Kavanaugh

PJ_Soul

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

I think you're missing the fact that peer pressure, social expectations, fears, insecurities, drugs, alcohol, and ignorance are factors for a lot of young women in such environments? And that women are no less vulnerable to negative social constructs than anyone else, and that women would be ostracized if they didn't go along with what the frat boys were doing?

... Saying that reminds me of another topic: Fraternities (and sororities) should be banned from all campuses.

mace1229

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

I thought the same thing.
Doesn't mean it isnt true, but I hope that comes up at some point. Because if it is true, she watched girls get raped, see guys line up waiting their turn to rape an unconscious girl and did nothing and continued to go to parties with the guys. What person does that? Thats some messed up stuff all around. If credible he absolutely shouldnt be a judge. But  that raises some questions either about her character or the story.

CM189191

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

apparently any semblance of how important is was to be one of the cool kids in high school

what are you missing?

dignin

Jesus. Some people are still wondering whether this guy is supreme court material?

What am I missing here?

pjhawks

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

my best guess would be, until it happened to her, she thought the girls were willing participants.  i guess the question is what did she do after it happened to her. did she continue to hang out with those scum bags or not?

cincybearcat

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

PJ_Soul

cincybearcat said:

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

It's common, not unusual. You can find girls who do this in literally every high school and college in America.

cincybearcat

PJ_Soul said:

cincybearcat said:

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

It's common, not unusual. You can find girls who do this in literally every high school and college in America.

I'd still like her adult opinion on why she did it.

josevolution

Kavanaugh is a fucking liar ..I'm not basing it on the accusations but rather his exchange with senator Harris !

Go Beavers

cincybearcat said:

PJ_Soul said:

cincybearcat said:

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

It's common, not unusual. You can find girls who do this in literally every high school and college in America.

I'd still like her adult opinion on why she did it.

How is it relevant?

Gern Blansten

cincybearcat said:

PJ_Soul said:

cincybearcat said:

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

It's common, not unusual. You can find girls who do this in literally every high school and college in America.

I'd still like her adult opinion on why she did it.

because she was a child?

PJ_Soul

cincybearcat said:

PJ_Soul said:

cincybearcat said:

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

It's common, not unusual. You can find girls who do this in literally every high school and college in America.

I'd still like her adult opinion on why she did it.

Oh sure. I was just responding to your "scary" comment... Yeah, scary. Just not unsurprising. That is the position girls have always been in - navigating a world that is dangerous and harmful in this way, without any real acknowledgement of that fact.

Halifax2TheMax

Some people seem to have difficulty understanding the culture of wealthy, white male privilege and how that plays out, from high school age to being nominated to the Supreme Court at 53. Why are the questions directed at the women? And who do you think is more likely to be telling the truth, the guy who doesn’t want an fbi investigation but went on Faux News to defend his honor or the multiple women who have come forward combined with the other known knowns? And why is his best friend holed up in a beach house? What’s he hiding or afraid of?

cincybearcat

Go Beavers said:

cincybearcat said:

PJ_Soul said:

cincybearcat said:

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

It's common, not unusual. You can find girls who do this in literally every high school and college in America.

I'd still like her adult opinion on why she did it.

How is it relevant?

Perhaps you didnt see my first comment...it's above "You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment"...

But it certainly relevant if we want to change that culture/environment moving forward.  It's very relevant.

cincybearcat

Gern Blansten said:

cincybearcat said:

PJ_Soul said:

cincybearcat said:

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

It's common, not unusual. You can find girls who do this in literally every high school and college in America.

I'd still like her adult opinion on why she did it.

because she was a child?

She's more mature and removed from the situation...she'd be a very good person to discuss how this type of culture existed and what we could do to eliminate it....no?

PJ_Soul

cincybearcat said:

Go Beavers said:

cincybearcat said:

PJ_Soul said:

cincybearcat said:

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

It's common, not unusual. You can find girls who do this in literally every high school and college in America.

I'd still like her adult opinion on why she did it.

How is it relevant?

Perhaps you didnt see my first comment...it's above "You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment"...

But it certainly relevant if we want to change that culture/environment moving forward.  It's very relevant.

Well yeah, but do you think that this particular woman should be answering such questions in this particular situation? I don't. She's got enough on her plate IMO. It's a fine and relevant question in general, but it would probably be quite unhelpful to go into it during these particular proceedings.... especially since the GOP will manage to turn it into attacking the victim.

my2hands

Halifax2TheMax said:

Some people seem to have difficulty understanding the culture of wealthy, white male privilege and how that plays out, from high school age to being nominated to the Supreme Court at 53. Why are the questions directed at the women? And who do you think is more likely to be telling the truth, the guy who doesn’t want an fbi investigation but went on Faux News to defend his honor or the multiple women who have come forward combined with the other known knowns? And why is his best friend holed up in a beach house? What’s he hiding or afraid of?

So because of white make privilege girls hang out with known gang rapists just waiting their turn?

I'm not doubting any allegations or supporting this scumbag, but to act like that isnt a legitimate/interesting question is a little silly to me. 

She said she knew they were drugging girls and gangbraping them with a line at the bedroom door.... and she continues to hang out with them for 2 years, basically just waiting her turn to get drugged? I don't know man, I find that a bit odd. 

PJ_Soul

my2hands said:

Halifax2TheMax said:

Some people seem to have difficulty understanding the culture of wealthy, white male privilege and how that plays out, from high school age to being nominated to the Supreme Court at 53. Why are the questions directed at the women? And who do you think is more likely to be telling the truth, the guy who doesn’t want an fbi investigation but went on Faux News to defend his honor or the multiple women who have come forward combined with the other known knowns? And why is his best friend holed up in a beach house? What’s he hiding or afraid of?

So because of white make privilege girls hang out with known gang rapists just waiting their turn?

I'm not doubting any allegations or supporting this scumbag, but to act like that isnt a legitimate/interesting question is a little silly to me. 

She said she knew they were drugging girls and gangbraping them with a line at the bedroom door.... and she continues to hang out with them for 2 years, basically just waiting her turn to get drugged? I don't know man, I find that a bit odd. 

Do you have a response to my explanation of it? People may not "get it" because nobody has ever given a shit before, leading others to simply remain ignorant about what is actually pretty much business as usual, but once you learn why this happens with girls, it makes sense.

Gern Blansten

https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/local/1990/02/04/area-headmasters-warn-parents-of-student-parties/06927fdb-a9fb-4a1c-89bb-8b004e21825e/?utm_term=.e51669933374

From 1990

PJ_Soul

cincybearcat said:

Gern Blansten said:

cincybearcat said:

PJ_Soul said:

cincybearcat said:

my2hands said:

Question: she knows these guys are drugging and gang raping girls in 1981... and she continues to hang out with them, becoming a victim herself in 1982? 

What am I missing?

You know it has no bearing on this SCOTUS appointment but it is a very good question to be asking her (ask to understand).  Cause that is some seriously scaring shit right there.  Knowing what is going on and continually putting yourself at risk....scary indeed.

It's common, not unusual. You can find girls who do this in literally every high school and college in America.

I'd still like her adult opinion on why she did it.

because she was a child?

She's more mature and removed from the situation...she'd be a very good person to discuss how this type of culture existed and what we could do to eliminate it....no?

  Not right now, and not if she doesn't want to.