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  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Ahnimus wrote:
    I was talking this girl into having sex and she said "I can't, I'd need to be drunk." less than a week later "You should come over, I'm drunk."

    precisely. it's why im having so much trouble finding a mistress... women just have too much self respect when they're not drunk. it's frustrating :)
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    Well, these women are at risk of contracting HPV, which can lead to cervical cancer. Women can be vaccinated prior to infection, but men can't. Approx. 70% of the population comes in contact with the virus. It's solely up to women to be vaccinated for HPV. I know several women who are aware of the vaccine, but haven't got it and continue to have casual sex.
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  • fanch75
    fanch75 Posts: 3,734
    AmentsChick wrote:
    or behind it ;)

    ah haaaaayl yeeee-uh!
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  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    soulsinging wrote:
    precisely. it's why im having so much trouble finding a mistress... women just have too much self respect when they're not drunk. it's frustrating :)

    I think the alcohol is to overcome their inhibitions. I think they always have the thuoght "I'd like to fuck that guy". IMO, women are very much like men in the sex department, but culturally they've been forced to block and hide these thoughts. They only come out in girl-girl chats. Whereas men are more open about it. In order for sex and procreation to work, women need to like sex too..
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • farfromglorified
    farfromglorified Posts: 5,700
    Ahnimus wrote:
    In order for sex and procreation to work, women need to like sex too..

    Just as an FYI...this is not a very effective pickup line.
  • viviflu
    viviflu Posts: 122
    soulsinging wrote:
    well yeah, i think the only reason i mentioned alcohol was to illustrate just how undesirable this sexual lifestyle is. even the people engaging in it (the women at least) feel compelled to get intoxicated to go through with it. i wasnt trying to make it about how people who have casual sex are depressed drunks. just that serial one night stands are probably not the best lifestyle.

    I guess is a reflexion of the emptyness of the society in our days. When you look around you normal talks are what did you bought, that you feel fat, or that you look so thin but I'm really not making any diet, last movies in cinemas or the orange and black string sitting 3 tables away... That is pretty depressing... So love? out of fashion, too deep for our instant-times, and get to know someone? and be dependant? What if she makes a scence everytime I want to meet the boys? If he spreads toothpaste on the toilet mirror... People keep looking for love trough sex, to fill the emptyness with something that does not last, but you convince your self that you are feeling something. Is just sad... resigning to the mechanics cause we gave up looking for the soul or we are too lazy to do it.
    Fighting fire with fire since world's birth, bumping into the same stone over and over again... and we call this evolution?
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    farfromglorified wrote:
    Just as an FYI...this is not a very effective pickup line.

    How about "Hurry up and drink that so I can go down on you."?
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    viviflu wrote:
    I guess is a reflexion of the emptyness of the society in our days. When you look around you normal talks are what did you bought, that you feel fat, or that you look so thin but I'm really not making any diet, last movies in cinemas or the orange and black string sitting 3 tables away... That is pretty depressing... So love? out of fashion, too deep for our instant-times, and get to know someone? and be dependant? What if she makes a scence everytime I want to meet the boys? If he spreads toothpaste on the toilet mirror... People keep looking for love trough sex, to fill the emptyness with something that does not last, but you convince your self that you are feeling something. Is just sad... resigning to the mechanics cause we gave up looking for the soul or we are too lazy to do it.

    I think people are realizing that lust and love are two different things. Once they get the sex out of the way and come down from that high, they don't feel the same for that person. The anticipation of sex with someone may be a founding factor in love, I'm not sure exactly.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • farfromglorified
    farfromglorified Posts: 5,700
    Ahnimus wrote:
    How about "Hurry up and drink that so I can go down on you."?

    Better, but still a little rough around the edges. ;)
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Uncle Leo wrote:
    What if the opportunity arose with a certain bass player?

    Ok, yeah, in that case...
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Ahnimus wrote:
    How about "Hurry up and drink that so I can go down on you."?

    That would work for me.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • viviflu
    viviflu Posts: 122
    Ahnimus wrote:
    I think people are realizing that lust and love are two different things. Once they get the sex out of the way and come down from that high, they don't feel the same for that person. The anticipation of sex with someone may be a founding factor in love, I'm not sure exactly.

    I dont know if they are two different things, but they are splitable. We should just be honest enough with our selfs to see and accept in which side are we standing. Cheap stuff like "I have never met someone like you before" "I usually dont do this, but you are so special"... please people! be creative! :)
    Fighting fire with fire since world's birth, bumping into the same stone over and over again... and we call this evolution?
  • Slip Kid
    Slip Kid Posts: 1,175
    know1 wrote:
    For a variety of reasons. Among them that it cheapens the experience, it's selfish, demonstrates that someone lacks self-restraint, I think it should be saved for marriage, etc., etc.

    Agreed. Both men and women are nothing but sluts, in respect to "free love". Sleeping with multiple partners just for the sake of sex isn't a great deal.
    I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Ahnimus wrote:
    I think the alcohol is to overcome their inhibitions. I think they always have the thuoght "I'd like to fuck that guy". IMO, women are very much like men in the sex department, but culturally they've been forced to block and hide these thoughts. They only come out in girl-girl chats. Whereas men are more open about it. In order for sex and procreation to work, women need to like sex too..

    I have a crazy sex drive. I just choose to be selective. As I mentioned before, when I am in a committed relationship, I make up for the lackthereof.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    AmentsChick wrote:
    That would work for me.

    FYI guys, I conducted a mini-survey with all the women I could.

    Women like the idea of a guy going down on them, it lacks commitment on their part and your gonna get laid in the end anyway. Some aren't worried about the commitment, but the fact that a guy will go down on them is nice.

    I think the casual sex scene is hit and miss for women. A guy is gonna get his rocks off no matter what. But women will encounter men who "wham bam, thank you ma'am" and the women are left looking for more. So, if a guy goes down, or implies that he would, better chances. Besides eating girls out is fun. ;)

    Additionally, I've been suggesting to women "I prefer to get sex out of the way and then assess how I feel about a person" I haven't posed this scenario to many women, but one said "I would be in favor of that." I have the suspicion that many would these days.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    I don't think I'd date someone that wouldn't. I mean, girls like getting it as much as guys do.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    AmentsChick wrote:
    I don't think I'd date someone that wouldn't. I mean, girls like getting it as much as guys do.

    I offer a 2 for 1 special. ;)
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Ahnimus wrote:
    I offer a 2 for 1 special. ;)

    What does that mean, exactly?
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Collin
    Collin Posts: 4,931
    What do people understand when they say "casual"?
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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Collin wrote:
    What do people understand when they say "casual"?

    no tux?

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