how many partners have you had?

mookie blaylock 10

small town beck wrote:

Very well said, mookie

thanks, stb. i think jeanie had a nice post back there as well.

i hope all is well in your new locale.

iamsampj

soulsinging wrote:

you shouldn't feel bad about that... every girl goes through a girls gone wild phase in college.

yeah...as girls gone wild as I can get...minus the cameras and public nudity I just got a bit rebellious after my ex fiance broke up with me!
a couple of my close friends were virgins all through college...so I felt weird talking to them about it.

but, whatever, it is what it is.

soulsinging

MahoganySouls wrote:

I think it is a shame that as a woman with higher morals, you consider yourself lame. Take pride in yourself. You set a better standard than many.

so those who only have sex with one person have higher morals than the rest of us slutty pagans?

pearljamjen

jojo wrote:

so it's Saturday morning who's count just went up by one

mmm...haha!

Had a VERY fun date last night!

anotherclone

slutty pagan checking in for duty, and damn proud of it.

I know its easily more than 100. I did most of my whoring about in the mid 1980's. I'm now happily married.

This should be a poll.

gue_barium

MahoganySouls wrote:

Very good! Keep it that way. You will be happier for it later when you are older.

MILF's are the best.

g under p

gue_barium wrote:

MILF's are the best.

Alright, what's MILF????

Peace

gue_barium

g under p wrote:

Alright, what's MILF????

Peace

Mother is the first word.

Fuck is the last.

Think the attractive neighbor lady who asks you in for lemonade on a hot summer day.

acoustic guy

I made a list one time and I ended up around thirty something....
Between 32 and 36.
I always was safe ...almost always. lol.
Honest answer.
The best.....no no....craziest time of my life was from 1994 to 1998.

Man, where is Doc with the Delorean and the flux capasitor when you need him?

acoustic guy

g under p wrote:

Alright, what's MILF????

Peace

You are joking right?
Right?

reeferchief

justjoshingu wrote:

i dont consider myself a prude, but i am about the complete opposite of a player.

but i was talking with a friend and realized i've had a few partners and so my STD risk was increased. granted i'm clean and i've been in a 1 and 1 relationship for a while. but still

i've had 3 partners where we went all the way and an additional 2 just fooling around. (well, stuff that clinton doesnt consider sex)

thats 5 people, who if they had five and they had five etc....

am i in the normal range? high? low?

no judgement here i really am just kinda curious.

Think I have felt love and consumated that love with 2 people, had sex and fucked with many when I was younger probs in the lower triple figures but hey ho.

wavescamecrashing

i try not to dwell on the past.

i didnt count as i went along and my head hurts to count up people now but its more than ten and less than fifty, around there.

as far as im concerned, the person i am with now is the one i will be with forever and that is what matters. we know about each other's pasts but it doesnt register because what we have together is better than any of that in every way, so neither of us feel like we have something to live up to, etc. and i got checked out to make him feel safe and was fine..minor.

Boom The Cat

g under p wrote:

Alright, what's MILF????

Peace

Mother I'd Like To Fuck

Jeanie

So just curious, after reading through, what did we establish by talking numbers?

Pretty much what I predicted. Some people can't handle other people's numbers.

They attach some bias or judgement to it. A bit like post counts.

We go through life, some people have sex, some people do not. Some people have a lot of sex with one partner or multiple partners, some people do not.

For the purposes of knowing someone, being friends or even lovers, what is the relevance?

I have friends and family who have slept with no one, one person or a great number of people. In terms of me loving them and appreciating who they are as individuals the number of sexual partners they have had bears absolutely no relevance at all. Just as it bears no relevance to people loving and caring about me, how many partners I have had.

If you've had no partners, one partner or so many you can't remember, it would have absolutely no impact on me in terms of being friends. There are so many other things that I think are far more important.

And before anybody flies on in and says that a person with many partners is more likely to put you at risk of an STD, there are plenty of people in this world who have slept with one person and caught an STD.

I say do what makes you happy, numbers be damned.

FinsburyParkCarrots

Surely it must be update time, by now.

AndyManderson

One

soulsinging

Jeanie wrote:

So just curious, after reading through, what did we establish by talking numbers?

Pretty much what I predicted. Some people can't handle other people's numbers.

They attach some bias or judgement to it. A bit like post counts.

We go through life, some people have sex, some people do not. Some people have a lot of sex with one partner or multiple partners, some people do not.

For the purposes of knowing someone, being friends or even lovers, what is the relevance?

I have friends and family who have slept with no one, one person or a great number of people. In terms of me loving them and appreciating who they are as individuals the number of sexual partners they have had bears absolutely no relevance at all. Just as it bears no relevance to people loving and caring about me, how many partners I have had.

If you've had no partners, one partner or so many you can't remember, it would have absolutely no impact on me in terms of being friends. There are so many other things that I think are far more important.

And before anybody flies on in and says that a person with many partners is more likely to put you at risk of an STD, there are plenty of people in this world who have slept with one person and caught an STD.

I say do what makes you happy, numbers be damned.

or maybe you're attaching more significance to it than some others? im just curious mainly. and a bit jealous... i missed out on so much tail in college :(

jojo

Jeanie wrote:

So just curious, after reading through, what did we establish by talking numbers?

Pretty much what I predicted. Some people can't handle other people's numbers.

They attach some bias or judgement to it. A bit like post counts.

We go through life, some people have sex, some people do not. Some people have a lot of sex with one partner or multiple partners, some people do not.

For the purposes of knowing someone, being friends or even lovers, what is the relevance?

I have friends and family who have slept with no one, one person or a great number of people. In terms of me loving them and appreciating who they are as individuals the number of sexual partners they have had bears absolutely no relevance at all. Just as it bears no relevance to people loving and caring about me, how many partners I have had.

If you've had no partners, one partner or so many you can't remember, it would have absolutely no impact on me in terms of being friends. There are so many other things that I think are far more important.

And before anybody flies on in and says that a person with many partners is more likely to put you at risk of an STD, there are plenty of people in this world who have slept with one person and caught an STD.

I say do what makes you happy, numbers be damned.

you are a very wise and wonderful woman

i agree whole heartedly

if we all tried to live and let live this world cold be a better place

Austicman

5 that lasted more than a year 6 that last more that 3 months and a few one nighters and holiday romances.

Jeanie

soulsinging wrote:

or maybe you're attaching more significance to it than some others? im just curious mainly. and a bit jealous... i missed out on so much tail in college :(

nope. like I said whatever number is your number that's cool by me and also none of my business. Just as revealing or not revealing your number is completely ok by me too. Entirely the choice of the individual and not a reason to be judged in my opinion. I simply choose not to reveal my number because I object strongly to people using the revelation of a number as a reason to judge someone but it would appear that is inescapable from some people.