Should I ask Agnes out on a date?
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Spiritual_Chaos said:njnancy said:..bbiggs said:HesCalledDyer said:The dating game has become something that has surpassed my methods. Nowadays, you have to have facebook, instragram, snapchat, etc and hunt the person down on those platforms and send dumb messages back & forth for weeks, if not months before even considering hanging out in person. I remember when that used to be called stalking. Now it's the norm. And face to face interaction or introducing yourself/asking out in person is considered "creepy." Do things the old-fashioned way and you get laughed at to your face. What the fuck?
Are we going to start calling people old if they think that speaking to people or using their actual identifying information to communicate is a good thing? I'm not gonna start snapchatting people, I'd feel ridiculous doing so, and if that means I never have a date again, well I can buy myself flowers and my son will have children some day, in the future. Many years in the future. I guess if we could have phone sex back in the day, people could have snapchat sex nowadays. I remember sex, I think.
If you ask for advice - please be nice to the people who are giving it to you. Especially the women, even if we are decrepit phone number, face to face flower lovers.
And by your rules blinddating would never work, because the date is set up without this face to face communication that is vital.
There is not anything more sacred in going to someones front door and ask their father if one could take their daughter to the movies and be home by 11, compared to asking someone you know well by the means of a message on messanger if she would like to go on a date on halloween.
And I don't know if you missed this - but the date would still be face to face communication, just like it has been hanging out with her as a friend - we will not talk to eachother through World of Warcraft.
And so, teens today don't sit and talk on the phone - instead they send eachother pictures and videos through out the day on snapchat. Which means they have more communications with eachother than you guys did in the 1900s with your telegrams. A picture says more than a thousand telegrams sent by t he place next to the saloon.
There is nothing weird with talking to someone using text. And there is nothing wrong with asking out someone using text.It's a hopeless situation...0 -
njnancy said:Spiritual_Chaos said:njnancy said:..bbiggs said:HesCalledDyer said:The dating game has become something that has surpassed my methods. Nowadays, you have to have facebook, instragram, snapchat, etc and hunt the person down on those platforms and send dumb messages back & forth for weeks, if not months before even considering hanging out in person. I remember when that used to be called stalking. Now it's the norm. And face to face interaction or introducing yourself/asking out in person is considered "creepy." Do things the old-fashioned way and you get laughed at to your face. What the fuck?
Are we going to start calling people old if they think that speaking to people or using their actual identifying information to communicate is a good thing? I'm not gonna start snapchatting people, I'd feel ridiculous doing so, and if that means I never have a date again, well I can buy myself flowers and my son will have children some day, in the future. Many years in the future. I guess if we could have phone sex back in the day, people could have snapchat sex nowadays. I remember sex, I think.
If you ask for advice - please be nice to the people who are giving it to you. Especially the women, even if we are decrepit phone number, face to face flower lovers.
And by your rules blinddating would never work, because the date is set up without this face to face communication that is vital.
There is not anything more sacred in going to someones front door and ask their father if one could take their daughter to the movies and be home by 11, compared to asking someone you know well by the means of a message on messanger if she would like to go on a date on halloween.
And I don't know if you missed this - but the date would still be face to face communication, just like it has been hanging out with her as a friend - we will not talk to eachother through World of Warcraft.
And so, teens today don't sit and talk on the phone - instead they send eachother pictures and videos through out the day on snapchat. Which means they have more communications with eachother than you guys did in the 1900s with your telegrams. A picture says more than a thousand telegrams sent by t he place next to the saloon.
There is nothing weird with talking to someone using text. And there is nothing wrong with asking out someone using text.
And whatever the result would have been, it would have still been @mcgruff10 fault."Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"0 -
Yestbergs said:njnancy said:Spiritual_Chaos said:mcgruff10 said:Spiritual_Chaos said:SD48277 said:Back to the original topic: has she responded?
A polite no I guess will come, or nothing at all.
But whatever I guess. Boo! Now Im off work!0 -
Ha! Rock on, nancy0
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tbergs said:njnancy said:Spiritual_Chaos said:mcgruff10 said:Spiritual_Chaos said:SD48277 said:Back to the original topic: has she responded?
A polite no I guess will come, or nothing at all.
But whatever I guess. Boo! Now Im off work!
"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"0 -
YesSpiritual_Chaos said:njnancy said:Spiritual_Chaos said:njnancy said:..bbiggs said:HesCalledDyer said:The dating game has become something that has surpassed my methods. Nowadays, you have to have facebook, instragram, snapchat, etc and hunt the person down on those platforms and send dumb messages back & forth for weeks, if not months before even considering hanging out in person. I remember when that used to be called stalking. Now it's the norm. And face to face interaction or introducing yourself/asking out in person is considered "creepy." Do things the old-fashioned way and you get laughed at to your face. What the fuck?
Are we going to start calling people old if they think that speaking to people or using their actual identifying information to communicate is a good thing? I'm not gonna start snapchatting people, I'd feel ridiculous doing so, and if that means I never have a date again, well I can buy myself flowers and my son will have children some day, in the future. Many years in the future. I guess if we could have phone sex back in the day, people could have snapchat sex nowadays. I remember sex, I think.
If you ask for advice - please be nice to the people who are giving it to you. Especially the women, even if we are decrepit phone number, face to face flower lovers.
And by your rules blinddating would never work, because the date is set up without this face to face communication that is vital.
There is not anything more sacred in going to someones front door and ask their father if one could take their daughter to the movies and be home by 11, compared to asking someone you know well by the means of a message on messanger if she would like to go on a date on halloween.
And I don't know if you missed this - but the date would still be face to face communication, just like it has been hanging out with her as a friend - we will not talk to eachother through World of Warcraft.
And so, teens today don't sit and talk on the phone - instead they send eachother pictures and videos through out the day on snapchat. Which means they have more communications with eachother than you guys did in the 1900s with your telegrams. A picture says more than a thousand telegrams sent by t he place next to the saloon.
There is nothing weird with talking to someone using text. And there is nothing wrong with asking out someone using text.
And whatever the result would have been, it would have still been @mcgruff10 fault.I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0 -
mcgruff10 said:Spiritual_Chaos said:njnancy said:Spiritual_Chaos said:njnancy said:..bbiggs said:HesCalledDyer said:The dating game has become something that has surpassed my methods. Nowadays, you have to have facebook, instragram, snapchat, etc and hunt the person down on those platforms and send dumb messages back & forth for weeks, if not months before even considering hanging out in person. I remember when that used to be called stalking. Now it's the norm. And face to face interaction or introducing yourself/asking out in person is considered "creepy." Do things the old-fashioned way and you get laughed at to your face. What the fuck?
Are we going to start calling people old if they think that speaking to people or using their actual identifying information to communicate is a good thing? I'm not gonna start snapchatting people, I'd feel ridiculous doing so, and if that means I never have a date again, well I can buy myself flowers and my son will have children some day, in the future. Many years in the future. I guess if we could have phone sex back in the day, people could have snapchat sex nowadays. I remember sex, I think.
If you ask for advice - please be nice to the people who are giving it to you. Especially the women, even if we are decrepit phone number, face to face flower lovers.
And by your rules blinddating would never work, because the date is set up without this face to face communication that is vital.
There is not anything more sacred in going to someones front door and ask their father if one could take their daughter to the movies and be home by 11, compared to asking someone you know well by the means of a message on messanger if she would like to go on a date on halloween.
And I don't know if you missed this - but the date would still be face to face communication, just like it has been hanging out with her as a friend - we will not talk to eachother through World of Warcraft.
And so, teens today don't sit and talk on the phone - instead they send eachother pictures and videos through out the day on snapchat. Which means they have more communications with eachother than you guys did in the 1900s with your telegrams. A picture says more than a thousand telegrams sent by t he place next to the saloon.
There is nothing weird with talking to someone using text. And there is nothing wrong with asking out someone using text.
And whatever the result would have been, it would have still been @mcgruff10 fault."Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"0 -
mcgruff10 said:njnancy said:..bbiggs said:HesCalledDyer said:The dating game has become something that has surpassed my methods. Nowadays, you have to have facebook, instragram, snapchat, etc and hunt the person down on those platforms and send dumb messages back & forth for weeks, if not months before even considering hanging out in person. I remember when that used to be called stalking. Now it's the norm. And face to face interaction or introducing yourself/asking out in person is considered "creepy." Do things the old-fashioned way and you get laughed at to your face. What the fuck?
Are we going to start calling people old if they think that speaking to people or using their actual identifying information to communicate is a good thing? I'm not gonna start snapchatting people, I'd feel ridiculous doing so, and if that means I never have a date again, well I can buy myself flowers and my son will have children some day, in the future. Many years in the future. I guess if we could have phone sex back in the day, people could have snapchat sex nowadays. I remember sex, I think.
If you ask for advice - please be nice to the people who are giving it to you. Especially the women, even if we are decrepit phone number, face to face flower lovers.
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Yestbergs said:mcgruff10 said:bbiggs said:If I really wanted to hang out with another married woman, I’d tell my wife to come along and have the woman’s husband come too. We love hanging with other couples and do it all the time. It’s a blast. Sometimes I’ll even spend more time chatting it up with the woman or women that aren’t my wife, and that’s totaly cool. The one on one thing just seems unnecessary.
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YesHesCalledDyer said:mcgruff10 said:njnancy said:..bbiggs said:HesCalledDyer said:The dating game has become something that has surpassed my methods. Nowadays, you have to have facebook, instragram, snapchat, etc and hunt the person down on those platforms and send dumb messages back & forth for weeks, if not months before even considering hanging out in person. I remember when that used to be called stalking. Now it's the norm. And face to face interaction or introducing yourself/asking out in person is considered "creepy." Do things the old-fashioned way and you get laughed at to your face. What the fuck?
Are we going to start calling people old if they think that speaking to people or using their actual identifying information to communicate is a good thing? I'm not gonna start snapchatting people, I'd feel ridiculous doing so, and if that means I never have a date again, well I can buy myself flowers and my son will have children some day, in the future. Many years in the future. I guess if we could have phone sex back in the day, people could have snapchat sex nowadays. I remember sex, I think.
If you ask for advice - please be nice to the people who are giving it to you. Especially the women, even if we are decrepit phone number, face to face flower lovers.0 -
YesI still say flowers are a great gift. I like flowers also. Unconventional hey!
this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -0 -
Yeslastexitlondon said:I still say flowers are a great gift. I like flowers also. Unconventional hey!0
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I like cactuses. Should go to IKEA and buy some more."Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"0
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YesI really hope that there is a message board somewhere with a new poll where Agnes is asking whether she should accept the date request.0
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Yesbootlegger10 said:I really hope that there is a message board somewhere with a new poll where Agnes is asking whether she should accept the date request.
"A smart monkey doesn't monkey around with another monkey's monkey" - Darwin's Theory0 -
Yesok who s next? Julia? Katie? Christine?I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0
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Yesbootlegger10 said:I really hope that there is a message board somewhere with a new poll where Agnes is asking whether she should accept the date request.I'll ride the wave where it takes me......0
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mcgruff10 said:ok who s next? Julia? Katie? Christine?"Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"0
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YesDoesn't Sweden have a higher ratio of women to men?
this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -0
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