how many partners have you had?

MattCameronKicksButt

soulsinging wrote:

do you really hang out with guys that brag about it while trying to get you in bed? in my xp, the guys saying stuff like that say it becos 1) they're a virgin or 2) they want to fuck you and hope if they act all respectful and sensitive you'll give it up.

I'm just thinking of stuff I used to overhear at work.

Maybe not even overhear, guys just talk around me! So, probably the complete opposite of your theory.

Thanks! Boohoo

Drowned Out

chadwick wrote:

do i dare ask what a red flashing 2 means?

yes i do.

what does that mean?

I was joking that you’re the guy that sits and says how he doesn’t talk about his “number” because he’s above that, making himself sound like some kind of ladies man, while the people that know him well are thinking, “the only time he’s had sex was that time his neighbour was drunk…”
I should have gone the “does that line work for you?” route…as ss pointed out…apparently it does twas a lame joke, was just giving you a hard time man…

The number is such a stupid thing to talk about, it just causes all kinds of judgements….I have to ask….what is the magic number? You know…the one that, once surpassed, makes you a slut (or for guys – a stud )?

MattCameronKicksButt

Drowned Out wrote:

I was joking that you’re the guy that sits and says how he doesn’t talk about his “number” because he’s above that, making himself sound like some kind of ladies man, while the people that know him well are thinking, “the only time he’s had sex was that time his neighbour was drunk…”
I should have gone the “does that line work for you?” route…as ss pointed out…apparently it does twas a lame joke, was just giving you a hard time man…

Look, I've been with my partner for seven years and he still won't tell me. I genuinely do think that some guys won't kiss and tell.

Besides, it makes no difference here. It's the internet. You could say anything and no one would be any the wiser.

Drowned Out

MattCameronKicksButt wrote:

Look, I've been with my partner for seven years and he still won't tell me. I genuinely do think that some guys won't kiss and tell.

Besides, it makes no difference here. It's the internet. You could say anything and no one would be any the wiser.

well ya...which is why it's silly for you to bite and tell him you like how he was raised....that could be the line he uses in mixed company...then he goes and tells his buddies about how it worked again. it's all in fun.

I've found that people aren't usually comfortable with anyone kissing and telling. Unless someone asks, it shows insecurity to run around telling people you got laid.

MattCameronKicksButt

Drowned Out wrote:

well ya...which is why it's silly for you to bite and tell him you like how he was raised....that could be the line he uses in mixed company...then he goes and tells his buddies about how it worked again. it's all in fun.

True. Obviously I'm naive and I like people.

Grrrr. (Shakes fist at Chadwick).

inmyrvm

dunkman wrote:

29

do blow up dolls and gently microwaved packages of liver count? if so its 31

this reminds me of a story of someone i know. they put chipped ham in the microwave and stuffed it into a teddy bear. you can guess what happened next.........

chadwick

MattCameronKicksButt wrote:

True. Obviously I'm naive and I like people.

Grrrr. (Shakes fist at Chadwick).

easy tiger, easy does it
calm yourself you fist shaker
haha

chadwick

MattCameronKicksButt wrote:

I like the way you were raised! You're right, women DO have more respect for guys that don't brag.

thank ya thank ya
yeah my folks kick ass
which in turns means i kick ass

The Severed Hand

I only count the women who actually got off. So far it hasn't been a problem but a couple one night stands definitely shot down my ego. Women seem to come to me when it comes to sex. I definitely seek a relationship and romance before going all the way. Sex has definitely enriched my life and added that bittersweet feeling. The number of people will always increase with time and relationships are trial and error. I would say a common error is having sex too soon in the relationship. Someday you find that perfect "fit".

MattCameronKicksButt

chadwick wrote:

easy tiger, easy does it
calm yourself you fist shaker
haha

You should be scared! I'll give you the frowning of a lifetime!

SPEEDY MCCREADY

between 75-100..............

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SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

between 75-100..............

I'm glad I'm not the only one who can't count them on two hands...

Danimal

170 - 158 = 12.....12

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Danimal wrote:

170 - 158 = 12.....12

like I said, you can't coun't them with your two hands

iamsampj

i'm quite secretive about this...my friends can only pull it out of me that anything has even happened when i've been drinking.

i feel as though it's only my business...and rather not have anyone judge me. i've seen how my friends judge others who have had above normal partners (around 50)...not that i'm anywhere near that...but it's still my business. i prefer to be mysterious

but that was all in college mostly...and just having way too much fun!! now, i'd rather it be about a relationship. if anyone's available....;)

so, to actually answer...first time ever...less than 20. good times. no regrets. i contradict myself...i know!!

vedderfan10

One...does that make me lame? Just my husband...not planned, it just happened tht way...there was opportunity enough, but I don't know... that's just the way it ended up working out...and I had a male roommate at the time.

When I was working in the music biz, word got out that I was "pure as the driven snow" and ugh...way too much attention... But I knew that I would have NOT been taken seriously if I started sleeping with everyone...then I met my husband (who didn't work in the music biz)...

Yeah..OK...I'm lame...

chadwick

iamsampj wrote:

i'm quite secretive about this...my friends can only pull it out of me that anything has even happened when i've been drinking.

i feel as though it's only my business...and rather not have anyone judge me. i've seen how my friends judge others who have had above normal partners (around 50)...not that i'm anywhere near that...but it's still my business. i prefer to be mysterious

but that was all in college mostly...and just having way too much fun!! now, i'd rather it be about a relationship. if anyone's available....;)

so, to actually answer...first time ever...less than 20. good times. no regrets. i contradict myself...i know!!

well done grasshopper.
i knew i wasn't the only one out there.

lisam

Fucked 5 and given a few random blow jobs & hand jobs


Why be ashamed to say how many partners? .. if people judge you, then tell them to go fuck themselves and add one more to their list

chadwick

lisam wrote:

Fucked 5 and given a few random blow jobs & hand jobs


Why be ashamed to say how many partners? .. if people judge you, then tell them to go fuck themselves and add one more to their list

Well for me, I do not care who judges me, let em, I do not care.

The entire reasoning behind being hush hush about who, where, when, and what is the number of ladies is just simple respect.

That's all, it's no big flippin deal.

QuarterToTen

more than 10, less than 100.