Nagging Wife, Anyone?

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  • LizardjamLizardjam Posts: 1,121
    CityMouse wrote:
    she's very true. unlike the stereotype, most women don't spend all their time nagging. if they do it's their fault they're with someone they feel the need to nag. why wouldn't you just break up with someone if you're at the point of nagging?



    I'm on the no nagging bandwagon here but, for heaven's sake, eliminate the need! Get off your lazy ass and take care of what needs to be taken care of. I think women sometimes have an easier time of forcing themselves to get in gear and just get the mundane things done that have to be done than men. They'll procrastinate and ignore it. These are generalizations, I realize. I don't like being a nag, I hope I never am one. I procrastinate anything I possibly can but there's a difference when it's chores and boring crap like that....it needs to be done!
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  • TrixieCatTrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    Define 'nagging'..... I'm not sure I'd call asking for sympathy, support and a little empathy 'nagging.' That seems to be the case here.


    Asking him repeatedly to take the garbage out, wash the dishes or walk the dog..... thats nagging.... and maybe not unjustified :)
    Exactly.
    I love the word nag as much as i love the term bridezilla.
    Overused, cliche and f-ing ignorant.
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    I rarely nag...there's no point. It just breeds resentment and ill-feeling.

    There are lots of other ways to get your point across and get what needs to be done, done. Sort of a 'you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours' kind of attitude. That way everybody's happy.
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
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  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,689
    TrixieCat wrote:
    Exactly.
    I love the word nag as much as i love the term bridezilla.
    Overused, cliche and f-ing ignorant.
    What does 'bridezilla' mean?
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
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    quit nagging!
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    cutback wrote:
    quit nagging!

    Damn cutback, you beat me to it.
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  • CityMouseCityMouse Posts: 1,010
    Rygar wrote:
    What does 'bridezilla' mean?

    it's a woman who's having a wedding and goes nuts trying to make everything "perfect", treats everyone like dirt, and expects that she's entitled to everything.
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    cutback wrote:
    quit nagging!

    I was trying to find a clip of Everybody Loves Raymond to show how it's glorified on tv.
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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    I was trying to find a clip of Everybody Loves Raymond to show how it's glorified on tv.


    hehe....god i hate that show.....how a show filled with so much hate went on for so long....:rolleyes: :(
  • jamie ukjamie uk Posts: 3,812
    I was trying to find a clip of Everybody Loves Raymond to show how it's glorified on tv.


    Raymond is the funniest show on tv :D I guess nagging can be fun to watch.
    I came, I saw, I concurred.....
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    CityMouse wrote:
    it's a woman who's having a wedding and goes nuts trying to make everything "perfect", treats everyone like dirt, and expects that she's entitled to everything.

    Except I don't know what Godzilla ever did to get associated with those bitches. I still love you big G!
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  • jamie ukjamie uk Posts: 3,812
    cutback wrote:
    hehe....god i hate that show.....how a show filled with so much hate went on for so long....:rolleyes: :(


    what? where's the hate in the show ? :confused:
    I came, I saw, I concurred.....
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    cutback wrote:
    hehe....god i hate that show.....how a show filled with so much hate went on for so long....:rolleyes: :(

    There is nothing wrong with a little hate now and then but a sitcom providing no laughs is just criminal.
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  • PoncierPoncier Posts: 17,163
    I was trying to find a clip of Everybody Loves Raymond to show how it's glorified on tv.
    http://youtube.com/watch?v=e4zIAioLyT4
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  • CityMouseCityMouse Posts: 1,010
    I was trying to find a clip of Everybody Loves Raymond to show how it's glorified on tv.

    I don't think "glorified" is the word.
  • jamie ukjamie uk Posts: 3,812
    eyedclaar wrote:
    There is nothing wrong with a little hate now and then but a sitcom providing no laughs is just criminal.


    No laughs? Are you havin a laugh?
    It's hysterical :D
    I came, I saw, I concurred.....
  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,689
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Except I don't know what Godzilla ever did to get associated with those bitches. I still love you big G!
    Lolsters!
  • TrixieCatTrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    I *HATE* when wives nag their husbands...and I see it all the time. It's even glorified on tv (i.e. Raymond). Drives me insane....
    I think if you are in the shoes of the wife, you may see it differently.
    And it isn't like men don't nag for bj's or anything. :rolleyes:
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    Well, it seems to me that everything has been discussed in length, but I do have one suggestion. Perhaps next time try to stick it in her pooper as soon as you walk into the room. I mean, don't be annoying and/or too pushy about it, but take control of the situation and let your feelings/intentions be known.

    Chances are she'll leave you alone till you calm down (which is what you want), but there is also a chance that eventually she'll give in, which wouldn't be a bad alternative to nagging either. I don't know, I'm new to marriage so I'm trying to feel my way around as well..so best to you :)..
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    put on a slow, dumb show for you
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    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • LizardjamLizardjam Posts: 1,121
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think if you are in the shoes of the wife, you may see it differently.
    And it isn't like men don't nag for bj's or anything. :rolleyes:



    qft! (even though i'm still not exactly sure what that means)
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  • jamie ukjamie uk Posts: 3,812
    TrixieCat wrote:
    And it isn't like men don't nag for bj's or anything. :rolleyes:


    :eek: I'm a man, I never nagged for that in my life!
    :p
    I came, I saw, I concurred.....
  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    TrixieCat wrote:
    And it isn't like men don't nag for bj's or anything. :rolleyes:

    This is very true..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    TrixieCat wrote:
    And it isn't like men don't nag for bj's or anything. :rolleyes:


    They do???




    :p
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  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think if you are in the shoes of the wife, you may see it differently.
    And it isn't like men don't nag for bj's or anything. :rolleyes:

    Real men don't nag. Hell, they don't even ask, all they do is point!

    hehehe
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  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Real men don't nag. Hell, they don't even ask, all they do is point!

    hehehe

    Maybe if you are married to a porn star..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • CityMouseCityMouse Posts: 1,010
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think if you are in the shoes of the wife, you may see it differently.
    And it isn't like men don't nag for bj's or anything. :rolleyes:

    the don't nag when it comes to that, they just guilt-trip.
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    CityMouse wrote:
    the don't nag when it comes to that, they just guilt-trip.
    Why do they need to do that? It's a genuine question.... It's never happened to me....
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  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,314
    TrixieCat wrote:
    And it isn't like men don't nag for bj's or anything. :rolleyes:
    OH NO YOU DIDNT!
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Shouldn't a wife WANT to give her hubby a bj?? I don't know...I admit I'm old-fashioned but shouldn't you WANT to make your hubby happy, to please him in the bedroom?...and he WANT to please you too, of course??
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