughfare that it would be really unbelievable that I would just happen to be there & run into him.
do you have any friends in his building?
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Bold wins...just drop in and ask him out....do it....enjoy the rush...
And when he accepts....you be walking on air back to your office...
Don't be a pusssy
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The good news is that he has his office hours posted on his door. The bad news is that he's only there for 1.5 hours on Monday & Wednesday mornings.
Perfect...get to his office about 30 minutes before he does, dim the lights, light some candles, wear something suggestive and when he opens the door, press play on any of the songs from this thread...
I've always been up front and honest when I was single, guys didn't seem to like that. They'd stop calling, and so I'd forget about them, then they start calling again...I hate head games!
Yes, that's my experience too. :(
last time I was single was in '99...guys haven't changed. I was really progressive back then...now I see they are telling single girls "don't date just one guy...too much pressure on 'trying to make it work', date several guys so you keep your options open" that didn't work back then...does it work now?
Not particularly. Admittedly, I'm not very good at it; I tend to feel guilty & I never know how to bring it up so it's out in the open. I really like it when guys just ask on a first date whether you're also seeing someone else. (Though this has backfired on me before too.) But some guys get all hurt if they're not the only one, but then if you tell them they are then they get scared, like they think you want a big commitment from them or something. Also, I've found that the guys I date want to hang out EVERY damn weekend (and tend to get all hurt if I say I'm not available) so there's just not enough time for too many people.
look, there is nothing wrong with doing a little reconnaissance...find out what time he gets to his office and get there a little earlier and "run" into him...or does he get coffee at like starbucks? meet him there...
this isn't stalking just being creative...and remember, we're guys...being hit on is a huge boost to our egos :P
Okay, I took your advice & did some reconnaissance. (Oh God, I really do have a problem. :oops: ) I went to his office. The good news is that he has his office hours posted on his door. The bad news is that he's only there for 1.5 hours on Monday & Wednesday mornings - and his office is so far removed from any thoroughfare that it would be really unbelievable that I would just happen to be there & run into him.
Good work getting a little bit of info! If you feel timid about going to his office when he's there, have you thought about frequenting karaoke night more often? It seems to me that a lot of people who sing karaoke do so on a regular basis. Maybe he goes there regularly. And if you see him in this atmosphere, you can have liquid courage
Not particularly. Admittedly, I'm not very good at it; I tend to feel guilty & I never know how to bring it up so it's out in the open. I really like it when guys just ask on a first date whether you're also seeing someone else. (Though this has backfired on me before too.) But some guys get all hurt if they're not the only one, but then if you tell them they are then they get scared, like they think you want a big commitment from them or something. Also, I've found that the guys I date want to hang out EVERY damn weekend (and tend to get all hurt if I say I'm not available) so there's just not enough time for too many people.
:x :x :x they are soooooooo *needy* :roll:
any-who...what if he's a PJ fan and is reading this thread?
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
You said you have friends of friends. Is there any chance they can coordinate some sort of group outing and get you in the same room? If that's possible, it's definitely your best option.
My friends said they'd invite me next time his friends go to karaoke or something. But his friends are also friends with the girl he was on a date with last time, so I'd imagine they'd probably go together & make it another date. :(
I also happen to know that he and I like the same local band, who I had already been meaning to check out more often. So maybe I can run into him at one of their shows. Except they're not playing in town any time soon.
look, there is nothing wrong with doing a little reconnaissance...find out what time he gets to his office and get there a little earlier and "run" into him...or does he get coffee at like starbucks? meet him there...
this isn't stalking just being creative...and remember, we're guys...being hit on is a huge boost to our egos :P
Okay, I took your advice & did some reconnaissance. (Oh God, I really do have a problem. :oops: ) I went to his office. The good news is that he has his office hours posted on his door. The bad news is that he's only there for 1.5 hours on Monday & Wednesday mornings - and his office is so far removed from any thoroughfare that it would be really unbelievable that I would just happen to be there & run into him.
I think that if you haven't EVER spoken to him before, you shouldn't ask him out....YET! I think if he has some idea of who you are beforehand ie a familiar face, it's going to increase the chances of him saying "sure, why not!" when you ask him out. He may be shy too and feel a bit awkward if he's never spoken to you before and automatically say no before actually thinking about it properly.
Personally, if some guy asked me out and I'd NEVER met him before, I'd be a bit "nahhh, I don't think so" (unless he looked like Bradley Cooper...then I'd probably say yes because I wanted to get in his pants ). But if it was say a delivery driver that I'd quickly met at my business a few times, I'd be more inclined to say yes since I at least kinda knew who he was and there was already that small connection of familiarity.
So, my advice is to at least allow him to know who you and recognise your face a bit before you ask him. :thumbup:
(I haven't read this entire thread so not 100% sure on the details....hope this is relevant)
look, there is nothing wrong with doing a little reconnaissance...find out what time he gets to his office and get there a little earlier and "run" into him...or does he get coffee at like starbucks? meet him there...
this isn't stalking just being creative...and remember, we're guys...being hit on is a huge boost to our egos :P
Okay, I took your advice & did some reconnaissance. (Oh God, I really do have a problem. :oops: ) I went to his office. The good news is that he has his office hours posted on his door. The bad news is that he's only there for 1.5 hours on Monday & Wednesday mornings - and his office is so far removed from any thoroughfare that it would be really unbelievable that I would just happen to be there & run into him.
good for you!
ok, so the office thing won't work...the karaoke thing doesn't sound like it will work either...hmmm...
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“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
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but what the hell is a fudd?
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
and...78% - 86% of you do not even know it
the ones who are in this group
hold a lot of power and they themselves
are blinded to this amazing brilliance
moments ago i lost a wonderful little piece for this thread
but this computer blows ass and it is forever deleted
lost
and
i am am pissy
i had 10 rules of men getting for you women to check out
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
a Scottish slang term for a woman's 'hoo-ha'
- Christopher McCandless
Well, now I'm asking....what in the sam hell is a "fudd"?
wish this would happen to me
10/31/09- Philly
5/21/10- NYC
9/2/12- Philly, PA
7/19/13- Wrigley
10/19/13- Brooklyn, NY
10/21/13- Philly, PA
10/22/13- Philly, PA
10/27/13- Baltimore, MD
4/28/16- Philly, PA
4/29/16- Philly, PA
5/1/16- NYC
5/2/16- NYC
9/2/18- Boston, MA
9/4/18- Boston, MA
9/14/22- Camden, NJ
9/7/24- Philly, PA
9/9/24- Philly, PA
Eddie Vedder- 6/25/11- Philly, PA
RNDM- 3/9/16- Philly, PA
oh hell!
geez....try and remember them. Us women need to know the key to this.
this is the greatest tool you women have
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Okay, I took your advice & did some reconnaissance. (Oh God, I really do have a problem. :oops: ) I went to his office. The good news is that he has his office hours posted on his door. The bad news is that he's only there for 1.5 hours on Monday & Wednesday mornings - and his office is so far removed from any thoroughfare that it would be really unbelievable that I would just happen to be there & run into him.
And when he accepts....you be walking on air back to your office...
Don't be a pusssy
Perfect...get to his office about 30 minutes before he does, dim the lights, light some candles, wear something suggestive and when he opens the door, press play on any of the songs from this thread...
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He will be yours forever!
Not particularly. Admittedly, I'm not very good at it; I tend to feel guilty & I never know how to bring it up so it's out in the open. I really like it when guys just ask on a first date whether you're also seeing someone else. (Though this has backfired on me before too.) But some guys get all hurt if they're not the only one, but then if you tell them they are then they get scared, like they think you want a big commitment from them or something. Also, I've found that the guys I date want to hang out EVERY damn weekend (and tend to get all hurt if I say I'm not available) so there's just not enough time for too many people.
Good work getting a little bit of info! If you feel timid about going to his office when he's there, have you thought about frequenting karaoke night more often? It seems to me that a lot of people who sing karaoke do so on a regular basis. Maybe he goes there regularly. And if you see him in this atmosphere, you can have liquid courage
Well you can't just leave us hanging like that. You're such a tease!
:x :x :x they are soooooooo *needy* :roll:
any-who...what if he's a PJ fan and is reading this thread?
- Christopher McCandless
My friends said they'd invite me next time his friends go to karaoke or something. But his friends are also friends with the girl he was on a date with last time, so I'd imagine they'd probably go together & make it another date. :(
I also happen to know that he and I like the same local band, who I had already been meaning to check out more often. So maybe I can run into him at one of their shows. Except they're not playing in town any time soon.
Neil deGrasse Tyson
Why not (V) (°,,,,°) (V) ?
Not any more.
Personally, if some guy asked me out and I'd NEVER met him before, I'd be a bit "nahhh, I don't think so" (unless he looked like Bradley Cooper...then I'd probably say yes because I wanted to get in his pants
So, my advice is to at least allow him to know who you and recognise your face a bit before you ask him. :thumbup:
(I haven't read this entire thread so not 100% sure on the details....hope this is relevant)
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good for you!
ok, so the office thing won't work...the karaoke thing doesn't sound like it will work either...hmmm...