I bet 81 timed his post just so he could say that...
The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
Okay, quick: So what do I say when I leave? Assuming I'll want to see him again, do I ask him out again? Or do I just let him know I'm interested in seeing him again but leave it up to him to ask me later?? :?
Okay, quick: So what do I say when I leave? Assuming I'll want to see him again, do I ask him out again? Or do I just let him know I'm interested in seeing him again but leave it up to him to ask me later?? :?
never ask for a second date on a first date....
:P
but say you had a good time and we should do this again
Have a mentioned that I'm really a pretty shy person? When I was a kid, I couldn't even get up the nerve to call & order a pizza. I wouldn't ask a saleslady in a store where the restroom was no matter how badly I had to go. That's how nervous I was about talking to people I didn't know. Since I've been older, I've managed to get through social situations largely with the help of liquid courage. Whoever thought middle-of-the-work-day coffee was the best event through which to meet up with people you barely know was a damn fool. I'd like to meet that guy right about now - and kick him in the nuts.
Have a mentioned that I'm really a pretty shy person? When I was a kid, I couldn't even get up the nerve to call & order a pizza. I wouldn't ask a saleslady in a store where the restroom was no matter how badly I had to go. That's how nervous I was about talking to people I didn't know. Since I've been older, I've managed to get through social situations largely with the help of liquid courage. Whoever thought middle-of-the-work-day coffee was the best event through which to meet up with people you barely know was a damn fool. I'd like to meet that guy right about now - and kick him in the nuts.
:? Didn't go well then?
“There should be a place where only the things you want to happen, happen”
Have a mentioned that I'm really a pretty shy person? When I was a kid, I couldn't even get up the nerve to call & order a pizza. I wouldn't ask a saleslady in a store where the restroom was no matter how badly I had to go. That's how nervous I was about talking to people I didn't know. Since I've been older, I've managed to get through social situations largely with the help of liquid courage. Whoever thought middle-of-the-work-day coffee was the best event through which to meet up with people you barely know was a damn fool. I'd like to meet that guy right about now - and kick him in the nuts.
You'll do great. Try not to think about being nervous because that will only make you more nervous...trust me. Just laugh, have fun, enjoy the coffee and conversation. :thumbup:
Have a mentioned that I'm really a pretty shy person? When I was a kid, I couldn't even get up the nerve to call & order a pizza. I wouldn't ask a saleslady in a store where the restroom was no matter how badly I had to go. That's how nervous I was about talking to people I didn't know. Since I've been older, I've managed to get through social situations largely with the help of liquid courage. Whoever thought middle-of-the-work-day coffee was the best event through which to meet up with people you barely know was a damn fool. I'd like to meet that guy right about now - and kick him in the nuts.
Have a mentioned that I'm really a pretty shy person? When I was a kid, I couldn't even get up the nerve to call & order a pizza. I wouldn't ask a saleslady in a store where the restroom was no matter how badly I had to go. That's how nervous I was about talking to people I didn't know. Since I've been older, I've managed to get through social situations largely with the help of liquid courage. Whoever thought middle-of-the-work-day coffee was the best event through which to meet up with people you barely know was a damn fool. I'd like to meet that guy right about now - and kick him in the nuts.
:? Didn't go well then?
Hasn't happened yet. I'm just really nervous and wish we were doing something where it would be appropriate for me to be drinking.
Have a mentioned that I'm really a pretty shy person? When I was a kid, I couldn't even get up the nerve to call & order a pizza. I wouldn't ask a saleslady in a store where the restroom was no matter how badly I had to go. That's how nervous I was about talking to people I didn't know. Since I've been older, I've managed to get through social situations largely with the help of liquid courage. Whoever thought middle-of-the-work-day coffee was the best event through which to meet up with people you barely know was a damn fool. I'd like to meet that guy right about now - and kick him in the nuts.
:? Didn't go well then?
t minus 45 minutes
Oh ... I think there is a lot of over worrying and over thinking of this date going on :?
“There should be a place where only the things you want to happen, happen”
Is there any way we can get a webcam on this for a live stream?
Can we get an undercover friend of _'s to sit at a nearby table with a Macbook?
Haha... my sister is already threatening to show up. (Payback for something that happened in high school.) She thinks she can be covert - but we're twins for fuck's sake!
Hasn't happened yet. I'm just really nervous and wish we were doing something where it would be appropriate for me to be drinking.
_ just remember, he's probably just as nervous as you. He was probably up half the night last night trying to figure out what color of hair tie to wear on his pony tail. Just relax, be yourself, and if it goes well, great. If not, you aren't out anything except a cup of coffee. :thumbup:
Is there any way we can get a webcam on this for a live stream?
Can we get an undercover friend of _'s to sit at a nearby table with a Macbook?
Haha... my sister is already threatening to show up. (Payback for something that happened in high school.) She thinks she can be covert - but we're twins for fuck's sake!
Okay, quick: So what do I say when I leave? Assuming I'll want to see him again, do I ask him out again? Or do I just let him know I'm interested in seeing him again but leave it up to him to ask me later?? :?
standard response:
if you like him: thanks for taking the time to meet me - i enjoyed our talk ... i would like to do it again sometime if you are interested
if you don't like him: i have herpes - do you want to come over to my place and go through my new kids on the block collection?
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Where are all the women at today?
it's part of gender equality! ... it must!! ... an ex of mine would definitely attest to this ...
Oh! :shock:
Spoken like a true man.
Yes. Yes it does. :P
Me too!!
you'll be glowing afterwards ...
I bet 81 timed his post just so he could say that...
- Christopher McCandless
it's off just a tick
never ask for a second date on a first date....
:P
but say you had a good time and we should do this again
:? Didn't go well then?
you'll be fine...just relax...and picture him in his underwear
You'll do great. Try not to think about being nervous because that will only make you more nervous...trust me. Just laugh, have fun, enjoy the coffee and conversation. :thumbup:
t minus 45 minutes
Hasn't happened yet. I'm just really nervous and wish we were doing something where it would be appropriate for me to be drinking.
Can we get an undercover friend of _'s to sit at a nearby table with a Macbook?
Oh ... I think there is a lot of over worrying and over thinking of this date going on :?
Haha... my sister is already threatening to show up. (Payback for something that happened in high school.) She thinks she can be covert - but we're twins for fuck's sake!
_ just remember, he's probably just as nervous as you. He was probably up half the night last night trying to figure out what color of hair tie to wear on his pony tail. Just relax, be yourself, and if it goes well, great. If not, you aren't out anything except a cup of coffee. :thumbup:
twins you say....
standard response:
if you like him: thanks for taking the time to meet me - i enjoyed our talk ... i would like to do it again sometime if you are interested
if you don't like him: i have herpes - do you want to come over to my place and go through my new kids on the block collection?
Yes. Yes there is. Welcome to inside my head. It's not pretty. :oops: