Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
Anyways different topic, I met this girl about my age or older when I played at an open mic a few months ago. She came up to me as I was sitting down at a table and seemed very open and friendly. I caught her looking at me a few times during the night as she sat at the bar with her friend. Problem was I was with a guy I know from the scene and I felt bad if I ditched him to pursue this girl. Anyways after the gig I sent her a friend request on Facebook and she accepted, we've commented on each other's posts from time to time. She's into the Goth scene which I am not into but I find her attractive. I haven't interacted with her in a while as she deactivated and then reactivated her account due to her study commitments. Don't know how I should reinstigate contact without coming across as creepy.
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Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
So, I sat away from her in class today, as the class ended I pretty much walked out hastily to get to my next class, somehow she caught up to me and walked past me. We then got to the lift and both got in and I said hi, she said hi what's been happening. Just a few words. Got to our next class and she seemed fine. Was joking around with me. We walked to the train station with our assignment group member and she had to run to her platform as her train was a minute away leaving me and our other assignment group member. Confused.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
So, I sat away from her in class today, as the class ended I pretty much walked out hastily to get to my next class, somehow she caught up to me and walked past me. We then got to the lift and both got in and I said hi, she said hi what's been happening. Just a few words. Got to our next class and she seemed fine. Was joking around with me. We walked to the train station with our assignment group member and she had to run to her platform as her train was a minute away leaving me and our other assignment group member. Confused.
Seems you are on the right track now stay chill and cool.
So, I sat away from her in class today, as the class ended I pretty much walked out hastily to get to my next class, somehow she caught up to me and walked past me. We then got to the lift and both got in and I said hi, she said hi what's been happening. Just a few words. Got to our next class and she seemed fine. Was joking around with me. We walked to the train station with our assignment group member and she had to run to her platform as her train was a minute away leaving me and our other assignment group member. Confused.
just because shes friendly with you and jokes around with you doesnt mean she likes you in another way aside from acquaintance some people are just friendly you know
So, I sat away from her in class today, as the class ended I pretty much walked out hastily to get to my next class, somehow she caught up to me and walked past me. We then got to the lift and both got in and I said hi, she said hi what's been happening. Just a few words. Got to our next class and she seemed fine. Was joking around with me. We walked to the train station with our assignment group member and she had to run to her platform as her train was a minute away leaving me and our other assignment group member. Confused.
just because shes friendly with you and jokes around with you doesnt mean she likes you in another way aside from acquaintance some people are just friendly you know
Yeah I know. I am bad for misinterpreting. I mean I am confused with why she would not avoid me walking to the next class instead she walked fast to catch up with me.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
well she cant exactly avoid you can she ?? her aim is to probably please herself and get along with everybody whether she thinks your a creep or not
If I make a head start, dash quickly out the door to get to another building for my next class she didn't have to walk fast to catch up to me and overtake me unless she wanted me to talk to her. I tried my best.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
most girls like to be friendly and friendly with everybody its their aim to be happy and easy going even with people they never consider going out with or they dont get along with girls will try to overlook that if they are a easy going person and try to go with the flow.. curiosity you have to be careful you dont mistaken that for her liking you or attracted to you because you could give the wrong message again and get blown off again and feel horrible all over again if you get along with her just be her friend and if you feel she steps your boundaries dont forget to mention to her you were sorry you creeped her out about her home town and that you felt hurt you creeped her out and that made you feel like not pursuing anything further than acquaintance with her then see what she says but honestly if she was flirting with you it would be jokes of you and her in the picture in a playful romantic sense so read carefully.. overwise she could just be a teaser in that case shes trouble
jokes would involve the both of you in a picture like setting like if i were to say... ''if i had a day off today.. i would be at the beach with cocktails getting a suntan and you would probably be snorkeling the water looking for jaws'' lol
see that your in the picture at the beach with her when you dont need to be involved so its flirting kinda but if its with you and her in the picture at college it wouldnt count bc you have to be there do you get what i mean??
jokes would involve the both of you in a picture like setting like if i were to say... ''if i had a day off today.. i would be at the beach with cocktails getting a suntan and you would probably be snorkeling the water looking for jaws'' lol
see that your in the picture at the beach with her when you dont need to be involved so its flirting kinda but if its with you and her in the picture at college it wouldnt count bc you have to be there do you get what i mean??
Yeah...just lol But why is that a joke? I don't understand what you mean
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
Hey, JWP, TA...you're both in Australia, why don't you two get together and chat?
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you know how many guys do goofy shit because of women? billions of them & it is repeated by them all a lot. your situation is not unique, if that is the right word to use? it is perfectly well to be a fuck up when it comes to the opposite sex. eventually that screwing shit up irons itself out & you land someone good for you & you good for them. this may take more than one go & that's ok.
just be a good dude & everything will be well. then again overly friendly sucks when you're get to know someone, its a balancing act for sure
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Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
http://www.nicknotas.com/blog/older-men-who-like-younger-women-arent-creeps/
Anyways different topic,
I met this girl about my age or older when I played at an open mic a few months ago. She came up to me as I was sitting down at a table and seemed very open and friendly. I caught her looking at me a few times during the night as she sat at the bar with her friend. Problem was I was with a guy I know from the scene and I felt bad if I ditched him to pursue this girl. Anyways after the gig I sent her a friend request on Facebook and she accepted, we've commented on each other's posts from time to time. She's into the Goth scene which I am not into but I find her attractive. I haven't interacted with her in a while as she deactivated and then reactivated her account due to her study commitments. Don't know how I should reinstigate contact without coming across as creepy.
Simple and straighforward as that.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
All that I once held as true
I stand alone without beliefs
The only truth I know is you.
no confusion about it
her aim is to probably please herself and get
along with everybody whether she thinks
your a creep or not
I tried my best.
its their aim to be happy and easy going even with people
they never consider going out with or they dont get along with
girls will try to overlook that if they are a easy going person
and try to go with the flow.. curiosity
you have to be careful you dont mistaken that for her liking you
or attracted to you because you could give the wrong message
again and get blown off again and feel horrible all over again
if you get along with her just be her friend and if you feel she
steps your boundaries dont forget to mention to her you were
sorry you creeped her out about her home town and that you
felt hurt you creeped her out and that made you feel like not
pursuing anything further than acquaintance with her
then see what she says but honestly if she was flirting with
you it would be jokes of you and her in the picture in a playful
romantic sense so read carefully..
overwise she could just be a teaser in that case shes trouble
"but honestly if she was flirting with
you it would be jokes of you and her in the picture in a playful
romantic sense so read carefully.."
I didn't get what you mean sorry?
like if i were to say... ''if i had a day off today.. i would be at the beach with cocktails getting a suntan and you would probably be snorkeling the water looking for jaws'' lol
see that your in the picture at the beach with her when you dont need to be involved
so its flirting kinda
but if its with you and her in the picture at college it wouldnt count bc you have to be there
do you get what i mean??
Don't be confused.
Don't read anything into it.
Do the assignment. Be courteous and that is it.
Let it go.
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But why is that a joke? I don't understand what you mean
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you know how many guys do goofy shit because of women? billions of them & it is repeated by them all a lot. your situation is not unique, if that is the right word to use? it is perfectly well to be a fuck up when it comes to the opposite sex. eventually that screwing shit up irons itself out & you land someone good for you & you good for them. this may take more than one go & that's ok.
just be a good dude & everything will be well. then again overly friendly sucks when you're get to know someone, its a balancing act for sure
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I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
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