why can't guys just be friends with girls??

eyedclaar

Phantom Pain wrote:

Should I or shouldn't I put that extra packet of FIRE sauce on my burrito...

That's my hurt, baby

Oh, you certainly should. Maybe throw an extra hot one on there for me.

TrixieCat

genie wrote:

Ladies, let's not go there! i hear you both and i can say that some men have been complete dickheads towards me, especially i will never forget that time when i was in the club and i felt really bad because i've recently split up with my boyfriend, and this guy came upto me and started swearing and showing some nasty gestures to me wanting to see my reaction, and because i'm not a violent person i started annoying him by doing childish things like messing up his hair.....my ex saw that and thought i was annoying completely innocent person and started going on at me and saying "what the fuck do you think you're doing" ah, that's when all the demons i held within me came back from my past and i went to the toilet and cried all night.

I made a generalization and she made one.
No biggie.
I don't fight with people on here.lol
Unless I know you in real life.

genie

in fact i freaking hated boys at school...hmmm, i wonder if i was a lesbian would i hate men?

genie

TrixieCat wrote:

I made a generalization and she made one.
No biggie.
I don't fight with people on here.lol
Unless I know you in real life.

i don't think you do, cause all my friends are men

TrixieCat

genie wrote:

in fact i freaking hated boys at school...hmmm, i wonder if i was a lesbian would i hate men?

Not all lesbians hate men.

I think I have deeper friendships with women.
I have had plenty of guy friends. But there is always the sexual undertone and I am not about to deal with that when I am trying to relax.

chadwick

genie wrote:

in fact i freaking hated boys at school...hmmm, i wonder if i was a lesbian would i hate men?

i am a man & i am a full blown lesbian
does that make sense?

genie

TrixieCat wrote:

Not all lesbians hate men.

I think I have deeper friendships with women.
I have had plenty of guy friends. But there is always the sexual undertone and I am not about to deal with that when I am trying to relax.

You're hot blooded woman!

Nah, i wasn't talking about other lesbians at all, i meant only myself and no one else, i mean seriously if i wasn't sexually attracted to them would i still be kind and understanding? the kind of question i would find difficult to answer.

genie

chadwick wrote:

i am a man & i am a full blown lesbian
does that make sense?

for me it doesn't,

it either means you're gay or it means you love women too much and you want to become a woman

TrixieCat

genie wrote:

You're hot blooded woman!

Nah, i wasn't talking about other lesbians at all, i meant only myself and no one else, i mean seriously if i wasn't sexually attracted to them would i still be kind and understanding? the kind of question i would find difficult to answer.

You are confusing the shit out of me! lol
Are you talking about being kind and understanding to men or lesbians?
You don't have any women friends?

genie

TrixieCat wrote:

You are confusing the shit out of me! lol
Are you talking about being kind and understanding to men or lesbians?
You don't have any women friends?

i'm talking about being kind and understanding to men.

well, i'm lucky to have friends at all, and two females that i know i would only call them my associates because they don't care about me really they just want me as someone to go out with you know, they ask how i am but deep down they're not really bothered about me

chadwick

genie wrote:

for me it doesn't,

it either means you're gay or it means you love women too much and you want to become a woman

nopers miss..
it means i'm a chow hound like nobodies flippin business
as well as i have a built in adult toy that ladies like to get radical with..
the artistic side of me would be my sensitive side..

genie

chadwick wrote:

nopers miss..
it means i'm a chow hound like nobodies flippin business
as well as i have a built in adult toy that ladies like to get radical with..
the artistic side of me would be my sensitive side..

i've seen you around here, you always come across as a sensitive, creative type, never knew you had it in you. still though, i bet you're not as freaky as i am!

TrixieCat

genie wrote:

i'm talking about being kind and understanding to men.

well, i'm lucky to have friends at all, and two females that i know i would only call them my associates because they don't care about me really they just want me as someone to go out with you know, they ask how i am but deep down they're not really bothered about me

Associates is a good term for those types of "friends".

chadwick

genie wrote:

i've seen you around here, you always come across as a sensitive, creative type, never knew you had it in you. still though, i bet you're not as freaky as i am!

of course i have it in me, i am a fuckin poetic madman.
what do you expect?

freaky huh?
nicely done miss miss.
please keep up the good work, you're doing a fantastic job

genie

chadwick wrote:

of course i have it in me, i am a fuckin poetic madman.
what do you expect?

freaky huh?
nicely done miss miss.
please keep up the good work, you're doing a fantastic job

yes, sir! or should i say..................my master

chadwick

genie wrote:

yes, sir! or should i say..................my master

never been a master before

i have metallica's "master of puppets" does that count?

see folks genie & i just became buddies, maybe, kinda sorta.
never chit chatted with her before until today. (i think)

failedpersephone

chadwick wrote:

never been a master before

i have metallica's "master of puppets" does that count?

see folks genie & i just became buddies, maybe, kinda sorta.
never chit chatted with her before until today. (i think)

hahahaha!!

that is an awesome representation of how the two sexes can be buddies and or friends.

I have a LOT of male friends, and we talk shit to each other all the time. In the past they have (at one point or another...except for the gay friends) made passes at me - or admitted to "crushes" but, we worked through it.

also, sex is not a big deal - it isnt always love-based and it shouldn't be treated as the ends to the means...at least, if you are a friend of mine it isnt.

I think that when people say that they "cant" be friends with the opposite sex and keep it sex-free it is a sign of maturity.

I have had crushes on my male friends and in one case we acted on our (shared) impulse...turns out we are better as buddies...no benefits. The other friend that I had a crush on we just worked through it.

sex is obviously a driving force, but I think that people need to harness it...

genie

chadwick wrote:

never been a master before

i have metallica's "master of puppets" does that count?

see folks genie & i just became buddies, maybe, kinda sorta.
never chit chatted with her before until today. (i think)

master of puppets was one of their best albums, together with the black album and justice for all........
anyways, i wasn't talking about this, think fetish, and you'll understand.

i've seen you around here.

chadwick

failedpersephone wrote:

hahahaha!!

that is an awesome representation of how the two sexes can be buddies and or friends.

I have a LOT of male friends, and we talk shit to each other all the time. In the past they have (at one point or another...except for the gay friends) made passes at me - or admitted to "crushes" but, we worked through it.

also, sex is not a big deal - it isnt always love-based and it shouldn't be treated as the ends to the means...at least, if you are a friend of mine it isnt.

I think that when people say that they "cant" be friends with the opposite sex and keep it sex-free it is a sign of maturity.

I have had crushes on my male friends and in one case we acted on our (shared) impulse...turns out we are better as buddies...no benefits. The other friend that I had a crush on we just worked through it.

sex is obviously a driving force, but I think that people need to harness it...

yep, i agree whole heartedly
good job failedphone or whatever your name is
thank you, thank you very much

genie

failedpersephone wrote:

I think that when people say that they "cant" be friends with the opposite sex and keep it sex-free it is a sign of maturity.

come again?