My wife (girlfriend at the time) was my first and only. I was 22 at the time. To clear things up, I was with my high school girlfriend from the time I was 16 until I was 22 and she had a stong conviction about keeping her virginity for marriage so I went along with it. We did everything else (Bill Clinton) which was cool by me since I'd never done the deed anyway. We broke up and I fooled around with another girl from high school that summer but we never went all the way either. My younger brother has more than made up for my lack of experience however. I'm living my wild times vicariously through him.
I wish I was as fortunate, as fortunate as me.
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I always emphasized quality over quantity, whereas I had friends that would go home with any gal who said yes. I never understood this. I mean, my hand looks better than half the girls my friends would take home. Especially when I'd dabble a little perfume and blush on it.
It was less than that before one of my friends and I had a contest to see how many guys we could pick up from Match over the course of a month. I got 22 first dates, 12 to add to my "number."
Why would you want to have that contest? Its not tough for women to get guys to go out with them especially on match, you should of been able to get a couple dates for each night.
My wife (girlfriend at the time) was my first and only. I was 22 at the time. To clear things up, I was with my high school girlfriend from the time I was 16 until I was 22 and she had a stong conviction about keeping her virginity for marriage so I went along with it. We did everything else (Bill Clinton) which was cool by me since I'd never done the deed anyway. We broke up and I fooled around with another girl from high school that summer but we never went all the way either. My younger brother has more than made up for my lack of experience however. I'm living my wild times vicariously through him.
I am 0.33% complete on achieving Wilt Chamberlain status...............
More than 1 and less than this.
But I agree with lots of the points made in this thread. The information is fairly useless without know the age of the person providing it. Also, the number doesn't matter.
We all know you will have various kinds of sexual encounters in your life and to judge those just by a number is not the best way. It's all about how you and the person you shared that enounter with feels about it. Who'se to say that the person who has over 1,000 partners and the person who had only 1 are any different in their feelings for the people they have been with.
Sure there are people who are users sexually and often this is indicated by a high number of partners but people are also users non-sexually. Do we consider someone any less sincere in their friendships if they have had a lot of friends?
"Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore."
I'm not saying I'm an angel or anything, I may have only been with my husband, but beofre him in high school I had lots of boyfriends, I just didn't have sex with them. I'm not saying I didn't do anything else that was fun...:)
sex can be fun with someone you're simply physically attracted to or compatible with. if you're both giving each other pleasure, there's nothing bad about that. if you're in love, even better. numbers don't matter. people matter. as long as you're being smart and safe, who really cares how many partners someone has had? i do think it's important to discuss sexual history with someone to know that you've both been smart and safe, though.
i've had girlfriends before who were reluctant to talk about how many partners they'd been with, i guess based on some societal issue about labels when the "numbers" aren't generally accepted as "normal". sex is normal. feeling good is normal.
it's weird how we all enjoy it (well at least i hope we all do ), yet most of us are taught from either an early age or through peer interaction that you should be ashamed of enjoying yourself, your body and experiences with other people.
Recognizing boredom leads to one decision
Recognizing violence leads to another
Sometimes life is EXACTLY opposite of what we intended, or thought would happen, but if we choose the way we live, then I guess it's what we wanted?
I don't regret what I've done or haven't done. I definitely think of safety in my decisions - in every package that safety can be considered.
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The last time I tried to figure this out, I kept getting confused and thinking I was forgetting people or counting people twice (hey, I’m old and going back a ways…)…so I ended up writing it down…then I started thinking, hmmmm…I wonder how many people I have ‘not had sexual relations’ with….so I wrote them down too, with an asterisk. I was a big enough moron to forget to throw the list out, and my wife found it while doing laundry. Didn’t go over well. It took a while to convince her what the asterisk was for
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she is shameless...beyond shame she is....;)
if their not showing, we're gone...simple as that...
Nope, sorry...maybe when you come visit i'll introduce you, so shave and behave....
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"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
First off, you need a poll that's confidential.
Secondly, age would be an appropriate factor, since younger people would have had less opportunity than some of the older members of the board.
It's like asking "I've had 14,910 lunches in my life - is that normal?"
...well, if you're 10 years old, then its not normal. If you're 40 years old, then yes it's normal.
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Why would you want to have that contest? Its not tough for women to get guys to go out with them especially on match, you should of been able to get a couple dates for each night.
But now it's all good. And I'm thinking he'll be the last
yawn
you stuck a cigar in her sweathole?
*barf*
More than 1 and less than this.
But I agree with lots of the points made in this thread. The information is fairly useless without know the age of the person providing it. Also, the number doesn't matter.
We all know you will have various kinds of sexual encounters in your life and to judge those just by a number is not the best way. It's all about how you and the person you shared that enounter with feels about it. Who'se to say that the person who has over 1,000 partners and the person who had only 1 are any different in their feelings for the people they have been with.
Sure there are people who are users sexually and often this is indicated by a high number of partners but people are also users non-sexually. Do we consider someone any less sincere in their friendships if they have had a lot of friends?
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says the guy who's country is known for fucking sheep
i have no problem with interspecies erotica
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Why would you start was has no end?
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"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
jab a finger in there... what do you feel?
that's right
sweat
in the hole
cory you should hook up with virgin79 down in texas
hmmmm so you had your sperm surgically removed cleansed and then implanted in your wife ?
you sound like my ex... a notorious tease...
When you say ?, do you mean honeypot?
And the answer to that is yes;)
Why would you start was has no end?
That's Wales. Not Scotland!
Very well said, mookie
Recognizing violence leads to another
Sometimes life is EXACTLY opposite of what we intended, or thought would happen, but if we choose the way we live, then I guess it's what we wanted?
I don't regret what I've done or haven't done. I definitely think of safety in my decisions - in every package that safety can be considered.
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
who hasn't?
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