Acquaintance Rape
Spunkie
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That fucking sucks.
Good thing you're ok & nuttin bad happened to you.
btw, what hit songs are you speaking of?
btw again, shall we break his arm?
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
Yeah! Get chadwick to break his arm!
sure it does.....this guy was apparently picking up some sort of signals from you. Sounds like you were being sort of a tease to get behavior like that out of him. I know it still doesn't make it right for him to keep it up after saying "no"...but I feel like you're not painting the whole picture....after all there are two sides to every story.
why would i want a woman who wouldnt want me?
granted i know a lot of women throw mixed signals but telling a guy to leave for 15 minutes is pretty damn obvious. i'm sorry that guys can be like that.
and "dressing like that" might make a guy come up to you and try, but when you shoot him down that really is the definitve thing.
but nice people sw****w
yeah fighting sucks ass.
the quote in my signature tells all about it.
so be it @ your gag order thingy.
you never showed your mom the check from the hit songs you help write?
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
And I have to agree... It does matter what you were wearing when you invited a guy over to be all alone with you. What signal did he get from you?
As for the music...Why not just tell.
Don't be a drama queen.
"it doesn't hurt when I bleed but the memories they eat me.. bring it on because I am no victim"
She said no, he kept at it @ different angles=well what about this or this.
The lady kept saying no, he kept @ it.
She asked him to go=holding the door open for 15 minutes.
He was/is a walking hard-on without any kinda class.
Fuck him, he's a looser who can't approach a lady very well.
And he's a beginning piece of shit.
The list goes on but I stop here, thank you.
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
What does that tell you about her taste in men?
What a nice comment to make. I'm sure that makes Tish feel better.
She should not/ any woman, her or whomever shouldn't invite a dude over to the house until she knows the dude a bit.
He is prolly some hot lookin fuckin dude who has the integrity of a steaming pile of crap. (now she knows this)
He probably can sweet talk some of the ladies a little bit, perhaps.
He's probably not the smartest guy walking, my guess.
edit: btw, your comment sucks ass.
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
I agree. And, even if her outfit showed cleavage (for example) does not mean she asked for it. When our coworkers come to work with boobs displayed, does that mean they want to be attacked? I think not. It's the style.
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
Be grateful you weren't raped and let this be a lesson. You've got to be careful!
(Not to sound like a dick but....) I can understand why this guy thought he might score based on what you've posted, not justifying his actions or approving of them, just saying.
And yeh, unfortunately I too have learned to be pretty careful... shouldn't have to be that way at all but luckily you didn't learn the REALLY hard way
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
I've experienced something similar from somebody I WORKED with and knew really well and had been out drinking quite a few times with. I was very very lucky that night and don't I know it... had to fight him off literally. Thankfully he was too off his face on all kinds of drugs to overpower me. It was a different story with the girl he brought home the following week though :( :mad: And I was in NO way asking for it and to even suggest otherwise, no matter how well meaning you put it, is just fucking ridiculous.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
No means NO! Doesn't matter where you are or what you are wearing. Guy is a jerk and doesn't know boundries or respect.
And to anyone who made nasty remarks - how would you have felt if this were your sister or mother. Shame on you. Just because someone comes over for movies doesn't mean he/she can hop into bed. Or should have any expectations.
I'm really sorry you had to experience that.
Albert Einstein (1879-1955)
I saw Hard To Imagine LIVE at MSG!
rule #1 - every heterosexual man you know will want to and/or think about sleeping with you
rule #2 - doesn't really matter how you're dressed, rule #1 applies
rule #3 - never forget rule #1
follow the 3 rules above and you can't go wrong. And ladies, remember every man is vulnerable in the same spot, no matter how big or tough a guy is. hit him in the balls and he will go down.
I agree with this - can't believe some of the comments. I guess the comments in this thread show why it's so difficult to convict people of rape and why women have such a hard time coming forward in cases.
It's called self-restraint. If a woman says "no," that's the end of the discussion. Period. No matter what she's wearing, no matter what she says, no means no. Any other response is a lack of self-restraint on the man's part.
If I were you, I'd be very careful about saying things like this. It is never the victim's fault.
kevinbeetle: "Yes. When her career washes up and her and Gavin move to Galveston, you will meet her at Hot Topic shopping for a Japanese cheerleader outfit.
Next!"
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Back on topic..
While the guy was obviously a horny douche, am I wrong in understanding that he didn't physically touch her?
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=265129&highlight=neighbor
Is it the same person you were talking about here?
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