Thanks to all and an update on my wife

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  • paysonites
    paysonites The Rim Country Posts: 1,150
    Good afternoon everybody,

    I can't tell you how much I've missed everybody. I've been trying to reach out just about everyday but things have been difficult. Especially the past few weeks. Shawna hasn't been herself. She's been really run down and fatigued. Her new doctor is suspecting another internal infection. Her pain levels are getting worse again and life has been really hard. We're hoping that he is wrong and with all the blood they took today we should know in a few day's.

    This year has been very very tough and it has taken its toll on my wife and I. I've been struggling with some depression and anxiety. We're both worried about the last back surgery on the horizon. The worry is over infection. Shawna's body is really run down. This roller coaster needs to come to an end at some point so she can get her life back. I'm so exhausted watching her be in pain all the time.

    Anyways that's the best I can do right now. I'll get on here soon when things are going a little better. Thank you all for your continued support. You have no idea how much it truly means to us.

    Thank you for still being here.

    John
    John and Shawna
  • derbydave
    derbydave Columbus, OH Posts: 11,254
    paysonites wrote:
    Good afternoon everybody,

    I can't tell you how much I've missed everybody. I've been trying to reach out just about everyday but things have been difficult. Especially the past few weeks. Shawna hasn't been herself. She's been really run down and fatigued. Her new doctor is suspecting another internal infection. Her pain levels are getting worse again and life has been really hard. We're hoping that he is wrong and with all the blood they took today we should know in a few day's.

    This year has been very very tough and it has taken its toll on my wife and I. I've been struggling with some depression and anxiety. We're both worried about the last back surgery on the horizon. The worry is over infection. Shawna's body is really run down. This roller coaster needs to come to an end at some point so she can get her life back. I'm so exhausted watching her be in pain all the time.

    Anyways that's the best I can do right now. I'll get on here soon when things are going a little better. Thank you all for your continued support. You have no idea how much it truly means to us.

    Thank you for still being here.

    John

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  • Pamela0222
    Pamela0222 Posts: 1,544
    Ahh I'm sorry John to hear about this. It's not easy to read about all the pain that Shawna is in, so I can't even imagine how hard it is for the both of you. Stay strong!!!

    You two are in my thoughts daily, and I'm sending good vibes your way, for positive results and some good news soon!! You have tons of support here, and great people routing for you both!!

    Much love!!
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  • StillHere
    StillHere Posts: 7,795
    you guys really deserve a break

    i hope you get it soon

    hope the sun shines in your window tomorrow morning and brings you joy and happiness

    love and hugs
    peace,
    jo

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  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,836
    Hi John,

    Best wishes and thoughts going out to your family today (and every day!) -- keep the faith my friend!

    Brett
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  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    good vibes sent from Texas to you both today & every day!!! :)

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  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    all the best ....all will be ok....
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  • Halifax2TheMax
    Halifax2TheMax Posts: 42,435
    John and Shawna,

    Hope you guys are well as can be expected. Keeping you in my thoughts!

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  • he.who.forgets
    he.who.forgets Posts: 4,593
    sending some good old florida love your way, John & Shawna!
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  • Katyz
    Katyz Posts: 838
    Hi John,
    So sorry to hear Shawna is having such a hard time now and I know that means you are too. I know circumstances are very different, but has anyone helped you with nutritional boosts for Shawna? We really changed our way of cooking and eating to build up Sammy...maybe her doctors can suggest things. Wish I could help more...LOVE AND HUGS

    katy xxx
  • SxDx1982
    SxDx1982 Posts: 124
    The way that you've kept your head up through everything is truly inspiring. Keep fighting, things will get better.

    Sending hugs and good vibes your way!
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  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    all wil be ok...
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  • ItIsAllAboutPJ
    ItIsAllAboutPJ S.B., CA Posts: 829
    I wish that this will all go away for you very soon.
    So sorry to hear about the set back.
    Stay strong as hard as it may be.
    There is lots of love coming your way. XOXOXO
  • Mamasan23
    Mamasan23 Posts: 16,390
    Sending some more positive vibes...
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  • Sugar-Magnolia
    Sugar-Magnolia Loveland, CO Posts: 233
    :wave:
    Hi guys
    Thinking of your family.

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  • StillHere
    StillHere Posts: 7,795
    sending some saturday morning love your way


    The sun gonna shine in YOUR back door someday (someday soon)
    March winds will blow all your troubles away
    peace,
    jo

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  • Wow another infection huh? I'm soooo sorry to hear that. Lets hope she gets the RIGHT amount of antibiotics from the start this time and they can blast that infection right out of her body for GOOD so she can get well and have that back surgery.

    Sending all kinds of positive vibes and best wishes your way!
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  • ItIsAllAboutPJ
    ItIsAllAboutPJ S.B., CA Posts: 829
    Early Easter wishes for you.
    I hope that Spring brings good things your way. :)
  • Fahka
    Fahka Posts: 3,187
    Sending some love to you guys <3<3<3
  • NAUjackfan
    NAUjackfan Phoenix Posts: 2,340
    Sending healing vibes your way. I hope Shawna can make a quick recovery and we can all buy you a beer at the Phoenix pre-party.
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