Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Not to mention my extreme satisfaction with the single life, lol.
I was also going to say that, but I thought that might be overstepping my boundaries.
That is actually pretty hard to do with me! I'm tempted to dare you to try.
let me rephrase.....i thought it's possible I wasn't going to be totally accurate.
Want to argue about it?
Allie, are you interested in having kids or not your thing?
No, I decided against having kids many, many years ago. Not my thing, plus the world has more than enough people in it already so I don't need to at least double my own footprint. Plus the parenting atmosphere of my society is not one I would want to attempt to raise kids in anyway. I wouldn't be able to raise them the way I would think is best for them ... at least not without making my kids and myself social pariahs. Plus I live in a place that makes having kids an extreme economic hardship - I wouldn't have been able to provide for them as well as I would have wanted. Turns out I made the right decision - I'm very glad I didn't give in to the social pressures on this one. At one point I almost did!
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.
I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.
That's the way love should be, but hardly ever is, unselfish. I'm sorry you're hurting.
I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.
You'rw a good person for doing that. A lot of people, men and women, aren't open about that until after marriage, and that makes it so unfair to the one who wants kids, especially because sometimes it's resulted in it being too late for a woman who wanted the kids. Sorry it turned out that way with a person you cared about. But I guess the silver lining is that you're both now free to find people who are of the same mind.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.
You'rw a good person for doing that. A lot of people, men and women, aren't open about that until after marriage, and that makes it so unfair to the one who wants kids, especially because sometimes it's resulted in it being too late for a woman who wanted the kids. Sorry it turned out that way with a person you cared about. But I guess the silver lining is that you're both now free to find people who are of the same mind.
That just happened to my cousin. He wasn’t even married for a year and a half and his wife told him she didn’t want kids. They are now going through a divorce.
I'll ride the wave where it takes me......
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I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.
You'rw a good person for doing that. A lot of people, men and women, aren't open about that until after marriage, and that makes it so unfair to the one who wants kids, especially because sometimes it's resulted in it being too late for a woman who wanted the kids. Sorry it turned out that way with a person you cared about. But I guess the silver lining is that you're both now free to find people who are of the same mind.
That just happened to my cousin. He wasn’t even married for a year and a half and his wife told him she didn’t want kids. They are now going through a divorce.
important to have those discussions when things get more serious.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
I'm 30 and I just recently decided that I don't want kids either. I knew it was a deal breaker for my gf so I finally had to let her know my thoughts and of course that ended the relationship a few weeks ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationsjip so it was a hard conversation to have knowing it was likely going to end it for us. I know it was the right thing to do though. She wants to be a mom and I couldn't hold her back from that.
You'rw a good person for doing that. A lot of people, men and women, aren't open about that until after marriage, and that makes it so unfair to the one who wants kids, especially because sometimes it's resulted in it being too late for a woman who wanted the kids. Sorry it turned out that way with a person you cared about. But I guess the silver lining is that you're both now free to find people who are of the same mind.
That just happened to my cousin. He wasn’t even married for a year and a half and his wife told him she didn’t want kids. They are now going through a divorce.
important to have those discussions when things get more serious.
My marriage was based on a lie. I was not told that my ex-husband was not able to have children until after we were married. Prior to that we discussed having kids. He had a congenital disease - neurofibromatosis - and had lost a leg to the disease so we discussed the ramifications of this on having kids but I was not told the complete truth - I was given a sugar coated version. It was disclosed at a genetic counselor's office with his mommy along for the ride. Good times. We divorced. That was the cowardly thing to do. What @bflynn1 did was the only right answer and shows character and true love.
And I agree Ali, a woman's window of child bearing is limited; unlike a man's, and not being straight with someone is just plain wrong.
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Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
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Drop it off and never talk to her again...
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I like the headshot of the kid from The Goonies/Temple of Doom. Nice touch.
Did he ask her out?
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Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
And I agree Ali, a woman's window of child bearing is limited; unlike a man's, and not being straight with someone is just plain wrong.