how many partners have you had?

Linda

i've lost count ....i was 16, almost 17, when i got in my first "real" relationship...real i mean because i got sexual active in this one..after 8 years we've split up. I stayed single for 4 years and had my fair share i can tell you....;)

Heineken Helen

mookie blaylock 10 wrote:

i like the way you termed that, helen. well said.

...and congrats on getting lucky last night, dunky.

long time no chat!

Well yeh, whether it's 2 or 2000, you just see the number and not the circumstance and well really it literally IS nobody's business . Not in a 'oh I'm ashamed or embarrassed to say' way but in a 'it's a need to no basis and nobody needs to know' cos once you know the number you fit that person into a label... whether it be prude or slut.

mookie blaylock 10

Heineken Helen wrote:

long time no chat!

Well yeh, whether it's 2 or 2000, you just see the number and not the circumstance and well really it literally IS nobody's business . Not in a 'oh I'm ashamed or embarrassed to say' way but in a 'it's a need to no basis and nobody needs to know' cos once you know the number you fit that person into a label... whether it be prude or slut.

true enough. i have been a curmudgeon for the most part since spring i think....i'm venturing back into other threads and actually leaving the house once in a while now.

Heineken Helen

mookie blaylock 10 wrote:

true enough. i have been a curmudgeon for the most part since spring i think....i'm venturing back into other threads and actually leaving the house once in a while now.

just when it's getting too cold to go outside

mookie blaylock 10

Heineken Helen wrote:

just when it's getting too cold to go outside

it only just starts getting cold when your eyelids freeze shut.

rearviewmiror

The real question is, how do you feel when your partner has more than you. Especially if you're a guy.

Less than Ten more than 5 anyways for me.

faceintheclouds

ummmmm i think like 15. wish it was more:(

FinsburyParkCarrots

475871438574385738957134.


Or was it 475871438574385738957135?

Brain of J.Lo

More than 1, and less than 26.

boxwine_in_hell

dunkman wrote:

29

do blow up dolls and gently microwaved packages of liver count? if so its 31

crackin me up.....when I was about 11 I used to get busy on a stuffed animal.

Heineken Helen

Brain of J.Lo wrote:

More than 1, and less than 26.

I'll go with... more than 1! :cool:

riffrandall

Between 45 and 50.

It was less than that before one of my friends and I had a contest to see how many guys we could pick up from Match over the course of a month. I got 22 first dates, 12 to add to my "number."

Brain of J.Lo

boxwine_in_hell wrote:

crackin me up.....when I was about 11 I used to get busy on a stuffed animal.

What kind of stuffed animal?

And, do you get a little excited when you see a similar one?

The Champ

justjoshingu wrote:

i dont consider myself a prude, but i am about the complete opposite of a player.

but i was talking with a friend and realized i've had a few partners and so my STD risk was increased. granted i'm clean and i've been in a 1 and 1 relationship for a while. but still

i've had 3 partners where we went all the way and an additional 2 just fooling around. (well, stuff that clinton doesnt consider sex)

thats 5 people, who if they had five and they had five etc....

am i in the normal range? high? low?

no judgement here i really am just kinda curious.

You mean like today, or the overall total?

GreenTeaDisease

justjoshingu wrote:

i dont consider myself a prude, but i am about the complete opposite of a player.

but i was talking with a friend and realized i've had a few partners and so my STD risk was increased. granted i'm clean and i've been in a 1 and 1 relationship for a while. but still

i've had 3 partners where we went all the way and an additional 2 just fooling around. (well, stuff that clinton doesnt consider sex)

thats 5 people, who if they had five and they had five etc....

am i in the normal range? high? low?

no judgement here i really am just kinda curious.

Actually, I am in about the same range as you- a few more in the "fooling around category"- and last spring I had to have a cervical biopsy and the doctor told me that anything more than 2 partners is "high risk." I never would have thought I was "high risk"!

Of course I don't think you can generalize...if you've slept with 3 people the risk would really depend on who those people are, how old you/they were, and many other factors, so I wasn't really worried. It was just kind of a shock to hear though!

dunkman

boxwine_in_hell wrote:

crackin me up.....when I was about 11 I used to get busy on a stuffed animal.

if you remove 'stuffed' from that sentence and change 11 to 31 then we have BostonLou's answer to this thread

kenshunt

3, im a slut

harmless_little_f***

maybe 6

only 2 that mattered, my first and my last

jojo

dunkman wrote:

if you remove 'stuffed' from that sentence and change 11 to 31 then we have BostonLou's answer to this thread

oh my god


too funny

i think that's my new sig

in_hiding79

My husband is my one and only intimate partner! I've kissed a lot of guys though..:)