Nagging Wife, Anyone?

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  • fanch75
    fanch75 Posts: 3,734
    saveuplife wrote:
    I think for the most part you are right. I hope she will agree.

    "Women don't mean talk = talk. Women mean listen = listen.

    You say:

    "No way!"

    "I don't believe it!"

    "Get out of here!"

    "I tell ya, that bitch crazy!"

    "When you're listening to your woman, every once in a while you gotta throw in, 'I tell ya, that bitch crazy!' Everyone woman has another woman in her life that she can't stand. It's like some Dynasty shit all up in here!"

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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    he didnt say new tattoo


    ;)

    My new tattooist looks kind of like Jessica Alba.. with tattoos. :cool:
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  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    saveuplife wrote:
    We don't have kids. She works and I work.

    I prefer to relax for about 1 hour before cooking. She likes to rush into it. We split the job of housework including cooking.

    I prefer to relax for about an hour when I get home, that's all. That was why I made the comment about beer ect.

    I do give a F about what she is saying, dude. You don't know me, so chill. I love my wife and I'm trying to figure things out in an anonomous manner. That's why I posted this.

    But, anyway, you're probably right; I should just listen. My point is, how am I different from a wall if I just listen and offer nothing back in the form of communication? Isn't communication a two-way street? So, when I'm presented with a problem from someone I love, should I not try to help her solve it?
    Have you tried to tell her that you need/want time to decompress when you get home after work?
    Even if she is not into the idea, part of her needs to respect it.
    You need to come to a compromise or else you are going to end up completely resenting each other and going your seperate ways.
    Talk to her and if she resists, try for a half hour of decompression time.
    Instead of a beer, why don't you go running? That helps to wind down much better than parking yourself in front of the tv with a beer.
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    I *HATE* when wives nag their husbands...and I see it all the time. It's even glorified on tv (i.e. Raymond). Drives me insane....
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    AmentsChick wrote:
    I *HATE* when wives nag their husbands...and I see it all the time. It's even glorified on tv (i.e. Raymond). Drives me insane....
    Define 'nagging'..... I'm not sure I'd call asking for sympathy, support and a little empathy 'nagging.' That seems to be the case here.


    Asking him repeatedly to take the garbage out, wash the dishes or walk the dog..... thats nagging.... and maybe not unjustified :)
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  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,167
    TrixieCat wrote:
    Have you tried to tell her that you need/want time to decompress when you get home after work?
    Even if she is not into the idea, part of her needs to respect it.
    You need to come to a compromise or else you are going to end up completely resenting each other and going your seperate ways.
    Talk to her and if she resists, try for a half hour of decompression time.
    Instead of a beer, why don't you go running? That helps to wind down much better than parking yourself in front of the tv with a beer.

    run then beer is my presciption
  • Poncier
    Poncier Posts: 17,925
    AmentsChick wrote:
    I *HATE* when wives nag their husbands...and I see it all the time. It's even glorified on tv (i.e. Raymond). Drives me insane....
    You're just too good to be true.
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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Poncier wrote:
    You're just too good to be true.

    Can't take my eyes off you.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    Poncier wrote:
    You're just too good to be true.

    she's very true. unlike the stereotype, most women don't spend all their time nagging. if they do it's their fault they're with someone they feel the need to nag. why wouldn't you just break up with someone if you're at the point of nagging?
  • Poncier
    Poncier Posts: 17,925
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Can't take my eyes off you.
    I fully anticpated this response...well played.
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  • Lizardjam
    Lizardjam Posts: 1,121
    CityMouse wrote:
    she's very true. unlike the stereotype, most women don't spend all their time nagging. if they do it's their fault they're with someone they feel the need to nag. why wouldn't you just break up with someone if you're at the point of nagging?



    I'm on the no nagging bandwagon here but, for heaven's sake, eliminate the need! Get off your lazy ass and take care of what needs to be taken care of. I think women sometimes have an easier time of forcing themselves to get in gear and just get the mundane things done that have to be done than men. They'll procrastinate and ignore it. These are generalizations, I realize. I don't like being a nag, I hope I never am one. I procrastinate anything I possibly can but there's a difference when it's chores and boring crap like that....it needs to be done!
    bugs in the way...I feel about you

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  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Define 'nagging'..... I'm not sure I'd call asking for sympathy, support and a little empathy 'nagging.' That seems to be the case here.


    Asking him repeatedly to take the garbage out, wash the dishes or walk the dog..... thats nagging.... and maybe not unjustified :)
    Exactly.
    I love the word nag as much as i love the term bridezilla.
    Overused, cliche and f-ing ignorant.
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    I rarely nag...there's no point. It just breeds resentment and ill-feeling.

    There are lots of other ways to get your point across and get what needs to be done, done. Sort of a 'you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours' kind of attitude. That way everybody's happy.
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    edit
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  • Rygar
    Rygar Posts: 8,711
    TrixieCat wrote:
    Exactly.
    I love the word nag as much as i love the term bridezilla.
    Overused, cliche and f-ing ignorant.
    What does 'bridezilla' mean?
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    AmentsChick wrote:
    edit

    quit nagging!
  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    cutback wrote:
    quit nagging!

    Damn cutback, you beat me to it.
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  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    Rygar wrote:
    What does 'bridezilla' mean?

    it's a woman who's having a wedding and goes nuts trying to make everything "perfect", treats everyone like dirt, and expects that she's entitled to everything.
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    cutback wrote:
    quit nagging!

    I was trying to find a clip of Everybody Loves Raymond to show how it's glorified on tv.
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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    AmentsChick wrote:
    I was trying to find a clip of Everybody Loves Raymond to show how it's glorified on tv.


    hehe....god i hate that show.....how a show filled with so much hate went on for so long....:rolleyes: :(

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