hey INDIANSUMMER,SOULSINGING and evryother cavemen out there glad you guys don't live anywhere near me or that you don't get to be at the meet up's here in NY ,GET A FUCKINGLIFE .i for one respect the women in my life assholes we all came out of one ........
It's so easy for a girl to cry rape that it just isn't fair to some guys. Seriously, what you wear and how you act wearing it makes a poor guy confused! Geez..
Now actual brutal rapists out there, the ones that rape and kill or just rape random girls, well they should all have their nuts chopped off!
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
what i don't understand is why her thread title is rape. clearly she hasn't been raped.
She probably has realised that she could have been raped, and the facts like she said, dont sound as bad as they were in her head...so the title makes the link for us as to where she thought it couldve gone....i guess?
that part makes it sound like he didnt touch her after to be fair, but then again he didnt leave for 15 minutes so its hardly like they were having fun banter for that time.
I doubt it was pleasant banter, but more along the lines of her holding the door open and him standing there pleading for just about any sort of sexual activity he could get for 15 minutes.
hey INDIANSUMMER,SOULSINGING and evryother cavemen out there glad you guys don't live anywhere near me or that you don't get to be at the meet up's here in NY ,GET A FUCKINGLIFE .i for one respect the women in my life assholes we all came out of one ........
at least there's one!
It all seems so pointless now!
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Clothing definitely matters....If I come home and my wife is wearing a skimpy little outfit and shoots me down when I get turned on, her ass can sleep on the couch!
LOL, I wouldn't blame ya..
I would never do that to my husband! That would be just mean....
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
It's so easy for a girl to cry rape that it just isn't fair to some guys. Seriously, what you wear and how you act wearing it makes a poor guy confused! Geez..
Sick :(
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
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Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
hey INDIANSUMMER,SOULSINGING and evryother cavemen out there glad you guys don't live anywhere near me or that you don't get to be at the meet up's here in NY ,GET A FUCKINGLIFE .i for one respect the women in my life assholes we all came out of one ........
You're implying that I don't respect women, which is completely false. I don't respect people who make poor decisions and can't take responsibility for their own actions.
all the talk has been about what she did wrong... but everyone seems to be in agreeance that no means no BUT....... it's often followed by a 'but' and it shouldn't be... no means no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
totally. "No" should be the end of it. like the others said, off home to do whatever it is you need to do, but on your own. or with porn, or with someone who's cool with it. or whatever floats ur boat......
You're implying that I don't respect women, which is completely false. I don't respect people who make poor decisions and can't take responsibility for their own actions.
actions? Again... you imply an element of blame for being raped :( Is there ANY other crime which can be debated like this???
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
I doubt it was pleasant banter, but more along the lines of her holding the door open and him standing there pleading for just about any sort of sexual activity he could get for 15 minutes.
Thats what i said! maybe there was sarcasm in my post but i think you're 100% right. Indian Summer said the guy clearly respected her no's...i think if he had clearly respected them he would have left immediately as pointed out by soulsinging earlier in the thread
You're implying that I don't respect women, which is completely false. I don't respect people who make poor decisions and can't take responsibility for their own actions.
read your post again... if she HAD been raped would you still have the same attitude?
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
hey INDIANSUMMER,SOULSINGING and evryother cavemen out there glad you guys don't live anywhere near me or that you don't get to be at the meet up's here in NY ,GET A FUCKINGLIFE .i for one respect the women in my life assholes we all came out of one ........
im tempted to come just to spite you tough guy. don't be a tool.
since it didn't happen, I don't know how I would react. I'd probably be more sympathetic.
:rolleyes:
some of you people though... if somebody buys a nice car and it's stolen, do you say 'serves him right for tempting the thieves like that... poor thief'
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Verona??? it's all surmountable
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Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
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What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
some of you people though... if somebody buys a nice car and it's stolen, do you say 'serves him right for tempting the thieves like that... poor thief'
I wouldn't say that....but if they had a new car, and didn't get insurance on it...then I may call them dumb.
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Verona??? it's all surmountable
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Chicago 07? And love
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I think it's harder for some guys to understand cos they, presumably, are less likely to have been in that situation. I think there's a pretty high percentage of women who have experienced even someone forcing them to kiss them. It's not the kissing that's bad but when they don't stop and you're trying to push them away and there is a split second where you think 'I might be in trouble here' and that's bad enough but the guy's thinking 'it's just a fucking kiss, don't be such a prick teaser'. And yeh, it is just a kiss but she doesn't know where that's leading.
i think the problem with this OP is there seems to be a lot missing here. the thread subject is rape and she clearly wasn't. she is dodgy about how dressed up she was. it sounds like she exaggerated a few things for dramatic effect. which i can understand, i imagine she's rattled. but the story sounds like it doesn't need that. seems pretty clear she said no, and he persisted and kept harassing her before she finally forced him out. you don't need to dress that story up for it to be sickening. and i think that is what people are reacting to and i think any lack of sympathy from men has to do with frustration. it is very difficult anymore to know what is appropriate anymore. clearly, no means no, period. but a girl you dont know well invites you over to watch a movie alone at her house on a snowy night, she wears a sexy outfit, and the OP and some women around here are acting like he's a sexist, rapist pig for thinking she might have been interested in fooling around a bit? girls get angry when we don't notice their sexy clothing, and get offended when we do. i think that is what's going on here. i think everyone is glad she's ok, but a few people are a bit off put by the exaggerations and evasions and the all-too-quick-to-assume any man who would get that impression from this story is a pig, which is as bad as the assumption that any woman wearing a short skirt wants some dick.
some of you people though... if somebody buys a nice car and it's stolen, do you say 'serves him right for tempting the thieves like that... poor thief'
If someone buys a nice car and leaves the key in the ignition in a seedy part of town I would think it served him right for being an idiot, no sympathy. As to comparing this to someone saying "no", well, there is no comparison. Granted, the op may have made a poor choice, hopefully she won't put herself in that situation again, because there are some sick fucks out there. Assault is never the victims fault, PERIOD. Peace to all out there, and to inhiding79 saying SHE feels sorry for the guys with the way some girls dress sending out the wrong signal, get a fucking life, ok.
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
It doesn't matter what I was wearing. I take my garbage out in those kick around the home clothes.
Apparently I'm the only one that read this above quote. Unless she wears high heels and a skirt to take out the trash, I'm guessing she was dressed comfortably. And even if she was dressed "provocatively" (whatever that even is) it still is never a reason. WTF is wrong with some of these fucks on here?!?!?
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
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Now actual brutal rapists out there, the ones that rape and kill or just rape random girls, well they should all have their nuts chopped off!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
She probably has realised that she could have been raped, and the facts like she said, dont sound as bad as they were in her head...so the title makes the link for us as to where she thought it couldve gone....i guess?
It all seems so pointless now!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
LOL, I wouldn't blame ya..
I would never do that to my husband! That would be just mean....
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
You're implying that I don't respect women, which is completely false. I don't respect people who make poor decisions and can't take responsibility for their own actions.
totally. "No" should be the end of it. like the others said, off home to do whatever it is you need to do, but on your own. or with porn, or with someone who's cool with it. or whatever floats ur boat......
My wife would never do that to me either....just making a point.
I know "Indian Summer", I was just quoting ya!!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Thats what i said! maybe there was sarcasm in my post but i think you're 100% right. Indian Summer said the guy clearly respected her no's...i think if he had clearly respected them he would have left immediately as pointed out by soulsinging earlier in the thread
i like to be mean sometimes, and pull my boyfriends hair, and make him pin me down.....:D hehe, anyway but that's a whole different matter.
just thought i should add something different to this thread
get a fucking life asshole .....
Goddamnit, she wasn't fucking raped!
I've got a great life, thanks for your concern.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Probably not.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
since it didn't happen, I don't know how I would react. I'd probably be more sympathetic.
im tempted to come just to spite you tough guy. don't be a tool.
some of you people though... if somebody buys a nice car and it's stolen, do you say 'serves him right for tempting the thieves like that... poor thief'
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
I like your addition!
I like to have my hair pulled just a bit..heheh
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
I wouldn't say that....but if they had a new car, and didn't get insurance on it...then I may call them dumb.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
i think the problem with this OP is there seems to be a lot missing here. the thread subject is rape and she clearly wasn't. she is dodgy about how dressed up she was. it sounds like she exaggerated a few things for dramatic effect. which i can understand, i imagine she's rattled. but the story sounds like it doesn't need that. seems pretty clear she said no, and he persisted and kept harassing her before she finally forced him out. you don't need to dress that story up for it to be sickening. and i think that is what people are reacting to and i think any lack of sympathy from men has to do with frustration. it is very difficult anymore to know what is appropriate anymore. clearly, no means no, period. but a girl you dont know well invites you over to watch a movie alone at her house on a snowy night, she wears a sexy outfit, and the OP and some women around here are acting like he's a sexist, rapist pig for thinking she might have been interested in fooling around a bit? girls get angry when we don't notice their sexy clothing, and get offended when we do. i think that is what's going on here. i think everyone is glad she's ok, but a few people are a bit off put by the exaggerations and evasions and the all-too-quick-to-assume any man who would get that impression from this story is a pig, which is as bad as the assumption that any woman wearing a short skirt wants some dick.
If someone buys a nice car and leaves the key in the ignition in a seedy part of town I would think it served him right for being an idiot, no sympathy. As to comparing this to someone saying "no", well, there is no comparison. Granted, the op may have made a poor choice, hopefully she won't put herself in that situation again, because there are some sick fucks out there. Assault is never the victims fault, PERIOD. Peace to all out there, and to inhiding79 saying SHE feels sorry for the guys with the way some girls dress sending out the wrong signal, get a fucking life, ok.
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
you need to be really sure that you know a person before inviting them in.
some men read everything as an invitiation for sex.
Apparently I'm the only one that read this above quote. Unless she wears high heels and a skirt to take out the trash, I'm guessing she was dressed comfortably. And even if she was dressed "provocatively" (whatever that even is) it still is never a reason. WTF is wrong with some of these fucks on here?!?!?
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"