why can't guys just be friends with girls??

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  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    genie wrote:
    come again? :confused:
    I think she meant immaturity? :confused:
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    chadwick wrote:
    yep, i agree whole heartedly
    good job failedphone or whatever your name is ;)
    thank you, thank you very much

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  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think she meant immaturity? :confused:

    that's what i thought at first, until i read again and got confused
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    genie wrote:
    master of puppets was one of their best albums, together with the black album and justice for all........
    anyways, i wasn't talking about this, think fetish, and you'll understand.

    i've seen you around here.


    i knew exactly what you meant miss miss ;)
    and i have see you 'round these parts before as well
    it's a nice place to chill or debate or write poetry or read poetry
    or argue, fight, and fuss..
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think she meant immaturity? :confused:

    i think so
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • answers are fatal
    answers are fatal Posts: 281
    Lizard wrote:
    Wow--made them cry!!!! That some power you have!! You are only 17--how are old those guys? (drinking and all!! ) ;)


    haha one guy is 17 and the other is 21
  • acoustic guy
    acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    genie wrote:
    i bet you're not as freaky as i am! :p
    I bet I am :D

    Watch now I will catch shit for that line, but its true.
    Freaky Deeky!!!!!
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    I'm sorry but if you are hot, you stand NO chance of having guy friends.

    If they say they are your friend they are lying and are just waiting for the moment to put your gaurd down (or get really drunk).
  • failedpersephone
    failedpersephone Posts: 3,424
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think she meant immaturity? :confused:
    no no I meant a sign of maturity...I was not calling anyone IMmature...I was stating that it is a sign of maturity level...I did not want to step on tender toes of anyone who had previously posted that they couldn't be friends with the opposite sex...they may be very mature in other aspects of their lives, but sexually they are lacking a level of maturity.


    I guess i could have just written immature.

    *also - "I'm sorry but if you are hot, you stand NO chance of having guy friends.

    If they say they are your friend they are lying and are just waiting for the moment to put your gaurd down (or get really drunk)."

    that is a very sad perspective...especially the "guard down/get you drunk" part...these people would never be considered friends.

    if you think that I cannot tell the difference between a dude that wants my thong as dental floss, and one that is killer to hang out with...then you must thing I am an idiot...
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  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    catch22 wrote:
    just 2 seconds ago you were talking about how girls backstab each other and you'd rather hang out with guys. he says the same and you go all frowny? methinks the real reason you like having guy friends is the attention.


    I don't need friends (male ones) to get attention!! :D
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • acoustic guy
    acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    I don't need friends (male ones) to get attention!! :D
    Yea you do. You LOVE attention.
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    fanch75 wrote:
    Yup, and every one of them are waiting/hoping for you to get tired of your husband or to get into an argument with him and you (in your hour of need) run to one of these guy buddies for help, leading to drinking, leading to some Snoop Dogg action.


    I hope not.....I'm hoping they are truly my good friends!! :o
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    genie wrote:
    i don't think you do, cause all my friends are men :D


    All of my friends are men too...;) well most of them..
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • acoustic guy
    acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    I hope not.....I'm hoping they are truly my good friends!! :o
    They are for now. ;) Just wait until there is a problem. :)
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    acoustic guy wrote:
    They are for now. ;) Just wait until there is a problem. :)


    There isn't going to be a problem!! I think some of you guys are being crazy. You honestly think that three of my male friends who are not married are waiting for something to happen to me and my husband so they can get in my pants?! That is going too be a very long WAIT!! :D

    so totally NOT TRUE!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    There isn't going to be a problem!! I think some of you guys are being crazy. You honestly think that three of my male friends who are not married are waiting for something to happen to me and my husband so they can get in my pants?! That is going too be a very long WAIT!! :D

    so totally NOT TRUE!!
    well - it totally depends on the guy. I used to think that it was totally possible for guys and girls to be just friends...now I'm not so sure. I was friends with a guy for 16 years...we hooked up briefly in college - kind of a friends with benefits thing that never amounted to much. Then I met my husband and got married and we stayed friends. He never made a move - totally respectful to me, my husband and my marriage. I even crashed out his apartment a few times and he never did anything even remotely inappropriate. Flash forward 10 years later, I separate from my husband and my friend tells me he's in love with me. wtf??? and now that I'm in a new relationship we're not really friends anymore (we are, but not in the same way as before). so yeah...now I'm not so sure.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    There isn't going to be a problem!! I think some of you guys are being crazy. You honestly think that three of my male friends who are not married are waiting for something to happen to me and my husband so they can get in my pants?! That is going too be a very long WAIT!! :D

    so totally NOT TRUE!!

    Pammy,

    many on here talk alot of bullshit..
    don't sweat it..

    dudes and dolls can be bestest of friends no questions asked..
    i wonder if this thread will turn into like the one that was locked up a few days back?
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • ForestBrain
    ForestBrain Posts: 460
    Without having read any of the posts following the original, my best guess is this:

    Because men are perverts? Well, maybe not pervs, but sex is CONSTANTLY on their minds?
    When life gives you lemons, throw them at somebody.
  • reversedarwinism
    reversedarwinism Posts: 1,151
    I used to be able to be friends with obese girls, no prob. I also could be just friends with hot girls that I'd already slept with and that part was over. I couldn't be friends with girls that were thin but ugly, cause they always thought they had a chance. Now, I can be friends with any girl hot or not, cause I've got an amazing woman that I wouldn't betray for anyone in the world.
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  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    reversedarwinism wrote:
    I used to be able to be friends with obese girls, no prob. I also could be just friends with hot girls that I'd already slept with and that part was over. I couldn't be friends with girls that were thin but ugly, cause they always thought they had a chance. Now, I can be friends with any girl hot or not, cause I've got an amazing woman that I wouldn't betray for anyone in the world.

    Awwwwwwwwwwwwww

    Now that is sweet...
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."

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