why can't guys just be friends with girls??

catch22

in_hiding79 wrote:

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just 2 seconds ago you were talking about how girls backstab each other and you'd rather hang out with guys. he says the same and you go all frowny? methinks the real reason you like having guy friends is the attention.

chadwick

but wouldn't it be nice if everybody was friends with one another with
a no strings attached friendship, nothing expected in regards of a sexual nature type friendship, all equal, open and honest?

SENROCK

Why is this thread still here??!!!! We answered the question from the beginning!!!!

Lizard

SENROCK! wrote:

Why is this thread still here??!!

kinda my thoughts when I just logged on!!!

And...........Has the OP responded to anything? I have not checked the thread.

SENROCK

Lizard wrote:

kinda my thoughts when I just logged on!!!

And...........Has the OP responded to anything? I have not checked the thread.

i think we scared her. shes under age and a really nice girl! But some of the stuff we all said THAT WAS TRUE may have been WAY too honest!!! :eek: Maybe we need a pg13 or rated R seal on some threads!!!

eyedclaar

SENROCK! wrote:

i think we scared her. shes under age and a really nice girl! But some of the stuff we all said THAT WAS TRUE may have been WAY too honest!!! :eek: Maybe we need a pg13 or rated R seal on some threads!!!

Hehe. That will teach her to mess around with Pandora's Box. Don't open that shit unless you're ready to look inside!

fanch75

in_hiding79 wrote:

I have a ton of male friends and they all know I'm married! One I have been friends with since I was in 8th grade...it is possible!!

Yup, and every one of them are waiting/hoping for you to get tired of your husband or to get into an argument with him and you (in your hour of need) run to one of these guy buddies for help, leading to drinking, leading to some Snoop Dogg action.

Indifference

fanch75 wrote:

Yup, and every one of them are waiting/hoping for you to get tired of your husband or to get into an argument with him and you (in your hour of need) run to one of these guy buddies for help, leading to drinking, leading to some Snoop Dogg action.

Yep.............

Allie

TrixieCat wrote:

Sure guys are great and all, but I would rather hang with my girls. Maybe I have just been lucky enough to surround myself with good friends that are cool and let me cut loose. I question those that only have "catty" relationships with women. Often it seems they are the ones with the problems towards other women. Me? I celebrate women and all that we are.

I am one of 'those' that said that about women.

I didn't say I had only catty relationships with women-

I said women have been catty and envious towards me. Instead of asking me why that happened, or what happened, you, a woman, assume I am the one with problem. I fail to see how that 'celebrates' another woman, it confirms my point.

TrixieCat

Allie wrote:

I am one of 'those' that said that about women.

I didn't say I had only catty relationships with women-

I said women have been catty and envious towards me. Instead of asking me why that happened, or what happened, you, a woman, assume I am the one with problem. I fail to see how that 'celebrates' another woman, it confirms my point.

Confirms your point about what? lol
I am envious of you? Or catty towards you?

genie

another reason why i hangout with guys is because i'm curious about how they think and how they look at a particular situation.i'm amazed at how some guys don't mind getting hurt physically.....hell if only i could be like that

TrixieCat

catch22 wrote:

just 2 seconds ago you were talking about how girls backstab each other and you'd rather hang out with guys. he says the same and you go all frowny? methinks the real reason you like having guy friends is the attention.

Knock it off.
Leave her alone.
So what?

eyedclaar

genie wrote:

another reason why i hangout with guys is because i'm curious about how they think and how they look at a particular situation.i'm amazed at how some guys don't mind getting hurt physically.....hell if only i could be like that

Haha. As a reckless man with numerous broken bones I can only say that it isn't that I enjoy getting hurt, it's just that I'm not going to let the fact that I might get hurt stop me from doing something. On the other hand, as a result, part of my body is hurting all the time these days. I guess there are trade-offs.

Phantom Pain

eyedclaar wrote:

Haha. As a reckless man with numerous broken bones I can only say that it isn't that I enjoy getting hurt, it's just that I'm not going to let the fact that I might get hurt stop me from doing something. On the other hand, as a result, part of my body is hurting all the time these days. I guess there are trade-offs.

Should I or shouldn't I put that extra packet of FIRE sauce on my burrito...

That's my hurt, baby

genie

Allie wrote:

I am one of 'those' that said that about women.

I didn't say I had only catty relationships with women-

I said women have been catty and envious towards me. Instead of asking me why that happened, or what happened, you, a woman, assume I am the one with problem. I fail to see how that 'celebrates' another woman, it confirms my point.

TrixieCat wrote:

Confirms your point about what? lol
I am envious of you? Or catty towards you?

Ladies, let's not go there! i hear you both and i can say that some men have been complete dickheads towards me, especially i will never forget that time when i was in the club and i felt really bad because i've recently split up with my boyfriend, and this guy came upto me and started swearing and showing some nasty gestures to me wanting to see my reaction, and because i'm not a violent person i started annoying him by doing childish things like messing up his hair.....my ex saw that and thought i was annoying completely innocent person and started going on at me and saying "what the fuck do you think you're doing" ah, that's when all the demons i held within me came back from my past and i went to the toilet and cried all night.

answers are fatal

Lizard wrote:

kinda my thoughts when I just logged on!!!

And...........Has the OP responded to anything? I have not checked the thread.

haha no i haven't responded to this thread at all since it was started. i just sat back and read everyone's responses, it was really entertaining. But, i should probably explain myself to why i made this thread. two nights ago i got back with my boyfriend, and i told the two guys that liked me what happened, and i can only talk to them if they will accept me as a friend and nothing more. but they insisted on telling me that they fell inlove with me and all this nonsence. anyways.... it turns out i made two guys cry in one night, it was epic. so it turns out that i had to stay up all night with one of the guys on the phone, because he was drinking his problems away. so thats when the question came to mind, what is wrong with guys and girls just being friends and nothing more.

and i appreciated everyones responses.

Lizard

answers are fatal wrote:

haha no i haven't responded to this thread at all since it was started. i just sat back and read everyone's responses, it was really entertaining. But, i should probably explain myself to why i made this thread. two nights ago i got back with my boyfriend, and i told the two guys that liked me what happened, and i can only talk to them if they will accept me as a friend and nothing more. but they insisted on telling me that they fell inlove with me and all this nonsence. anyways.... it turns out i made two guys cry in one night, it was epic. so it turns out that i had to stay up all night with one of the guys on the phone, because he was drinking his problems away. so thats when the question came to mind, what is wrong with guys and girls just being friends and nothing more.

and i appreciated everyones responses.

Wow--made them cry!!!! That some power you have!! You are only 17--how are old those guys? (drinking and all!! )

SENROCK

answers are fatal wrote:

haha no i haven't responded to this thread at all since it was started. i just sat back and read everyone's responses, it was really entertaining. But, i should probably explain myself to why i made this thread. two nights ago i got back with my boyfriend, and i told the two guys that liked me what happened, and i can only talk to them if they will accept me as a friend and nothing more. but they insisted on telling me that they fell inlove with me and all this nonsence. anyways.... it turns out i made two guys cry in one night, it was epic. so it turns out that i had to stay up all night with one of the guys on the phone, because he was drinking his problems away. so thats when the question came to mind, what is wrong with guys and girls just being friends and nothing more.

and i appreciated everyones responses.

With this response of yours, our points have been proven! Gladd u were entertained but let it make you wiser too!

eyedclaar

answers are fatal wrote:

haha no i haven't responded to this thread at all since it was started. i just sat back and read everyone's responses, it was really entertaining. But, i should probably explain myself to why i made this thread. two nights ago i got back with my boyfriend, and i told the two guys that liked me what happened, and i can only talk to them if they will accept me as a friend and nothing more. but they insisted on telling me that they fell inlove with me and all this nonsence. anyways.... it turns out i made two guys cry in one night, it was epic. so it turns out that i had to stay up all night with one of the guys on the phone, because he was drinking his problems away. so thats when the question came to mind, what is wrong with guys and girls just being friends and nothing more.

and i appreciated everyones responses.

Making two guys cry in the same night. Good work, youngster!

norm

answers are fatal wrote:

haha no i haven't responded to this thread at all since it was started. i just sat back and read everyone's responses, it was really entertaining. But, i should probably explain myself to why i made this thread. two nights ago i got back with my boyfriend, and i told the two guys that liked me what happened, and i can only talk to them if they will accept me as a friend and nothing more. but they insisted on telling me that they fell inlove with me and all this nonsence. anyways.... it turns out i made two guys cry in one night, it was epic. so it turns out that i had to stay up all night with one of the guys on the phone, because he was drinking his problems away. so thats when the question came to mind, what is wrong with guys and girls just being friends and nothing more.

and i appreciated everyones responses.

as i said initially....immaturity....and in this case it sounds like it