Not as messed up as being accused of turning into Team Trump Treason. I mean, I’ve never grabbed a woman by her genitalia. Or banged a porn star or been married three times. Or not paid someone who’s done work for me. Or colluded with the Russians or told 5 lies a day, every day, for over a year.
Not as messed up as being accused of turning into Team Trump Treason. I mean, I’ve never grabbed a woman by her genitalia. Or banged a porn star or been married three times. Or not paid someone who’s done work for me. Or colluded with the Russians or told 5 lies a day, every day, for over a year.
Most of the married folks I know are too busy with work and kids to spend an evening or weekend alone together. If they have time to go to a movie or dinner they go with their spouse.
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Most of the time a man can't even go out with his male buddies and have drinks or play golf or whatever without getting the third degree from "the wife." This is why I stay single.
Sadly, this is accurate for most. I’d divorce my wife if she was this way. Although, I knew she wasn’t which is one of the many reasons that I married her.
My wife definitely doesn't give me the third degree when I am hanging out with my buddies. Every year we have a guys trip somewhere (snowboarding, nd football game, cabin in the woods with beer olympics) and she is cool with all that. But no girls lol.
Your digging yourself into a hole regarding this. Haha.
Everyone is just waiting for the ball to drop, and you realizing there is insecurity and jealousy in your relationship. Which is okey.
Not me, I am waiting for everyone to understand that every relationship works by its own rules (at least the best ones, imo) and stfu about it. [Especially people who are unhappily married, divorced, or otherwise single. It works for him. Bunch a know-it-alls here.]
Seriously I have the best relationship ever. I have no clue why I am on the stand. This it works for us. I have zero interest in having female relationships or meeting another woman at the bar.
What about another man at the bar?
No judgements, just askin'.
I ll meet you for pizza and beer anytime.
Now, we are cooking with gas!
What’s next? In the Dutch oven?
I'm hurt to know that Scruffy would not go for a beer with me.
Fuck him, he didn't enjoY a beer with me either. JerseY boY was afraid of getting wet.
I take full responsibility for not being able to meet up (in my defense that whole hour and a half was a complete cluster fuck). Although I did see you from afar you tall mo fo.
Not me...I was like 3 people from the tall mofo. I'm only 6' tall
"A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory
Most of the married folks I know are too busy with work and kids to spend an evening or weekend alone together. If they have time to go to a movie or dinner they go with their spouse.
Not having the time =/= actively not doing it because of the sex of the other person
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
Most of the married folks I know are too busy with work and kids to spend an evening or weekend alone together. If they have time to go to a movie or dinner they go with their spouse.
Yeah, the few we do know who are hanging out with single men or women are not in a good place, not that it can't be done. We barely get the kids to bed and house back to normal by 10 or 11pm.
It's a hopeless situation...
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It may come to this...IF there is indeed an Agnes at all.
As to the hot discussion of "rules and reasons", couples evolve in their own ways and (usually) need only to answer to each other. That some can't conceive of another way without reasons valid to that person, or that it actually succeeds for some, is on them and their assumptions.
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It may come to this...IF there is indeed an Agnes at all.
As to the hot discussion of "rules and reasons", couples evolve in their own ways and (usually) need only to answer to each other. That some can't conceive of another way without reasons valid to that person, or that it actually succeeds for some, is on them and their assumptions.
Here's an idea...fuck asking Agnes out on a date, we all know by now that your version of "tomorrow" never comes.
INSTEAD, ask PJSoul on a date. You're both single. You share a seemingly common mindset on who you're with isn't necessarily the one you need to spend your free weekends having fun with. You both seem fond of beer. And you are both PJ fans.
BOOM!!!!!
"A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory
Here's an idea...fuck asking Agnes out on a date, we all know by now that your version of "tomorrow" never comes.
INSTEAD, ask PJSoul on a date. You're both single. You share a seemingly common mindset on who you're with isn't necessarily the one you need to spend your free weekends having fun with. You both seem fond of beer. And you are both PJ fans.
Ok I haven't read the last 90 posts since I last came here but I'm with mcgruff FOR ONCE I have a very vast experience of relationships and it cannot work the way some are saying. Are you spiritual and pj soul ..single atm? Because that makes a huge difference in this conversation!
I am telling you is IS totally possible... Apparently YOU are simply not capable of it. And no, my current single status has no bearing because obviously I'm spending time with married men, as was made clear, and have been doing it through all my relationships that I've had since the age of 13, up through my common marriage (and no, my being single now has nothing to do with this issue, lol). My being currently single is completely irrelevant to this conversation. And I just find it EXTREMELY sad and disappointing and actually quite fucking sexist that people think platonic friendships between men and women can't work. And personally insulting that I'm confirming that they can (and I'm talking for decades with these same male friends), and apparently people aren't believing me?? I dunno. But my best friend in the entire world is a married man, and I was his best woman at his wedding. We have remained best friends through every relationship either one of us has ever been in, none of which were negatively impacted by our friendship in any way. My second best friend is my third best friend's husband. My 4th best friend is the married man whose wife happily picks him up from my place. You are wrong in thinking it cannot work. We are all just friends. Same as if it were two men or two women being friends. It's not that complicated FFS.
It is sad when you are a woman who usually gets along better with guys than with other women, and you can't be friends because they're already with someone else. In my experience, it has had more to do with partners being concerned about emotional intimacy than physical intimacy. I'm not a big fan of small talk and like to talk about things that are none of my business, so I absolutely understand when their girlfriends or wives object. I haven't been able to swing the being friends with the significant other thing, so there you go. I can only be friends with single guys. It is just simpler that way.
All you have to do is be on good terms with the guys' wives.... Obviously the wife needs to know the woman and trust her not to be some kind of man eater or something.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
Most of the married folks I know are too busy with work and kids to spend an evening or weekend alone together. If they have time to go to a movie or dinner they go with their spouse.
So most of the married folk you know never go out with friends without their spouses? Male/female friendships aside, that doesn't seem altogether healthy in general. I don't know ANY married couples who don't do things separately sometimes.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
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Here's an idea...fuck asking Agnes out on a date, we all know by now that your version of "tomorrow" never comes.
INSTEAD, ask PJSoul on a date. You're both single. You share a seemingly common mindset on who you're with isn't necessarily the one you need to spend your free weekends having fun with. You both seem fond of beer. And you are both PJ fans.
BOOM!!!!!
I will donate to make this happen.
Airfare is cheaper than ever....
"A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory
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I just think it's an interesting thing to talk about.
The love he receives is the love that is saved
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F Me In The Brain
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No
^^ Was looking for a Potato/PoTAHto gif and the Vodka pic came up. Found it appropriate, for me, but am just sayin' I find the same arguments being played over and over to be 'beating a dead horse'. If you enjoy it please don't let me stop your fun, carry on!
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Most of the married folks I know are too busy with work and kids to spend an evening or weekend alone together. If they have time to go to a movie or dinner they go with their spouse.
It may come to this...IF there is indeed an Agnes at all.
As to the hot discussion of "rules and reasons", couples evolve in their own ways and (usually) need only to answer to each other. That some can't conceive of another way without reasons valid to that person, or that it actually succeeds for some, is on them and their assumptions.
INSTEAD, ask PJSoul on a date. You're both single. You share a seemingly common mindset on who you're with isn't necessarily the one you need to spend your free weekends having fun with. You both seem fond of beer. And you are both PJ fans.
BOOM!!!!!