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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Ahnimus wrote:
    It means I only get off once, she gets off twice. That's the deal.

    Per round that is.

    Only twice?? Damn...I usually go three or four times...maybe more.
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    <crickets>


    Damn, I think I broke the thread.
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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    AmentsChick wrote:
    <crickets>


    Damn, I think I broke the thread.

    Well the guys are all worn out after "Damn...I usually go three or four times...maybe more." We need sleep. :D:D:D
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    cutback wrote:
    Well the guys are all worn out after "Damn...I usually go three or four times...maybe more." We need sleep. :D:D:D

    LMAO! Well, it was true.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Only twice?? Damn...I usually go three or four times...maybe more.

    Take as much as you can get, but the guarantee is 2 for 1.

    Being that every woman will be different. Sometimes it will 9 for 1, but minimum of 2. Per round, so after, I go back again, maybe. Depends on how I feel. I'm trying to reverse roles, to make men the keepers. muahaha!
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • viviflu
    viviflu Posts: 122
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Only twice?? Damn...I usually go three or four times...maybe more.

    A Moving Train Politics, current events - reasoned debate and discussion - we can all learn something new :rolleyes: :D
    Fighting fire with fire since world's birth, bumping into the same stone over and over again... and we call this evolution?
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Abookamongstthemany wrote:
    Sex is fucking awesome, casual or not!

    not if you get an std cos you were too drunk to put the condom on right...
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    viviflu wrote:
    A Moving Train Politics, current events - reasoned debate and discussion - we can all learn something new :rolleyes: :D

    I'm sorry if my post was out of line or offensive.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    soulsinging wrote:
    not if you get an std cos you were too drunk to put the condom on right...

    Or cause the person you slept with had warts around the pubic area and not directly on the penis. That's why I go down and inspect the area. It's not going to be 100% but better anyway.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • viviflu
    viviflu Posts: 122
    AmentsChick wrote:
    I'm sorry if my post was out of line or offensive.

    Offensive??? Good for you girl! 4 times... you dont have a G point, you have a G planet ! ;)
    Fighting fire with fire since world's birth, bumping into the same stone over and over again... and we call this evolution?
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    viviflu wrote:
    Offensive??? Good for you girl! 4 times... you dont have a G point, you have a G planet ! ;)
    that made me giggle.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Staceb10 wrote:
    Not all women have to be drunk to engage in casual no-strings attached sex. I think it happens more with the one night stand because usually women are out and drinking anyway. How often do you go to the movies and bring home a one-nighter? Now getting drunk specifically to lower you inhibitions so you can have a one-nighter is absurd. I don't know anyone that gets drunk just to have an excuse for having casual sex although I'm sure it happens.

    I know you were being funny but I did find it interesting that you said they have "too much self respect when they're not drunk.". Now, keep in mind I don't know the seriousness of the comment but do you think that a woman is incapable of engaging in casual no-strings sex unless they have low or no self-respect?

    i was not being very serious at all. i suppose that makes sense, but this gets into kind of a circular rut. they're out drinking, but why are they going out? usually to pick someone up. so it's kind of a confused issue of causation that doesn't really matter. what matters is the drive to go out, grab a stranger, and use them like a condom. i think that's unwise. i dont think men or women have to have low esteem to do it. but i do have to say that i have never know or spoken to a woman who went home to have sex with a guy she met only hours before... unless she was drunk. the other side is i know girls (as they go out in packs) who will go out with the intention of hooking up. if they are sober that night, they maybe make out but then nothing more than exchange numbers and would not go home with a guy... EVER. if they have been drinking they will. maybe it does lower their inhibitions, but is that good? if they are unwilling to sleep with the guy sober, why is it better to do it when your judgment is compromised? why do they need the alcohol as an excuse or a cover up?
  • dontloseyourheat
    dontloseyourheat Posts: 483
    Sex is overrated.

    I mean the act of sex is outstanding but it is overly glorified.

    When you are a virgin people talk about how special it will be and how you need to be ready for it etc. And then you do it. And no fireworks go off and you realize that you are still the same person as you were before.

    It doesn't matter if you call it "love making" or "fucking" it is stil just sex.

    It's an animalistic urge that both genders need to satisfy.
    "Don't lose your inner heat...ever" - EV 5/13/06
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Collin wrote:
    So where do friends with benefits fit into this all?

    they fit into the idiot category... we all know that never works ;)
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    dontloseyourheat wrote:
    Sex is overrated.

    I mean the act of sex is outstanding but it is overly glorified.

    When you are a virgin people talk about how special it will be and how you need to be ready for it etc. And then you do it. And no fireworks go off and you realize that you are still the same person as you were before.

    It doesn't matter if you call it "love making" or "fucking" it is stil just sex.

    It's an animalistic urge that both genders need to satisfy.

    Exactly! For years, for most of my life, I've denied this truth. I would go 3 or 4 years between partners, looking for love, so to speak. I'm through with that.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    soulsinging wrote:
    they fit into the idiot category... we all know that never works ;)

    Sure it does.

    Beneath every male-female friendship is a sexual attraction; biologically speaking. Remove the psycho-cultural backdrop to our lives and there's no reason not to engage in sex with friends. Besides the STD/Pregnancy thing, but at least the person is trustworthy.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Ahnimus wrote:
    Sure it does.

    Beneath every male-female friendship is a sexual attraction; biologically speaking. Remove the psycho-cultural backdrop to our lives and there's no reason not to engage in sex with friends. Besides the STD/Pregnancy thing, but at least the person is trustworthy.

    yeah, but eventually someone always wants more or gets jealous and then feelings get hurt.
  • viviflu
    viviflu Posts: 122
    Ahnimus wrote:
    Exactly! For years, for most of my life, I've denied this truth. I would go 3 or 4 years between partners, looking for love, so to speak. I'm through with that.

    Lyer... I'm sure any of these days you'll find your self thinking in hearts and pink rabbits ;)
    Fighting fire with fire since world's birth, bumping into the same stone over and over again... and we call this evolution?
  • viviflu
    viviflu Posts: 122
    soulsinging wrote:
    yeah, but eventually someone always wants more or gets jealous and then feelings get hurt.

    Been there a few times, after a while, plastic love gets hell of boring!
    Fighting fire with fire since world's birth, bumping into the same stone over and over again... and we call this evolution?
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    viviflu wrote:
    Lyer... I'm sure any of these days you'll find your self thinking in hearts and pink rabbits ;)

    Pink rabbits? I'm a guy :p
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire

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