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why can't guys just be friends with girls??

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edited September 2011 in All Encompassing Trip
why are they always looking for a "hook-up" or a relationship? what happenened to just being friends?
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    muppetmuppet Posts: 980
    Well why do girls lead guys on when really nothing is ever gonna come of it? ;)
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    Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    The dreaded *Friends Zone*

    The only girlfriends that guys have are girls they haven't banged yet

    Friends w/benefits is the way to go
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    Jearlpam0925Jearlpam0925 Deep South Philly Posts: 16,790
    muppet wrote:
    Well why do girls lead guys on when really nothing is ever gonna come of it? ;)

    Touche'.....Plus, if a guy and girl hang out enough they're inevitably going to end up having sex. It's like a law or something.
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    GraySaturdayGraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    boys are dumb :)

    I'm friends with Colby.. I guess the only guy I can be friends with is a 16 year old. If he got fresh with me, I'd just step on him or something..

    R - guys are like mentally 5 years behind girls maturity wise.. its going to be a while till you find them on par ;)

    *Okay, no one throw stones at me.. I mean it in good fun
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    Inhiding230Inhiding230 Posts: 362
    From my many years of experience, they can if the girl is not attractive to them, or if one of them, or both are in a relationship already.
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    normnorm I'm always home. I'm uncool. Posts: 31,147
    immaturity
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    CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    Ahhh more drama huh rach?
    Add it to the list this week:(
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    saveuplifesaveuplife Posts: 1,173
    They can, according to many girls. But, guys know the guy in the friendship is actually interested in being more than just friends.

    It's pretty simple really. Guys don't need girlfriends. They can get plenty of guy friends. Why would you need a girl "friend"? If you say info on girls or advice, guys can still get that.

    So, the real question is why do girls need guy friends?
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    Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Like the other poster said

    Guys take signals from the girl and think they wanna have sex

    Then the girl is like "What?" "Why would you think that?"

    Maybe because we get along and you hang with me all the time..and we grind when we dance
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    Jearlpam0925Jearlpam0925 Deep South Philly Posts: 16,790
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Maybe because we get along and you hang with me all the time..and we grind when we dance

    Ahahahahahaha!!!
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    acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    GraySaturday wrote:
    boys are dumb :)

    I'm friends with Colby.. I guess the only guy I can be friends with is a 16 year old. If he got fresh with me, I'd just step on him or something..

    R - guys are like mentally 5 years behind girls maturity wise.. its going to be a while till you find them on par ;)

    *Okay, no one throw stones at me.. I mean it in good fun
    Your friend is 16 and you don't think he dreams of sleeping wih you? LOL That kid is in his sexual prime........watch out! :D
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    riffrandallriffrandall Posts: 685
    All you have to do is watch Billy Crystal's speech in "When Harry Met Sally" and (as much as I don't really LOVE the movie) that's about as clear as it gets.

    - the sex thing always gets in the way
    - guys want to nail even girls they aren't totally hot for
    - it doesn't matter if one of them isn't attracted to the other, because if the other person IS attracted, then the sex thing is in the way
    - it won't work if either is in a relationship with someone else because the person's s.o. won't understand why then need to be friends with the person their "just friends" with.

    Something like that.
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    nfanelnfanel Posts: 2,558
    i probaby have more guy friends than girl friends. lots of life long guy friends that nothing 'romantic' has ever happened with....and exes that converted over. i don't buy it that guys and girls can't be friends.
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    GraySaturdayGraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    acoustic guy wrote:
    Your friend is 16 and you don't think he dreams of sleeping wih you? LOL That kid is in his sexual prime........watch out! :D

    EW!!

    Colby is Drop the Leash 10!! he's gonna come to this thread and die of embarrassment now!
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    Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    acoustic guy wrote:
    Your friend is 16 and you don't think he dreams of sleeping wih you? LOL That kid is in his sexual prime........watch out! :D

    How many tissues under his bed ???

    ;)
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    Yellow BedwetterYellow Bedwetter NYC Posts: 2,832
    wow...these first responses are more educating than my college psych class 4 years ago
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    dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    cos girls have boobs.
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
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    rival.rival. Chicago Posts: 7,776
    the answers are fatal.
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    acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    muppet wrote:
    Well why do girls lead guys on when really nothing is ever gonna come of it? ;)
    Totally. What happens is, the girl gets so comfortable with the guy, she thinks of him as a gay friend or brother so she unknowingly gets real relaxed around him. He takes this as flirting and he moves in for the kill.

    Ya got to remember (OFCOURSE I DON"T SPEAK FOR ALL MEN) ;) but if a guy is friends with a hot girl, they are always wiling to have sex with them. The girl might not be but the guy would anytime. They are friends b/c the girl dictates that.
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    acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    dunkman wrote:
    cos girls have boobs.
    hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
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    GraySaturdayGraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    dunkman wrote:
    cos girls have boobs.


    and all this time I thought we were friends because of my wonderful personality..

    hummm
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    Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    acoustic guy wrote:
    Totally. What happens is, the girl gets so comfortable with the guy, she thinks of him as a gay friend or brother so she unknowingly gets real relaxed around him. He takes this as flirting and he moves in for the kill.

    Ya got to remember (OFCOURSE I DON"T SPEAK FOR ALL MEN) ;) but if a guy is friends with a hot girl, they are always wiling to have sex with them. The girl might not be but the guy would anytime. They are friends b/c the girl dictates that.

    And with that...class is dismissed !

    That's dead on
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

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    Jearlpam0925Jearlpam0925 Deep South Philly Posts: 16,790
    acoustic guy wrote:
    Totally. What happens is, the girl gets so comfortable with the guy, she thinks of him as a gay friend or brother so she unknowingly gets real relaxed around him. He takes this as flirting and he moves in for the kill.

    Ya got to remember (OFCOURSE I DON"T SPEAK FOR ALL MEN) ;) but if a guy is friends with a hot girl, they are always wiling to have sex with them. The girl might not be but the guy would anytime. They are friends b/c the girl dictates that.

    Good point, yes maybe the guy would like a relationship, but mostly the guy if he likes the girl as a friend could be easily indifferent to a "relationship" and could easily have sex with her and go back to just "hangin out." The girl on the other hand well.....Elaine's pulling all the paper towels from the rack.
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    acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    GraySaturday wrote:
    EW!!

    Colby is Drop the Leash 10!! he's gonna come to this thread and die of embarrassment now!
    Or hope its a doorway to heaven for him :D
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
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    normnorm I'm always home. I'm uncool. Posts: 31,147
    riffrandall wrote:
    All you have to do is watch Billy Crystal's speech in "When Harry Met Sally" and (as much as I don't really LOVE the movie) that's about as clear as it gets.

    - the sex thing always gets in the way
    - guys want to nail even girls they aren't totally hot for
    - it doesn't matter if one of them isn't attracted to the other, because if the other person IS attracted, then the sex thing is in the way
    - it won't work if either is in a relationship with someone else because the person's s.o. won't understand why then need to be friends with the person their "just friends" with.

    Something like that.


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aJz1f8hPRGc
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    SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    answers are fatal wrote:
    why are they always looking for a "hook-up" or a relationship? what happenened to just being friends?

    chicks are the same way! the only difference is guys ACT on it. In defense of the dudes, there are ALOT of them that can be just frenz. Its not fair to them when girls tease them KNOWING they wont let the guy anywhere NEAR them. That sh*t aint right!!!!
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    acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    And with that...class is dismissed !

    That's dead on
    :) Thank you very much.

    I have many girl friends but to be honest....I have slept with all of them before I as married :D Hahahahaha.

    My wife does not like it but we were friends before I was married.
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    blackredyellowblackredyellow Posts: 5,889
    acoustic guy wrote:
    Totally. What happens is, the girl gets so comfortable with the guy, she thinks of him as a gay friend or brother so she unknowingly gets real relaxed around him. He takes this as flirting and he moves in for the kill.

    Ya got to remember (OFCOURSE I DON"T SPEAK FOR ALL MEN) ;) but if a guy is friends with a hot girl, they are always wiling to have sex with them. The girl might not be but the guy would anytime. They are friends b/c the girl dictates that.

    Exactly... In general, a guy isn't going to be friends with a girl that he has absolutely no interest in sleeping with. The only thing stopping a guy from sleeping with a "friend" is because the girl won't let him, or the guy is in a relationship.
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    acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    SENROCK! wrote:
    chicks are the same way! the only difference is guys ACT on it. In defense of the dudes, there are ALOT of them that can be just frenz. Its not fair to them when girls tease them KNOWING they wont let the guy anywhere NEAR them. That sh*t aint right!!!!
    Exactly.
    Oh he is just a friend so I can walk around in my panties, he does not care...
    Yeaaaaaa righttttt! Check under the pillow that is on his lap to see if he cares or not :D
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    SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    acoustic guy wrote:
    Your friend is 16 and you don't think he dreams of sleeping wih you? LOL That kid is in his sexual prime........watch out! :D

    hahahaha that is CLASSIC cuz its true!!!! :D Gray may be strictly frenz cuz she knows better but him? You can TELL thru some of his posts that theres the deeper thought! :eek: Its normal though right? And Gray is cute. :D
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