Shouldn't a wife WANT to give her hubby a bj?? I don't know...I admit I'm old-fashioned but shouldn't you WANT to make your hubby, to please him in the bedroom?...and he WANT to please you too, of course??
Shouldn't a wife WANT to give her hubby a bj?? I don't know...I admit I'm old-fashioned but shouldn't you WANT to make your hubby, to please him in the bedroom?...and he WANT to please you too, of course??
How are you still single again? Yes, I certainly don't have to beg, nag, bribe, or guilt trip my wife into anything sexually. She's what I would call an eager beaver... so to speak. And the feeling is mutual.
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Shouldn't a wife WANT to give her hubby a bj?? I don't know...I admit I'm old-fashioned but shouldn't you WANT to make your hubby, to please him in the bedroom?...and he WANT to please you too, of course??
Shouldn't a wife WANT to give her hubby a bj?? I don't know...I admit I'm old-fashioned but shouldn't you WANT to make your hubby happy, to please him in the bedroom?...and he WANT to please you too, of course??
well yeah...but I would want to make him THAT way ALL the time. it's uncomfortable...and sometimes...icky.
How are you still single again? Yes, I certainly don't have to beg, nag, bribe, or guilt trip my wife into anything sexually. She's what I would call an eager beaver... so to speak. And the feeling is mutual.
Now that's an exemplary marital intimateness. Go you!!!
And...I wish I knew why I was single.
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Shouldn't a wife WANT to give her hubby a bj?? I don't know...I admit I'm old-fashioned but shouldn't you WANT to make your hubby happy, to please him in the bedroom?...and he WANT to please you too, of course??
lol, of course, but in the real world it doesn't work exactly that way....every night..
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Right, but guys do want it EVERY night..see where the problem is?
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Well, it seems to me that everything has been discussed in length, but I do have one suggestion. Perhaps next time try to stick it in her pooper as soon as you walk into the room. I mean, don't be annoying and/or too pushy about it, but take control of the situation and let your feelings/intentions be known.
Chances are she'll leave you alone till you calm down (which is what you want), but there is also a chance that eventually she'll give in, which wouldn't be a bad alternative to nagging either. I don't know, I'm new to marriage so I'm trying to feel my way around as well..so best to you ..
Saveup, glad you worked things out with your wife for the time being, but next time I still suggest to try the above for shits and giggles...win-win for everyone ..
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Saveup, glad you worked things out with your wife for the time being, but next time I still suggest to try the above for shits and giggles...win-win for everyone ..
Thats not always a problem. Give and take....y'see?
Of course, but generally speaking ..
'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
i preface my post with this: i have not ready anything else in this thread except the first post. so my apologies if i am being redundant.
that said, to me it's a fairly simple thing. you need to clearly and calmly communicate to your wife that when you get home you need X amount of time to unwind. this is fair. if said in a non-accusatory way, saying that yes you do want to hear all about her day, share, talk, whatever...you just need say a half hour of unwind, 'me' time....and then will be ready and willing to discuss whatever she wants, that's more than fair. she may be a wee bit upset at first, but she will understand. we all have our own needs, and our schedules....and they don't always align perfectly.
while it is unspoken at this point, my husband and i do something quite similar. nowadays we commute home on the train together, and some days we both just plug in our ipods...other times we talk......and sometimes a mix of both. when at home, same deal...depends on our moods. however, if one or the other expresses a need for a little alone and/or quiet time, it's respected. i far rather say, or be told, i need time to myself, than be half-listened to or have an eh convo b/c one isn't in to it.
i also don't consider this problem 'nagging' at all...unless all the convos are about shit you need to do. and yes, many times women just like to vent, no solutions...just vent. other times sure, problem-solving is appreciated. personally, i don't think it's merely a female thing either, although we definitely tend to do it more. however, even recognizing that is a sign you are gaining understanding. sometimes just listening is the best thing.
At least one person understands what I was saying.
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'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
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well yeah...but I would want to make him THAT way ALL the time. it's uncomfortable...and sometimes...icky.
Now that's an exemplary marital intimateness. Go you!!!
And...I wish I knew why I was single.
HAHAHA. I didn't even catch that! NICE ONE, eye!!
Icky?????? LOL! I don't think it's icky at all...I think it's awesome. And it's not icky for the guy to ... um... reciprocate?!
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Wembley 18/06/07
If there was a reason, it was you.
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lol, of course, but in the real world it doesn't work exactly that way....every night..
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
I didn't say anything about EVERY night.
I spoke with my wife. I apologized. She apologized. All is good. Thank you.
So here's my public service announcement...
Don't say your wife is a nag.
And now I know...
and (of course) knowing is half the battle.
Go Joe.
Right, but guys do want it EVERY night..see where the problem is?
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
And women don't?? But still...as you said, life gets in the way....especially when there's a house full of kids.
Wembley 18/06/07
If there was a reason, it was you.
O2 Arena 18/09/09
Of course.
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And I don't feel right when you're gone away
Saveup, glad you worked things out with your wife for the time being, but next time I still suggest to try the above for shits and giggles...win-win for everyone
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
right it's the every night thing.
shits and giggles, indeed.
Of course, but generally speaking
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
that said, to me it's a fairly simple thing. you need to clearly and calmly communicate to your wife that when you get home you need X amount of time to unwind. this is fair. if said in a non-accusatory way, saying that yes you do want to hear all about her day, share, talk, whatever...you just need say a half hour of unwind, 'me' time....and then will be ready and willing to discuss whatever she wants, that's more than fair. she may be a wee bit upset at first, but she will understand. we all have our own needs, and our schedules....and they don't always align perfectly.
while it is unspoken at this point, my husband and i do something quite similar. nowadays we commute home on the train together, and some days we both just plug in our ipods...other times we talk......and sometimes a mix of both. when at home, same deal...depends on our moods. however, if one or the other expresses a need for a little alone and/or quiet time, it's respected. i far rather say, or be told, i need time to myself, than be half-listened to or have an eh convo b/c one isn't in to it.
i also don't consider this problem 'nagging' at all...unless all the convos are about shit you need to do.
Let's just breathe...
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What a mess this thread is
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'