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  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    PJSiren, I am so sorry you have to go through this. It is a crappy decision to make, but the way you are handling it is full of grace. Tabby Lu is lucky to have you.
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  • Rygar
    Rygar Posts: 8,711
    Sorry to hear PJSiren. Spoil her with all kinds of rotten people food :)

    My kitty has a urinary tract infection and is locked in my bathroom for a day or two.
  • samjam
    samjam New York Posts: 9,283
    Hugs, PJSiren, thinking of you and your kitty.
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  • eeriepadave
    eeriepadave West Chester, PA Posts: 43,179
    PJSiren said:

    Well, the vet confirmed what we already knew...that besides the tumor on her face she's still a healthy kitty, but that her quality of life now because of this evasive and fast growing tumor is just going down hill, because she's barely eating and all she wants to do is sleep...so the vet said if Tabby Lu was his kitty he would take time to say his goodbye and make the decision to end her suffering, so we are going to take the next week to say our goodbyes, treat her like a queen and feed her everything she loves and doesn't get regularly and do it next weekend....we just decided we can't watch her suffer, we don't want to come home to a dead cat, and we don't want to go through this pain indefinitely....I think this will be the best for her in the end, no matter how much it hurts me....

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  • whispering hands
    whispering hands Under your skin Posts: 13,527
    I am so sorry PJ Siren... You are dealing with one of the most difficult scenarios in life, and with grace, love, and honest to God mercy. Tabby Lu knew what she was doing that day in the cattery, when she picked you. You two were meant to enrich one another's lives. And she has obviously done her job very well, as have you. As humans we have the hard job if outliving our pets, and yet we can't live without them. My heart goes out to you, and your family. I know how bad this hurts. Hug your fuzzball for me and Scooter.
  • badbrains
    badbrains Posts: 10,255
    Good luck pj siren, try to enjoy this week as much as possible. Give that princess everything she wants. Let her try it all! Best of luck
  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    Thank you all so much for your kind words...I just keep finding myself in tears, this is by far the hardest thing I've ever had to do...to make a decision like this. I am so thankful for a husband who understands and who loves her too. He hasn't known her as long as I have, but half as long and she has wormed her way into his heart as well. My daughter is trying not to show how upset she is in front of us. I think she feels like if she shows that it'll make us feel worse or something. My dog last night, twice in an effort to help gave his biscuit to my husband....it was the sweetest most adorable thing I've ever seen...he laid it in my husbands seat first, then while we were upstairs cleaning her tumor and putting neosporin on it, he placed it in my husbands side of the bed...we figured after doing it twice it wasn't by accident and it was his way of trying to help because he knows something is wrong. Our youngest cat lays with her while she sleeps and looks over her, he sleeps sometimes, but mostly we catch him watching her...they all know something is going on and that makes it even harder.
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  • Leezestarr313
    Leezestarr313 Temple of the cat Posts: 14,444
    Yes, spoil her rotten and show her how much you love her. It is a tough decision, but it is a selfless one that enables you to show how much you love your pet. Much love to you.
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  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    My horoscope today is very fitting....and I'm not normally into these things....

    Your responsibilities aren't as simple as you had wished today, setting the tone for the entire week ahead. Don't waste precious energy trying to put on a happy face for others, just because that's what they expect from you. It isn't your job to make everyone feel comfortable with your emotional process. Nevertheless, it's up to you to ask yourself the tough questions so you can gain clarity about the next chapter of your life.
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  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    PJSiren said:

    My horoscope today is very fitting....and I'm not normally into these things....

    Your responsibilities aren't as simple as you had wished today, setting the tone for the entire week ahead. Don't waste precious energy trying to put on a happy face for others, just because that's what they expect from you. It isn't your job to make everyone feel comfortable with your emotional process. Nevertheless, it's up to you to ask yourself the tough questions so you can gain clarity about the next chapter of your life.

    Sounds like you're a Libra. :) Sending you strength through this difficult time.
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  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    I am, yes, and thank you....I have 3 hours left at work, and I have been struggling not to have a break down...
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  • Enkidu
    Enkidu So Cal Posts: 2,996
    I'm so sorry. Your kitty is so lucky to have you and vice versa. We are so lucky to have pets to love and pets that love us back. But it's still terrible to say goodbye. Thoughts and prayers from LA.
  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    Thank you! My husband and I wrote something together....giving Tabby Lu a voice....I will share it on Sunday...with some pictures...
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  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    Thinking of you, PJSiren. My heart goes out to you during this sad time.
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  • badbrains
    badbrains Posts: 10,255
    SD48277 said:

    Thinking of you, PJSiren. My heart goes out to you during this sad time.

    Yes, indeed. Hang in there.
  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
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    I am Tabby Lu and I died today. It may be a sad thing but do not be sad for me as I had a fufilling, happy life with my family! It began in a shelter where I had decided I was going to pick my new owner. She did not know it but I targeted her the moment she walked in! I followed her around and every time she stopped I stood up and informed her of my selection and our lives began from there!

    I have been on adventures too! I flew on a plane across the country to Kentucky, where I got to live with my Great Grandparents. Returned home to Oregon on a LONG car trip but I loved every minute of it! Got to live with Grandma and her fur baby for a time as well! Mom met and married Dad and my human sisser Chyann, and I took them in too! Our family grew over time with the inclusion of the dog, Autzen, and the two boy cats, Eliot and Beans. We all got along fantastic and even played together before I got sick!

    My illness, unfortunately, claimed my body before I was able to live out all of my elder years with my family. But the cancer cannot touch my soul or my love for my family, as that will never die! In my final days my parents made sure I was as comfortable as I could be, my furry family members stayed by my side offering me comfort and support, and these acts confirmed what I always knew..........I was not just adopted, I was part of the family!

    They may be sad, upset, and angry I was taken too soon, but they need not worry! I live on in their thoughts and hearts never to be forgotten! This portion of my journey may be complete, but my next adventure is just beginning! Mom, Dad, Chyann, Autzen, Eliot, and Beans..............I love all of you and want you to know I am OK...........I may not be there in the flesh, but I will always be with you!

    I am Tabby Lu and I died today, but my family is with me always and will help me on my next adventure!
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  • badbrains
    badbrains Posts: 10,255
    edited November 2014
    PJSiren said:

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    I am Tabby Lu and I died today. It may be a sad thing but do not be sad for me as I had a fufilling, happy life with my family! It began in a shelter where I had decided I was going to pick my new owner. She did not know it but I targeted her the moment she walked in! I followed her around and every time she stopped I stood up and informed her of my selection and our lives began from there!

    I have been on adventures too! I flew on a plane across the country to Kentucky, where I got to live with my Great Grandparents. Returned home to Oregon on a LONG car trip but I loved every minute of it! Got to live with Grandma and her fur baby for a time as well! Mom met and married Dad and my human sisser Chyann, and I took them in too! Our family grew over time with the inclusion of the dog, Autzen, and the two boy cats, Eliot and Beans. We all got along fantastic and even played together before I got sick!

    My illness, unfortunately, claimed my body before I was able to live out all of my elder years with my family. But the cancer cannot touch my soul or my love for my family, as that will never die! In my final days my parents made sure I was as comfortable as I could be, my furry family members stayed by my side offering me comfort and support, and these acts confirmed what I always knew..........I was not just adopted, I was part of the family!

    They may be sad, upset, and angry I was taken too soon, but they need not worry! I live on in their thoughts and hearts never to be forgotten! This portion of my journey may be complete, but my next adventure is just beginning! Mom, Dad, Chyann, Autzen, Eliot, and Beans..............I love all of you and want you to know I am OK...........I may not be there in the flesh, but I will always be with you!

    I am Tabby Lu and I died today, but my family is with me always and will help me on my next adventure!

    Wow, sorry pj siren. So so sorry. I know exactly what u guys are going thru. Stay strong. Things will get better as the days go by. And when you're ready, another future family member cat will be waiting for you to take home. Again, I'm so sorry on your loss.

    And nice to meet u tabby Lu. Pop your head in on your folks from time to time.
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  • Longueuil
    Longueuil Posts: 2,224
    Farewell Tabby Lu and sorry for your lost PJSiren.
  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    :(
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  • Leezestarr313
    Leezestarr313 Temple of the cat Posts: 14,444
    I am so sorry, PJSiren. Such a sweet kitty. You did the right thing. She won't suffer anymore, and you showed her how much you love her. The memories will always be there, this is the good thing about memories. Nobody can take them away from you. Your heart is aching now, but I can tell you that it will get better eventually. I am sending you a big hug. Tabby Lu will meet Mr. Pickles in kitty heaven. He says hi... Stay strong.
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    When I think about him, I think about him like this. Cozy, cute, with fuzzy little paws.
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