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  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    _ wrote:
    Ugh... so my friends are telling me to not go to his office under any circumstances. They they said I should just email him and ask if he performs around town so I can go check out his music again. This is confusing.

    Just go up to him. If you two haven't really had any face to face interaction...an email might not do it any justice. Face to face is better. An email you can't put a face to.
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    sheila0225 wrote:
    _ wrote:
    Ugh... so my friends are telling me to not go to his office under any circumstances. They they said I should just email him and ask if he performs around town so I can go check out his music again. This is confusing.

    Just go up to him. If you two haven't really had any face to face interaction...an email might not do it any justice. Face to face is better. An email you can't put a face to.

    BOLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    I decided not to go to his office. My sister reminded me that her office has a red button at the front desk for people like that. I decided to send him an email. It's probably horrible, but I'm tired of obsessing about how to word it, so I was just totally straight up:
    Please forgive this random email, but I'm just going to be direct: I saw you at karaoke Friday night and thought you were funny and talented and gorgeous. I'd really like to meet you, but I don't know how to make that happen. My friends told me you work here too, so I got your email from the directory and am just going to ask: Might I be able to persuade you to join me for coffee or something some time?
  • polaris_x
    polaris_x Posts: 13,559
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    I decided not to go to his office. My sister reminded me that her office has a red button at the front desk for people like that. I decided to send him an email. It's probably horrible, but I'm tired of obsessing about how to word it, so I was just totally straight up:
    Please forgive this random email, but I'm just going to be direct: I saw you at karaoke Friday night and thought you were funny and talented and gorgeous. I'd really like to meet you, but I don't know how to make that happen. My friends told me you work here too, so I got your email from the directory and am just going to ask: Might I be able to persuade you to join me for coffee or something some time?

    sweet!! ... keep us posted! ...
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    :lol: good luck
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  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    81 wrote:
    :lol: good luck
    It's BOLD!!
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    81 wrote:
    :lol: good luck

    Was it that horrible? :(
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    _ wrote:
    I decided not to go to his office. My sister reminded me that her office has a red button at the front desk for people like that. I decided to send him an email. It's probably horrible, but I'm tired of obsessing about how to word it, so I was just totally straight up:
    Please forgive this random email, but I'm just going to be direct: I saw you at karaoke Friday night and thought you were funny and talented and gorgeous. I'd really like to meet you, but I don't know how to make that happen. My friends told me you work here too, so I got your email from the directory and am just going to ask: Might I be able to persuade you to join me for coffee or something some time?

    :clap:

    yay! direct, honest, and bold. Very non-threatening since you asked him to coffee. Good for you! :D

    (and you gave him quite the ego boost ;) )

    updates appreciated!
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    _ wrote:
    I decided not to go to his office. My sister reminded me that her office has a red button at the front desk for people like that. I decided to send him an email. It's probably horrible, but I'm tired of obsessing about how to word it, so I was just totally straight up:
    Please forgive this random email, but I'm just going to be direct: I saw you at karaoke Friday night and thought you were funny and talented and gorgeous. I'd really like to meet you, but I don't know how to make that happen. My friends told me you work here too, so I got your email from the directory and am just going to ask: Might I be able to persuade you to join me for coffee or something some time?

    awesome!! :thumbup:


    i hope you attached a pic of yourself naked ;) :P
  • Heisenberg
    Heisenberg Los Pollos Hermanos Posts: 4,958
    Nice Job and good luck. :thumbup:
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    do you have your 'read receipt' function turned on?
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    norm wrote:
    _ wrote:
    I decided not to go to his office. My sister reminded me that her office has a red button at the front desk for people like that. I decided to send him an email. It's probably horrible, but I'm tired of obsessing about how to word it, so I was just totally straight up:
    Please forgive this random email, but I'm just going to be direct: I saw you at karaoke Friday night and thought you were funny and talented and gorgeous. I'd really like to meet you, but I don't know how to make that happen. My friends told me you work here too, so I got your email from the directory and am just going to ask: Might I be able to persuade you to join me for coffee or something some time?

    awesome!! :thumbup:


    i hope you attached a pic of yourself naked ;) :P here
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  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    RKCNDY wrote:
    do you have your 'read receipt' function turned on?
    Ooooh good point!!
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    Black Diamond wrote:
    norm wrote:
    awesome!! :thumbup:


    i hope you attached a pic of yourself naked ;) :P here
    fixed

    :lol::lol:
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    RKCNDY wrote:
    do you have your 'read receipt' function turned on?

    No, I didn't think of that! I can already see when people from work read, delete, forward, etc the emails I send them, but he's on a different email system so I don't think it will work with him.
  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    _ wrote:
    I decided not to go to his office. My sister reminded me that her office has a red button at the front desk for people like that. I decided to send him an email. It's probably horrible, but I'm tired of obsessing about how to word it, so I was just totally straight up:
    Please forgive this random email, but I'm just going to be direct: I saw you at karaoke Friday night and thought you were funny and talented and gorgeous. I'd really like to meet you, but I don't know how to make that happen. My friends told me you work here too, so I got your email from the directory and am just going to ask: Might I be able to persuade you to join me for coffee or something some time?

    Thats awesome!!! Keep us posted. Bold, Honest, forward, but not threatening. :clap: :clap:
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    _ wrote:
    81 wrote:
    :lol: good luck

    Was it that horrible? :(
    We shall see.
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    I sent it from my work email, which automatically adds my signature (full name, title, department, phone number). Hopefully that'll make me seem a little more legit. But I'd think he'd do some investigation before replying; that's what I'd do anyway. Or maybe he just won't reply, in which case I wish he didn't know my name!
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Black Diamond wrote:
    norm wrote:

    awesome!! :thumbup:


    i hope you attached a pic of yourself naked ;) :P here
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    meh...i'm tired of all the ladies pming me pics of themselves naked :shifty:
  • polaris_x
    polaris_x Posts: 13,559
    _ wrote:
    I sent it from my work email, which automatically adds my signature (full name, title, department, phone number). Hopefully that'll make me seem a little more legit. But I'd think he'd do some investigation before replying; that's what I'd do anyway. Or maybe he just won't reply, in which case I wish he didn't know my name!

    i know easier said than done but never ever get down on yourself for putting yourself out there ... i met a girl traveling and when i got home ... i sent her an email that pretty much said ... "run away with me" ... we've been together since ... granted it's a long distance relationship and it can be draining ... still, if it ended tomorrow - i wouldn't trade our time together for anything ... that is the essence of living ... you won't be able to live a life without regret but it if you can avoid it - do so ...

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