Should I ask Agnes out on a date?
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I have 5 kids and zero swimmers! Lol. I knew Allie was around my age so I was just wondering.lastexitlondon said:
An offer? Fast work mcgruffmcgruff10 said:
Allie, are you interested in having kids or not your thing?PJ_Soul said:
Want to argue about it?HughFreakingDillon said:
let me rephrase.....i thought it's possible I wasn't going to be totally accurate.PJ_Soul said:
That is actually pretty hard to do with me!HughFreakingDillon said:
I was also going to say that, but I thought that might be overstepping my boundaries.PJ_Soul said:
Not to mention my extreme satisfaction with the single life, lol.HughFreakingDillon said:
geography might be a slight issue here.........darwinstheory said:^^^PJ_Soul seems like a logical choice here.
I'm tempted to dare you to try. 
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I always forget that you have so many kids! Holy crap!mcgruff10 said:
I have 5 kids and zero swimmers! Lol. I knew Allie was around my age so I was just wondering.lastexitlondon said:
An offer? Fast work mcgruffmcgruff10 said:
Allie, are you interested in having kids or not your thing?PJ_Soul said:
Want to argue about it?HughFreakingDillon said:
let me rephrase.....i thought it's possible I wasn't going to be totally accurate.PJ_Soul said:
That is actually pretty hard to do with me!HughFreakingDillon said:
I was also going to say that, but I thought that might be overstepping my boundaries.PJ_Soul said:
Not to mention my extreme satisfaction with the single life, lol.HughFreakingDillon said:
geography might be a slight issue here.........darwinstheory said:^^^PJ_Soul seems like a logical choice here. I'm tempted to dare you to try.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0 -
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Is that a willpower thing? Can you will your swimmers to be lemmings instead? Lolmcgruff10 said: no
I have 5 kids and zero swimmers!lastexitlondon said:
An offer? Fast work mcgruffmcgruff10 said:
Allie, are you interested in having kids or not your thing?PJ_Soul said:
Want to argue about it?HughFreakingDillon said:
let me rephrase.....i thought it's possible I wasn't going to be totally accurate.PJ_Soul said:
That is actually pretty hard to do with me!HughFreakingDillon said:
I was also going to say that, but I thought that might be overstepping my boundaries.PJ_Soul said:
Not to mention my extreme satisfaction with the single life, lol.HughFreakingDillon said:
geography might be a slight issue here.........darwinstheory said:^^^PJ_Soul seems like a logical choice here. I'm tempted to dare you to try. 0 -
I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.0
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Yeah it is the hardest greatest thing ever if that makes any sense lol. Why do you think I am so interested in wine?!PJ_Soul said:
I always forget that you have so many kids! Holy crap!mcgruff10 said:
I have 5 kids and zero swimmers! Lol. I knew Allie was around my age so I was just wondering.lastexitlondon said:
An offer? Fast work mcgruffmcgruff10 said:
Allie, are you interested in having kids or not your thing?PJ_Soul said:
Want to argue about it?HughFreakingDillon said:
let me rephrase.....i thought it's possible I wasn't going to be totally accurate.PJ_Soul said:
That is actually pretty hard to do with me!HughFreakingDillon said:
I was also going to say that, but I thought that might be overstepping my boundaries.PJ_Soul said:
Not to mention my extreme satisfaction with the single life, lol.HughFreakingDillon said:
geography might be a slight issue here.........darwinstheory said:^^^PJ_Soul seems like a logical choice here. I'm tempted to dare you to try.
I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0 -
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That's the way love should be, but hardly ever is, unselfish. I'm sorry you're hurting.bflynn1 said:I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.Post edited by OffSheGoes35 on0 -
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You'rw a good person for doing that. A lot of people, men and women, aren't open about that until after marriage, and that makes it so unfair to the one who wants kids, especially because sometimes it's resulted in it being too late for a woman who wanted the kids. Sorry it turned out that way with a person you cared about. But I guess the silver lining is that you're both now free to find people who are of the same mind.bflynn1 said:I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0 -
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That just happened to my cousin. He wasn’t even married for a year and a half and his wife told him she didn’t want kids. They are now going through a divorce.PJ_Soul said:
You'rw a good person for doing that. A lot of people, men and women, aren't open about that until after marriage, and that makes it so unfair to the one who wants kids, especially because sometimes it's resulted in it being too late for a woman who wanted the kids. Sorry it turned out that way with a person you cared about. But I guess the silver lining is that you're both now free to find people who are of the same mind.bflynn1 said:I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0 -
important to have those discussions when things get more serious.mcgruff10 said:
That just happened to my cousin. He wasn’t even married for a year and a half and his wife told him she didn’t want kids. They are now going through a divorce.PJ_Soul said:
You'rw a good person for doing that. A lot of people, men and women, aren't open about that until after marriage, and that makes it so unfair to the one who wants kids, especially because sometimes it's resulted in it being too late for a woman who wanted the kids. Sorry it turned out that way with a person you cared about. But I guess the silver lining is that you're both now free to find people who are of the same mind.bflynn1 said:I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.
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My marriage was based on a lie. I was not told that my ex-husband was not able to have children until after we were married. Prior to that we discussed having kids. He had a congenital disease - neurofibromatosis - and had lost a leg to the disease so we discussed the ramifications of this on having kids but I was not told the complete truth - I was given a sugar coated version. It was disclosed at a genetic counselor's office with his mommy along for the ride. Good times. We divorced. That was the cowardly thing to do. What @bflynn1 did was the only right answer and shows character and true love.mickeyrat said:
important to have those discussions when things get more serious.mcgruff10 said:
That just happened to my cousin. He wasn’t even married for a year and a half and his wife told him she didn’t want kids. They are now going through a divorce.PJ_Soul said:
You'rw a good person for doing that. A lot of people, men and women, aren't open about that until after marriage, and that makes it so unfair to the one who wants kids, especially because sometimes it's resulted in it being too late for a woman who wanted the kids. Sorry it turned out that way with a person you cared about. But I guess the silver lining is that you're both now free to find people who are of the same mind.bflynn1 said:I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.
And I agree Ali, a woman's window of child bearing is limited; unlike a man's, and not being straight with someone is just plain wrong.0 -
Thanks everyone. I appreciate it. Everything will be fine. Like @PJ_Soul I've always been independent and fine with being single for as long as I feel like. She's taking it hard because naturally she thought we were going to get married. She did say that she wanted to be mad at me but couldn't because I was honest and did the right thing. I told her that I hope she can look back and appreciate me for it someday.0
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YesI have 4 kids. Love wine.
There are some very loving people here, good people.
this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -0 -
YesKids= Love for wine.
Got it, lol!0 -
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Wine/craft beer is key when having 5 kids. Shit sometimes I am so stressed I mix the two together along with some ice for good measure.tempo_n_groove said:Kids= Love for wine.
Got it, lol! I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0 -
It's Satoru Iwata...OffSheGoes35 said:^^^LOL!!
I like the headshot of the kid from The Goonies/Temple of Doom. Nice touch."Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"0 -
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Too late I already put up a photo of the kid from The Goonies on my wall!Spiritual_Chaos said:
It's Satoru Iwata...OffSheGoes35 said:^^^LOL!!
I like the headshot of the kid from The Goonies/Temple of Doom. Nice touch.0 -
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Once you get out of the amt everyone is really cool.lastexitlondon said:I have 4 kids. Love wine.
There are some very loving people here, good people.I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0 -
"I don't want kids, ever." is a first-date disclaimer for me... I don't get many second dates.
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shit, my wife and I even discussed what religion or not we would raise our kids as before we were even living together. I can't imagine lying or not broaching the subject prior to marriage. that's crazy to me.By The Time They Figure Out What Went Wrong, We'll Be Sitting On A Beach, Earning Twenty Percent.0
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Yeah.. isn't the first part of being together all about being up all night talking, and and trying to figure out Donnie Darko...HughFreakingDillon said:shit, my wife and I even discussed what religion or not we would raise our kids as before we were even living together. I can't imagine lying or not broaching the subject prior to marriage. that's crazy to me."Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"0
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