college kid commits suicide after being secretly taped

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  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    Kilgore_Trout wrote:
    why was it necessary to say it was a gay sexual encounter? seems like they're unnecessarily highlighting the very thing that led to this... being outed in such a public way would be incredibly traumatic... his family is already grieving - assuming they didn't know about his sexuality, there's no need to further complicate things

    stick to the important details instead of the gossip :?

    sad story
    So true. What difference does it make who he was with? It is as if to rationalize his taking his own life, because he was gay?
  • pandora
    pandora Posts: 21,855
    chadwick wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    It's hard to believe people can be so cruel.
    My hope is the 2 that taped him will someday feel his pain and
    his disillusionment and disappointment in the human race.
    it's pretty easy to love
    spread it

    that's all i have,
    carry on
    Amen
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    BinauralJam wrote:
    Agree w/ 81 and Boo Boo

    See i wouldn't have killed myself, that's not the right move to make here, i would have killed the two kids.
    i would have understood that, it would have been a moral imperative, or atleast kill them before killing myself.
    my point being there are always options, even if there horrific.

    a moral imperative??
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  • neilybabes86
    neilybabes86 Posts: 16,057
    Made the world news
    i post on the board of a band that doesn't exsist anymore .......i need my head examined.......
  • catefrances
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    neilybabes86 wrote:
    Made the world news

    not to nitpick or anything but ive been awake for 3 hours and ive not heard it on any of the 6 newsbreaks ive heard since then.
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  • neilybabes86
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    catefrances wrote:
    neilybabes86 wrote:
    Made the world news

    not to nitpick or anything but ive been awake for 3 hours and ive not heard it on any of the 6 newsbreaks ive heard since then.
    US world news :mrgreen:
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  • rhcpjam1029
    rhcpjam1029 Posts: 1,982
    my friend went to high school with him...said he was a really great guy.

    i have a few friends at rutgers right now...they say the campus is really down right now.
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  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    Kilgore_Trout wrote:
    why was it necessary to say it was a gay sexual encounter? seems like they're unnecessarily highlighting the very thing that led to this... being outed in such a public way would be incredibly traumatic... his family is already grieving - assuming they didn't know about his sexuality, there's no need to further complicate things

    stick to the important details instead of the gossip :?

    sad story
    So true. What difference does it make who he was with? It is as if to rationalize his taking his own life, because he was gay?
    i'm sure alota people take their lives just cause their gay and that's what i think happened here. it wasn't so much he was flimed but because his was outed for being gay infront of the world and maybe his family finally knew.
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  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    81 wrote:
    Cliffy6745 wrote:

    Well if everyone in the world could handle problems as well as you and 81, it would be just a perfect place. Feel free to step down from the high horse anytime.


    it's not about being on a high horse. it's about not feeling for a guy that choose death over life. dude was 18, had his entire life ahead of himself, but chose to end it. you give me a story about an 18 year old that has cancer and is fighting tooth and nail to live as much as he can before his time is up, then i will feel for the kid.
    cancer patient is much more accepted in this country then gay people. i mean the very reason he was taped was he was gay.
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  • Gary Carter
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    BinauralJam wrote:
    Some of you have no idea just how sick and violent a person's thoughts can become. Some of you ought to pray you never understand that rather than judge those who do.
    well said
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    neilybabes86 wrote:
    catefrances wrote:
    neilybabes86 wrote:
    Made the world news

    not to nitpick or anything but ive been awake for 3 hours and ive not heard it on any of the 6 newsbreaks ive heard since then.
    US world news :mrgreen:

    my bad... i forgot the US thinks its the whole world. :P :mrgreen:
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  • catefrances
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    edited September 2010
    metsfan wrote:
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    Kilgore_Trout wrote:
    why was it necessary to say it was a gay sexual encounter? seems like they're unnecessarily highlighting the very thing that led to this... being outed in such a public way would be incredibly traumatic... his family is already grieving - assuming they didn't know about his sexuality, there's no need to further complicate things

    stick to the important details instead of the gossip :?

    sad story
    So true. What difference does it make who he was with? It is as if to rationalize his taking his own life, because he was gay?
    i'm sure alota people take their lives just cause their gay and that's what i think happened here. it wasn't so much he was flimed but because his was outed for being gay infront of the world and maybe his family finally knew.

    i agree. i would be homicidally ropeable if this happened to me. there would be no corner dark enough for thsoe two to hide it. what an absolute betrayal. they had to have known what this would do to that guy. perhaps not that hed kill himself but that at the least he would be grossly humiliated. i dont think we are ever more vulnerable than during the act of sex. and to have the whole world see that is not on the top of many people wishlist.
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  • Gary Carter
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    catefrances wrote:

    i agree. i would homicidally ropeable if this happened to me. there would be no corner dark enough for thsoe two to hide it. what an absolute betrayal. they had to have known what this would do to that guy. perhaps not that hed kill himself but that at the least he would be grossly humiliated. i dont think we are ever more vulnerable than during the act of sex. and to have the whole world see that is not on the top of many people wishlist.
    agreed but i don't think they knew he would kill himself over this
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  • catefrances
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    metsfan wrote:
    catefrances wrote:

    i agree. i would homicidally ropeable if this happened to me. there would be no corner dark enough for thsoe two to hide it. what an absolute betrayal. they had to have known what this would do to that guy. perhaps not that hed kill himself but that at the least he would be grossly humiliated. i dont think we are ever more vulnerable than during the act of sex. and to have the whole world see that is not on the top of many people wishlist.
    agreed but i don't think they knew he would kill himself over this

    yes... as i said i doubt it too. but were they doing for a laugh? what was the reason? did they think someone would just brush this off? did they think AT ALL? whenever is lets secretly tape mikey fucking let alone lets secretly tape mikey fucking and whack it on the internets ever ok? seems even those getting educated dont learn some things. tragic.
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  • BinauralJam
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    catefrances wrote:
    BinauralJam wrote:
    Agree w/ 81 and Boo Boo

    See i wouldn't have killed myself, that's not the right move to make here, i would have killed the two kids.
    i would have understood that, it would have been a moral imperative, or atleast kill them before killing myself.
    my point being there are always options, even if there horrific.

    a moral imperative??


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  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    catefrances wrote:

    yes... as i said i doubt it too. but were they doing for a laugh? what was the reason? did they think someone would just brush this off? did they think AT ALL? whenever is lets secretly tape mikey fucking let alone lets secretly tape mikey fucking and whack it on the internets ever ok? seems even those getting educated dont learn some things. tragic.
    it happens all the time sadly enough at colleges. it wouldn't have been that big of a story had the kid not killed himself
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  • Pearl Drummer
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    metsfan wrote:
    catefrances wrote:

    yes... as i said i doubt it too. but were they doing for a laugh? what was the reason? did they think someone would just brush this off? did they think AT ALL? whenever is lets secretly tape mikey fucking let alone lets secretly tape mikey fucking and whack it on the internets ever ok? seems even those getting educated dont learn some things. tragic.
    it happens all the time sadly enough at colleges. it wouldn't have been that big of a story had the kid not killed himself
    It happens all the time.. its really sad that people will do such stupid things for a cheap laugh. i hope the kid who taped this wakes up every morning feeling like a piece of shit.
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  • Gary Carter
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    Pearl Drummer wrote:
    It happens all the time.. its really sad that people will do such stupid things for a cheap laugh. i hope the kid who taped this wakes up every morning feeling like a piece of shit.
    agreed

    i hope they get put on trial for murder
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  • 81
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    metsfan wrote:
    Pearl Drummer wrote:
    It happens all the time.. its really sad that people will do such stupid things for a cheap laugh. i hope the kid who taped this wakes up every morning feeling like a piece of shit.
    agreed

    i hope they get put on trial for murder


    they will never be on trial for murder, nor should they.
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  • Gary Carter
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    81 wrote:
    metsfan wrote:
    Pearl Drummer wrote:
    It happens all the time.. its really sad that people will do such stupid things for a cheap laugh. i hope the kid who taped this wakes up every morning feeling like a piece of shit.
    agreed

    i hope they get put on trial for murder


    they will never be on trial for murder, nor should they.
    :roll:
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