It means I only get off once, she gets off twice. That's the deal.
Per round that is.
I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
Put the you-know-what...in the you-know-where
Put the you-know-what...in the you-know-where
(sorry, couldn't resist!)
On a more serious note, sex is fun, it should be celebrated and enjoyed and encouraged unlike guns and violence. You only live once and then you are dead and dead is forever. FOREVER.
This article is quite interesting indeed. The "hooking up" thing has been pretty common at least around me the last at least decade or so that I've been old enough to want to have sex.
I don't have any real problem with it other than the obvious health/pregnancy questions and the lack of caring for other people mentioned in the article.
I'm more worried about the way men and women are treating the men and women they are with in serious relationships with and the severe lack of respect shown to the other from both.
Women being assertive and going after what they want is awesome, I just hope the women and men in question are doing it safely (which I tend to doubt) but I'm glad the "slut" stigma is being lifted off people who have had more than a few partners, everyone makes mistakes, some just enjoy thiers more than others.
I kind of find the hooking up thing to be a little immature. It is how us guys act in high school and college, but by our mid 20's we are supposed to be a little smarter than that. It's a hollow, shallow way to live a life. Sure you can do it and it's fun for a while, but a few years of it gets really stale and you wind up being the old guy/girl in the bar hitting on young people.....lame.
The emotional aspect of sex and relationships in general is one of the reasons men and women have communication disconnects. It's really a fascinating chemistry.
I don't think it's a self respect thing at all, I think it's a lighter attitude towards sex and the seperation between having sex and being in love.
My Girlfriend said to me..."How many guitars do you need?" and I replied...."How many pairs of shoes do you need?" She got really quiet.
precisely. it's why im having so much trouble finding a mistress... women just have too much self respect when they're not drunk. it's frustrating
Not all women have to be drunk to engage in casual no-strings attached sex. I think it happens more with the one night stand because usually women are out and drinking anyway. How often do you go to the movies and bring home a one-nighter? Now getting drunk specifically to lower you inhibitions so you can have a one-nighter is absurd. I don't know anyone that gets drunk just to have an excuse for having casual sex although I'm sure it happens.
I know you were being funny but I did find it interesting that you said they have "too much self respect when they're not drunk.". Now, keep in mind I don't know the seriousness of the comment but do you think that a woman is incapable of engaging in casual no-strings sex unless they have low or no self-respect?
I appreciate Know1's honesty and his stance on a lot of things because he's always upfront about his feelings on a subject regardless of how well others will take it. I don't agree with his outlook but I can appreciate it.
Aside from the "get drunk hook-up" like the article is discussing, I don't have a problem with casual sex. I have found that the biggest problem with women and the casual sex issue is that they use it to get attention or to feel loved.. even if they don't realize that's what they are doing. This is probably going to change Know1's opinion of me (or maybe not ) but I am quite comfortable in having casual sexual relationships for the sexual factor alone. I don't usually go for the one-night thing but I have had a couple in my life. I just think that I can physically be attracted to someone and want the physical connection but not have the emotional ties. I'm a very sexual person and I'm comfortable with who I am and what I do. I don't bring men home in front of my son, I am monogamous when I'm in a relationship, I've never had an STD, I've never had an abortion and I've never hurt anyone else with my actions. Some will say "if you give your body to others then what are you saving for your husband" and my response to that is my heart and my life.
Not all women have to be drunk to engage in casual no-strings attached sex. I think it happens more with the one night stand because usually women are out and drinking anyway. How often do you go to the movies and bring home a one-nighter? Now getting drunk specifically to lower you inhibitions so you can have a one-nighter is absurd. I don't know anyone that gets drunk just to have an excuse for having casual sex although I'm sure it happens.
I know you were being funny but I did find it interesting that you said they have "too much self respect when they're not drunk.". Now, keep in mind I don't know the seriousness of the comment but do you think that a woman is incapable of engaging in casual no-strings sex unless they have low or no self-respect?
I appreciate Know1's honesty and his stance on a lot of things because he's always upfront about his feelings on a subject regardless of how well others will take it. I don't agree with his outlook but I can appreciate it.
Aside from the "get drunk hook-up" like the article is discussing, I don't have a problem with casual sex. I have found that the biggest problem with women and the casual sex issue is that they use it to get attention or to feel loved.. even if they don't realize that's what they are doing. This is probably going to change Know1's opinion of me (or maybe not ) but I am quite comfortable in having casual sexual relationships for the sexual factor alone. I don't usually go for the one-night thing but I have had a couple in my life. I just think that I can physically be attracted to someone and want the physical connection but not have the emotional ties. I'm a very sexual person and I'm comfortable with who I am and what I do. I don't bring men home in front of my son, I am monogamous when I'm in a relationship, I've never had an STD, I've never had an abortion and I've never hurt anyone else with my actions. Some will say "if you give your body to others then what are you saving for your husband" and my response to that is my heart and my life.
You're right, I don't agree with that philosophy, but you explain it in a reasonable way and I can appreciate it as well.
The only people we should try to get even with...
...are those who've helped us.
Right 'round the corner could be bigger than ourselves.
I'd like to know where all these hook-up and casual sex girls are. They sure as hell aren't hanging out with me. I'm beating my dick like it owes me money. Thank you for that gem, Charles Q. Murphy.
"Almost all those politicians took money from Enron, and there they are holding hearings. That's like O.J. Simpson getting in the Rae Carruth jury pool." -- Charles Barkley
Sure you can do it and it's fun for a while, but a few years of it gets really stale and you wind up being the old guy/girl in the bar hitting on young people.....lame. I don't think it's a self respect thing at all, I think it's a lighter attitude towards sex and the seperation between having sex and being in love.
Touché!
Fighting fire with fire since world's birth, bumping into the same stone over and over again... and we call this evolution?
So where do friends with benefits fit into this all?
Casual sex = lots of sex
Friends with Benefits = you can have a beer from once in a while, go out barbecuing with common friends AND get lots of sex. Hypocrisy rules here "I would really like you if..." bah!
Fighting fire with fire since world's birth, bumping into the same stone over and over again... and we call this evolution?
Only twice?? Damn...I usually go three or four times...maybe more.
Take as much as you can get, but the guarantee is 2 for 1.
Being that every woman will be different. Sometimes it will 9 for 1, but minimum of 2. Per round, so after, I go back again, maybe. Depends on how I feel. I'm trying to reverse roles, to make men the keepers. muahaha!
I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
not if you get an std cos you were too drunk to put the condom on right...
Or cause the person you slept with had warts around the pubic area and not directly on the penis. That's why I go down and inspect the area. It's not going to be 100% but better anyway.
I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
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Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
-Oscar Wilde
It means I only get off once, she gets off twice. That's the deal.
Per round that is.
i think its a great thing as long as people know what they are getting themselves into ...
Sex is fucking awesomely.
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Unicorn...
Charlie...
Kilo!
Put the you-know-what...in the you-know-where
Put the you-know-what...in the you-know-where
(sorry, couldn't resist!)
On a more serious note, sex is fun, it should be celebrated and enjoyed and encouraged unlike guns and violence. You only live once and then you are dead and dead is forever. FOREVER.
I always knew there was a reason why a liked you
I don't have any real problem with it other than the obvious health/pregnancy questions and the lack of caring for other people mentioned in the article.
I'm more worried about the way men and women are treating the men and women they are with in serious relationships with and the severe lack of respect shown to the other from both.
Women being assertive and going after what they want is awesome, I just hope the women and men in question are doing it safely (which I tend to doubt) but I'm glad the "slut" stigma is being lifted off people who have had more than a few partners, everyone makes mistakes, some just enjoy thiers more than others.
I kind of find the hooking up thing to be a little immature. It is how us guys act in high school and college, but by our mid 20's we are supposed to be a little smarter than that. It's a hollow, shallow way to live a life. Sure you can do it and it's fun for a while, but a few years of it gets really stale and you wind up being the old guy/girl in the bar hitting on young people.....lame.
The emotional aspect of sex and relationships in general is one of the reasons men and women have communication disconnects. It's really a fascinating chemistry.
I don't think it's a self respect thing at all, I think it's a lighter attitude towards sex and the seperation between having sex and being in love.
Must we go on. Everything that needs to be said has been said right there.
Not all women have to be drunk to engage in casual no-strings attached sex. I think it happens more with the one night stand because usually women are out and drinking anyway. How often do you go to the movies and bring home a one-nighter? Now getting drunk specifically to lower you inhibitions so you can have a one-nighter is absurd. I don't know anyone that gets drunk just to have an excuse for having casual sex although I'm sure it happens.
I know you were being funny but I did find it interesting that you said they have "too much self respect when they're not drunk.". Now, keep in mind I don't know the seriousness of the comment but do you think that a woman is incapable of engaging in casual no-strings sex unless they have low or no self-respect?
I appreciate Know1's honesty and his stance on a lot of things because he's always upfront about his feelings on a subject regardless of how well others will take it. I don't agree with his outlook but I can appreciate it.
Aside from the "get drunk hook-up" like the article is discussing, I don't have a problem with casual sex. I have found that the biggest problem with women and the casual sex issue is that they use it to get attention or to feel loved.. even if they don't realize that's what they are doing. This is probably going to change Know1's opinion of me (or maybe not
You're right, I don't agree with that philosophy, but you explain it in a reasonable way and I can appreciate it as well.
...are those who've helped us.
Right 'round the corner could be bigger than ourselves.
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Like that refrigerator scene from "the Hand that rocks the cradle"
EV intro to Chloe Dancer / Crown of Thorns
10/25/13 Hartford
Touché!
Casual sex = lots of sex
Friends with Benefits = you can have a beer from once in a while, go out barbecuing with common friends AND get lots of sex. Hypocrisy rules here "I would really like you if..." bah!
Very cute!!
Does that go for 27 year old nannies from San Diego, too?
Only twice?? Damn...I usually go three or four times...maybe more.
Damn, I think I broke the thread.
Well the guys are all worn out after "Damn...I usually go three or four times...maybe more." We need sleep.
LMAO! Well, it was true.
Take as much as you can get, but the guarantee is 2 for 1.
Being that every woman will be different. Sometimes it will 9 for 1, but minimum of 2. Per round, so after, I go back again, maybe. Depends on how I feel. I'm trying to reverse roles, to make men the keepers. muahaha!
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not if you get an std cos you were too drunk to put the condom on right...
I'm sorry if my post was out of line or offensive.
Or cause the person you slept with had warts around the pubic area and not directly on the penis. That's why I go down and inspect the area. It's not going to be 100% but better anyway.
Offensive??? Good for you girl! 4 times... you dont have a G point, you have a G planet !