'I'm Seeing Someone'

genie

hehe, oh you bitter fucks! i got over my casual friend/ex within 2 weeks after he said to me "what bitch ( insert something in here cause i couldn't hear that idiot properly)?"

there are plenty of men/women outhere, but you just choose to waste your precious life on someone that doesn't even think of you anymore.

hell, the only thing i'm bitter about is for not putting him into his place

nothingman44

genie wrote:

hehe, oh you bitter fucks! i got over my casual friend/ex within 2 weeks after he said to me "what bitch ( insert something in here cause i couldn't hear that idiot properly)?"

there are plenty of men/women outhere, but you just choose to waste your precious life on someone that doesn't even think of you anymore.

hell, the only thing i'm bitter about is for not putting him into his place

she may not think of me anymore, but rest assured i put her in her place. whether or not she feels bad about any of it, only she knows. she knows she wronged me big time and i hope that weighs down in the back of her mind. she knows she was a total selfish priss about the whole thing. i hold nothing but ill will towards her and wish her nothing but the worst. oh yeah, i loved her...i just hope she chokes on a bone someday.

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

exactly. i know it would bother me to have a girlfriend who wouldn't sleep with me but who i found out had slept with other guys very casually in the past. i know i wouldn't be able to wonder about why she couldn't resist him but finds it so easy to put me off, even if that wasn't really the case.

well if you're interested in someone you put off the sex thing for as long as possible cos you want the relationship to be built on mutual respect. If she's had lots of sexual partners in the past, it could be HER who's insecure cos often men wait until they get laid and then they fuck off straight away. It makes perfect sense if you're interested in someone to wait to sleep with them.

Heineken Helen

soulsinging wrote:

given my past experience and general cynicism towards relationships, i don't think there would be any talking it out for me. i'd be gone.

not before she's gone... if you're putting pressure on someone for sex. She's seeing if you're really interested and if you like her enough to wait... consider it a test. If you leave before she decides she trusts you enough to stay with her after you've slept together, you've obviously failed the test miserably. She'll think she wants to wait so you can respect her and all that... if you keep pressurising her in the meantime, it's obvious you're just in it for the one thing so she won't see you as a potential relationship anymore.