Is this an invitation, because i'm there...and afterwards Fanch could fry up some meat for everyone..
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
i preface my post with this: i have not ready anything else in this thread except the first post. so my apologies if i am being redundant.
that said, to me it's a fairly simple thing. you need to clearly and calmly communicate to your wife that when you get home you need X amount of time to unwind. this is fair. if said in a non-accusatory way, saying that yes you do want to hear all about her day, share, talk, whatever...you just need say a half hour of unwind, 'me' time....and then will be ready and willing to discuss whatever she wants, that's more than fair. she may be a wee bit upset at first, but she will understand. we all have our own needs, and our schedules....and they don't always align perfectly.
while it is unspoken at this point, my husband and i do something quite similar. nowadays we commute home on the train together, and some days we both just plug in our ipods...other times we talk......and sometimes a mix of both. when at home, same deal...depends on our moods. however, if one or the other expresses a need for a little alone and/or quiet time, it's respected. i far rather say, or be told, i need time to myself, than be half-listened to or have an eh convo b/c one isn't in to it.
i also don't consider this problem 'nagging' at all...unless all the convos are about shit you need to do. and yes, many times women just like to vent, no solutions...just vent. other times sure, problem-solving is appreciated. personally, i don't think it's merely a female thing either, although we definitely tend to do it more. however, even recognizing that is a sign you are gaining understanding. sometimes just listening is the best thing.
If you had read the responses you would have been aware that the above is no longer considered on topic ..
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
I know.
Everytime I mention a bj, everyone just gets all crazy.
Hope you are well and the new missus isn't walking funny.
lol...and nah, she's been back to walking normal for at least a week now, but thanks for asking ..
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
EXACTLY! We're now discussing the more enjoyable topic of bj's. LOL!
Which consequently is what virtually every AET thread boils down to eventually..
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
And you tried to tell us you don't have relations every night! :eek:
If we had that particular type of relations every night, it wouldn't be a pretty sight ..it's reserved for special occasions and/or when she gets drunk enough ..
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
If we had that particular type of relations every night, it wouldn't be a pretty sight ..it's reserved for special occasions and/or when she gets drunk enough ..
NIIIIIIIIIIICE! And that's why they call you The Champ!
This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
NIIIIIIIIIIICE! And that's why they call you The Champ!
Lol, you'll make some guy very happy some day with that open attitude of yours ..
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
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Is this an invitation, because i'm there...and afterwards Fanch could fry up some meat for everyone..
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Everytime I mention a bj, everyone just gets all crazy.
Hope you are well and the new missus isn't walking funny.
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
what does that mean? big john?
HAHAHAHA. That made me LOL!
If you had read the responses you would have been aware that the above is no longer considered on topic
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
EXACTLY! We're now discussing the more enjoyable topic of bj's. LOL!
yea i didn't know there were so many MASH fans here
lol...and nah, she's been back to walking normal for at least a week now, but thanks for asking
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Dam, I thought we were discussing this show
Not enough bacon n bits to go around. Sorry. :(
Which consequently is what virtually every AET thread boils down to eventually..
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
you know i'm here to set you up
Yeah...pretty much. But, hey, at least it's better than all the bitching that goes on!
If we had that particular type of relations every night, it wouldn't be a pretty sight
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
NIIIIIIIIIIICE! And that's why they call you The Champ!
Damn!! Sorry Fanch, you out..
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Lol, you'll make some guy very happy some day with that open attitude of yours
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Thanks. I like to think so. Now...if I could just find 'him'.