And mine.. but I refuse to change.. there's too many fuckheads being idiots to their women... I won't do it.
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
Like I said.. it's not my thing.. I get dumped because I'm 'nice' but it's just who I am....
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
Like I said.. it's not my thing.. I get dumped because I'm 'nice' but it's just who I am....
And the question is, is there really anything wrong with that? Since when is being nice such a bad thing, it just kinda pisses me off you know that you or me could actually get dumped becos of that.
And the question is, is there really anything wrong with that? Since when is being nice such a bad thing, it just kinda pisses me off you know that you or me could actually get dumped becos of that.
I honestly don't know..... I'll find out.... are you female? If I'm 95 and still single because I'm 'nice', will you marry me?
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
The truth is...I want a "nice guy". I won't have it any other way.
If only that were true more often....
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
I'm beginning to wonder if there are actually any single "nice guys" left!! The more I date, the less prosperous things seem.
Single nice guy right here..... pleased to meet you.
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
Do we have to go over this again, Mr. Vunerable...?? BLOODY ELL!!!!!!
Get over what? I don't need to get over anything......... :cool:
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
I honestly don't know..... I'll find out.... are you female? If I'm 95 and still single because I'm 'nice', will you marry me?
No, I'm male, and I just got dumped 2 days ago, probably because of being "too nice." It was a bad relationship though, she just wanted another guy to add to her list for friday night.
No, I'm male, and I just got dumped 2 days ago, probably because of being "too nice." It was a bad relationship though, she just wanted another guy to add to her list for friday night.
Yeah I know that feeling....... the ones who want to just have another feather in their cap don't go for guys like us... they're not worth it.
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
Those damn Yanks! They probably call it "macaroni", too!
Hahahahaha
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
I added you to my friends on myspace. Accept me damnit.
Done!
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
And the question is, is there really anything wrong with that? Since when is being nice such a bad thing, it just kinda pisses me off you know that you or me could actually get dumped becos of that.
it's bad becos 1) nice all too often is a polite way of saying "insecure needy pushover" and 2) the fact is that nice people in general are taken for granted, guys and girls, in love or business or school or whatever else. you know they will forgive you for things and give you second or third chances, so you can afford to step on them now and again for your own benefit becos you know you can probably get away with it most of the time. it's why assholes are always in management and always getting laid. becos they're stab you in the back to get ahead at the business (squeaky wheel thing) and they'll go for what they want without the risky and time-consuming polite path. it's the way of the world. hell, im doing it to a girl right now. she's perfectly sweet and kind and whatnot, but she doesn't exactly fire my engines or get the passions a-roaring. so im pondering leaving to see what else i can find out there, becos nice just isn't enough i'm afraid. i know a lot of nice people. doesn't mean i want to spend my life with them or love them as a soulmate.
it's bad becos 1) nice all too often is a polite way of saying "insecure needy pushover" and 2) the fact is that nice people in general are taken for granted, guys and girls, in love or business or school or whatever else. you know they will forgive you for things and give you second or third chances, so you can afford to step on them now and again for your own benefit becos you know you can probably get away with it most of the time. it's why assholes are always in management and always getting laid. becos they're stab you in the back to get ahead at the business (squeaky wheel thing) and they'll go for what they want without the risky and time-consuming polite path. it's the way of the world. hell, im doing it to a girl right now. she's perfectly sweet and kind and whatnot, but she doesn't exactly fire my engines or get the passions a-roaring. so im pondering leaving to see what else i can find out there, becos nice just isn't enough i'm afraid. i know a lot of nice people. doesn't mean i want to spend my life with them or love them as a soulmate.
OMG! Ain't that the truth. I've never seen it spelled out like that. As much as it sucks...it's true.
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it's bad becos 1) nice all too often is a polite way of saying "insecure needy pushover" and 2) the fact is that nice people in general are taken for granted, guys and girls, in love or business or school or whatever else. you know they will forgive you for things and give you second or third chances, so you can afford to step on them now and again for your own benefit becos you know you can probably get away with it most of the time. it's why assholes are always in management and always getting laid. becos they're stab you in the back to get ahead at the business (squeaky wheel thing) and they'll go for what they want without the risky and time-consuming polite path. it's the way of the world. hell, im doing it to a girl right now. she's perfectly sweet and kind and whatnot, but she doesn't exactly fire my engines or get the passions a-roaring. so im pondering leaving to see what else i can find out there, becos nice just isn't enough i'm afraid. i know a lot of nice people. doesn't mean i want to spend my life with them or love them as a soulmate.
It's life and it's a result of human nature, but I've found a loophole to it, but as a result I tend to be very guarded in certain situations and a lot less trusting.
it's bad becos 1) nice all too often is a polite way of saying "insecure needy pushover" and 2) the fact is that nice people in general are taken for granted, guys and girls, in love or business or school or whatever else. you know they will forgive you for things and give you second or third chances, so you can afford to step on them now and again for your own benefit becos you know you can probably get away with it most of the time. it's why assholes are always in management and always getting laid. becos they're stab you in the back to get ahead at the business (squeaky wheel thing) and they'll go for what they want without the risky and time-consuming polite path. it's the way of the world. hell, im doing it to a girl right now. she's perfectly sweet and kind and whatnot, but she doesn't exactly fire my engines or get the passions a-roaring. so im pondering leaving to see what else i can find out there, becos nice just isn't enough i'm afraid. i know a lot of nice people. doesn't mean i want to spend my life with them or love them as a soulmate.
Yup, plus if it's not hard to get it's not really that exciting, it's a natural thing that both men and women tend to go for the almost "impossible" one, either cause they don't really pay attention to them, or because they're taken, or they live in another country... There's always that need for a challenge. And when you do get what you've been fighting for it's just priceless!.
I know I'm like that, I've never really set eyes on someone that I knew I could immediatly get. It's either my brother's best friend or the guy that's here for just 3 months, or the one who's taken, and so on.
Of course MANY times I've realized that the only reason I was after them was because they were a challenge, but some other times I just fell for them. Like right fuckin' now!... sorry got carried away.
"The joke in your language won't come out the same" (Tom Petty)
I'm no dude! Dudette!
Yup, plus if it's not hard to get it's not really that exciting, it's a natural thing that both men and women tend to go for the almost "impossible" one, either cause they don't really pay attention to them, or because they're taken, or they live in another country... There's always that need for a challenge. And when you do get what you've been fighting for it's just priceless!.
I know I'm like that, I've never really set eyes on someone that I knew I could immediatly get. It's either my brother's best friend or the guy that's here for just 3 months, or the one who's taken, and so on.
Of course MANY times I've realized that the only reason I was after them was because they were a challenge, but some other times I just fell for them. Like right fuckin' now!... sorry got carried away.
Ya, it's true and the only loophole to it is to be VERY careful that the person that you're after isn't a hmm how do I put this nicely...well I can't. Make absolutely sure that you're not goin after a total whore. It's kinda hard to tell sometimes, though, as I learned a few days ago.
it's bad becos 1) nice all too often is a polite way of saying "insecure needy pushover" and 2) the fact is that nice people in general are taken for granted, guys and girls, in love or business or school or whatever else. you know they will forgive you for things and give you second or third chances, so you can afford to step on them now and again for your own benefit becos you know you can probably get away with it most of the time. it's why assholes are always in management and always getting laid. becos they're stab you in the back to get ahead at the business (squeaky wheel thing) and they'll go for what they want without the risky and time-consuming polite path. it's the way of the world. hell, im doing it to a girl right now. she's perfectly sweet and kind and whatnot, but she doesn't exactly fire my engines or get the passions a-roaring. so im pondering leaving to see what else i can find out there, becos nice just isn't enough i'm afraid. i know a lot of nice people. doesn't mean i want to spend my life with them or love them as a soulmate.
please do yourself and all of us a favour conor and go find a woman who truly lights your fire. maybe then you'lll stop bitching to us about 'chicks'.
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take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
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Ya, it's true and the only loophole to it is to be VERY careful that the person that you're after isn't a hmm how do I put this nicely...well I can't. Make absolutely sure that you're not goin after a total whore. It's kinda hard to tell sometimes, though, as I learned a few days ago.
I've had guys think that's what I was just because I wouldn't let go the flirting phase that easily, but what guys don't know sometimes is that the reason we do play hard to get is not just fun (though it does get enjoyable) but that unavoidable fear of them being just after sex.
I'm known for having too much pride, I've been raised by a really strong woman who's always played the role of mom and dad (my dad is AMAZING, and a great father, but they got divorced and we lived with her). So not only I have this HUGE independance, but I tend to show everyone how I'm perfectly fine by myself and I don't need help for things most of the time. This has been both good and bad for my relationships. (more bad than good though).
So even if I really like a guy, I'm not gonna let them through unless I've fallen for them, and that sadly gets them to the point where they think I'm just not interested and I'm playing with them. Wich I'm NOT.
Anyway... it's a dirty game, someone said that already, and most of the times it doesn't work because we can't stop seeing it as a game.
But I believe when it has to, it will work. that's it.
Now wish me luck! Cause I'm in the finals here.
"The joke in your language won't come out the same" (Tom Petty)
I'm no dude! Dudette!
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and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
over specific principles, goals, and policies.
how do you figure that? then once i DO tell her i like her what then? you think she'll say, "oh thank you thank you... i like you too"?
well you don't say it like that...when she mentions this guy, you say, well he's nuts, any man should be lining up to be with you (or whatever) or like "I'd kill to meet a girl like you" (or whatever) you know what I mean? Like you drop a signal like that. at least to start and then you've planted the seed...
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And mine.. but I refuse to change.. there's too many fuckheads being idiots to their women... I won't do it.
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
Yup...and I've dated their leader.
Like I said.. it's not my thing.. I get dumped because I'm 'nice' but it's just who I am....
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
And the question is, is there really anything wrong with that? Since when is being nice such a bad thing, it just kinda pisses me off you know that you or me could actually get dumped becos of that.
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The truth is...I want a "nice guy". I won't have it any other way.
I honestly don't know..... I'll find out.... are you female? If I'm 95 and still single because I'm 'nice', will you marry me?
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
If only that were true more often....
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
I'm beginning to wonder if there are actually any single "nice guys" left!! The more I date, the less prosperous things seem.
Single nice guy right here..... pleased to meet you.
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
Do we have to go over this again, Mr. Vunerable...??
Get over what? I don't need to get over anything......... :cool:
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No, I'm male, and I just got dumped 2 days ago, probably because of being "too nice." It was a bad relationship though, she just wanted another guy to add to her list for friday night.
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LOL! So you say...
Yeah I know that feeling....... the ones who want to just have another feather in their cap don't go for guys like us... they're not worth it.
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Those damn Yanks! They probably call it "macaroni", too!
Truer words have never been said.
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LOL.
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Hahahahaha
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I added you to my friends on myspace. Accept me damnit.
Done!
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it's bad becos 1) nice all too often is a polite way of saying "insecure needy pushover" and 2) the fact is that nice people in general are taken for granted, guys and girls, in love or business or school or whatever else. you know they will forgive you for things and give you second or third chances, so you can afford to step on them now and again for your own benefit becos you know you can probably get away with it most of the time. it's why assholes are always in management and always getting laid. becos they're stab you in the back to get ahead at the business (squeaky wheel thing) and they'll go for what they want without the risky and time-consuming polite path. it's the way of the world. hell, im doing it to a girl right now. she's perfectly sweet and kind and whatnot, but she doesn't exactly fire my engines or get the passions a-roaring. so im pondering leaving to see what else i can find out there, becos nice just isn't enough i'm afraid. i know a lot of nice people. doesn't mean i want to spend my life with them or love them as a soulmate.
OMG! Ain't that the truth. I've never seen it spelled out like that. As much as it sucks...it's true.
It's life and it's a result of human nature, but I've found a loophole to it, but as a result I tend to be very guarded in certain situations and a lot less trusting.
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I know I'm like that, I've never really set eyes on someone that I knew I could immediatly get. It's either my brother's best friend or the guy that's here for just 3 months, or the one who's taken, and so on.
Of course MANY times I've realized that the only reason I was after them was because they were a challenge, but some other times I just fell for them. Like right fuckin' now!... sorry got carried away.
I'm no dude! Dudette!
Ya, it's true and the only loophole to it is to be VERY careful that the person that you're after isn't a hmm how do I put this nicely...well I can't. Make absolutely sure that you're not goin after a total whore. It's kinda hard to tell sometimes, though, as I learned a few days ago.
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please do yourself and all of us a favour conor and go find a woman who truly lights your fire. maybe then you'lll stop bitching to us about 'chicks'.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
I'm known for having too much pride, I've been raised by a really strong woman who's always played the role of mom and dad (my dad is AMAZING, and a great father, but they got divorced and we lived with her). So not only I have this HUGE independance, but I tend to show everyone how I'm perfectly fine by myself and I don't need help for things most of the time. This has been both good and bad for my relationships. (more bad than good though).
So even if I really like a guy, I'm not gonna let them through unless I've fallen for them, and that sadly gets them to the point where they think I'm just not interested and I'm playing with them. Wich I'm NOT.
Anyway... it's a dirty game, someone said that already, and most of the times it doesn't work because we can't stop seeing it as a game.
But I believe when it has to, it will work. that's it.
Now wish me luck! Cause I'm in the finals here.
I'm no dude! Dudette!
lol...
and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
over specific principles, goals, and policies.
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well you don't say it like that...when she mentions this guy, you say, well he's nuts, any man should be lining up to be with you (or whatever) or like "I'd kill to meet a girl like you" (or whatever) you know what I mean? Like you drop a signal like that. at least to start and then you've planted the seed...